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Welcome back to the unSeminary podcast. This week I’m excited to be talking with Stephen Moore, the Director of WinShape Camps for Communities. WinShape, an organization started in 1985 by Truett Cathy, the founder of Chick-fil-A, started as a college program and has since grown into five different ministries, with focuses on professional development, marriages, foster care, college discipleship, and summer camps. WinShape Camps for Communities is a traveling day camp program that partners with churches to bring camps to communities all over the US while spreading the gospel of Jesus.

Are you looking for a fun and engaging way to reach more families in your community with the gospel? Want to create opportunities for college-age kids to gain ministry experience while developing their leadership? Listen in as Stephen talks about the importance of children’s ministry in shaping the future of the church as well as the transformative power of camps for campers, their families, and the summer staff.

  • Children are the future. // Children’s ministry is more than just a place to keep kids occupied during services. The future of the church is children; the gospel is for them too. WinShape Camps for Communities wants to help build local, engaged church members from a young age in the places they visit. They don’t water down the gospel at the camps so the kids who attend can come to a knowing relationship with Christ.
  • Engaging kids. // The mission statement of WinShape Camps for Communities is to glorify God by creating experiences that transform campers and families with the message of Christ. Don’t just entertain kids by showing videos in your kids ministry, but invest in discipleship and be intentional to engage them as they learn about Jesus.
  • Form a bond. // WinShape Camps for Communities is about embracing all-out-fun and all-out-faith. By spending time with the kids at camp and investing with them in the activities they enjoy, the staffers build trust and form a bond them. Then when the time comes for the WinShape staff to share the gospel, the kids are ready to open up and listen. Camp is a setting where the gospel can come alive in a way that it doesn’t in day-to-day life at home.
  • Bringing camp to you. // Not everyone can afford or feels comfortable sending their children to overnight camps. WinShape Camps for Communities partners with churches and local businesses to bring camp to a community. The traveling camps provide a safe and fun environment for children during the summer, while also incorporating the gospel and faith into the activities which range from sports and crafts to science experiments.
  • Work with others in your community. // WinShape Camp for Communities is for local churches in a community, not just one church by itself. WinShape hosts a big event every January and invites host churches for a rally in Atlanta. There is a three-day event with guest speakers to teach and empower church leaders. They are also invited to bring up to eight people from different churches with them. When they go back home, these churches are given information on how to engage with other businesses and churches to invite them to partner with the traveling camp.
  • WinShape brings everything. // The churches partnering with WinShape don’t have to provide anything other than volunteers to help connect with the kids. WinShape Camps for Communities bring everything with them, including all the necessary equipment and resources for the activities. Everything they do ties back to the gospel, including flag football, where they take breaks for short devotionals. By providing volunteers from the local churches to work with the kids, the kids will see familiar faces if their family decides to attend services at the church.
  • An opportunity for young adults. // Working as summer staff at camps is an invaluable experience for college-age kids as well. Regardless of a young person’s area of study in college, working at a camp contributes to their personal and spiritual growth as well as helping develop their leadership skills. Plus, the impact of working with kids and families to make a difference in their lives is priceless.

You can find out more about WinShape Camps for Communities at www.winshapecamp.org.

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Episode Transcript

Rich Birch — Well hey, everybody; welcome to the unSeminary podcast. So glad that you have decided to tune in. I’m really looking forward to today. You know it’s summertime and you know when you think of summer you think of camps, and so today ah we’ve brought you a bit of a different look on leadership on something that all of us I really do think should be reflecting with. You know every week we try to bring you a leader who will both inspire and equip you and today will be absolutely no exception to that. Super excited to have Stephen Moore with us. He serves as the Director of WinShapes Camps for Communities, a traveling day camp program that brings camps ah to churches all over the country. Ah where he’s ah he’s served with WinShape camps for over sixteen years. Stephen has recruited literally thousands of summer staff to bring the gospel of Jesus and even more more ah to even more campers and families. Super excited for ah Stephen to be on the show. He’s he’s also excited for the local church. And we’re looking forward to learning more from him today. Thanks for being here today, Stephen.

Stephen Moore — Happy to be here, Rich. Thank you for having me and excited to engage with you about camp and about what we’re talking about this morning.

Rich Birch — Yeah, why don’t you kind of ah tell what did I miss about WinShape, tell us about WinShape folks that don’t know about about you guys or your mission, kind of talk us through that a little bit.

Stephen Moore — Yeah I’d love to. Um, WinShape was started in 1985. It was ah founded and started by the founder of Chick-Fil-A, Truett Cathy um, and it originally started with the college program at Barry College in Rome, Georgia, and then soon after a overnight camps for boys was added. Then the next summer an overnight camp for girls was added. And so about forty years ago WinShape got its start and today it has grown into five different unique ministries. So we focus on professional development. We focus on marriages, focus on homes, we focus on college discipleship. And specifically where I work we focus on summer camps.

Stephen Moore — So we have five overnight summer camps in North Georgia. We we have teams in Costa Rica and Brazil right now doing summer camps in those countries. And then we do traveling day camps all over the entire United States as you mentioned a little bit ago, and that’s what I have the opportunity to specifically work with – our traveling day camps.

Rich Birch — Love it. This is so good. And we were just before we got recorded, today we’re recording this literally on like the opening day. And so the fact that Stephen is sitting down with us for a half an hour is pretty amazing. So we really appreciate uh your time with us. I know you’re passionate about this.

Rich Birch — And, you know, I was about a month ago just maybe over a month ago I saw an interesting article entitled “Pastors, Children’s Ministry is More Than a Place to Keep Kids Occupied.” And I sat up and I was like, Ooo, that is so true and resonates with so much we talk about here at unSeminary. And so I wanted to get Stephen on to talk about that. That’s a bold title ah, because you know you’re saying maybe there are churches that are just keeping kids occupied. Ah what’s the opportunity that maybe some churches are missing by just kind of having a lower view of kids ministry? Talk us through that.

Stephen Moore — Yeah. I mean I think we see it even in scripture in Mark when Jesus says hey let the little children come to me. You know, the disciples and others are trying to stop that and he he sees and he knows that, hey no, the gospel is also for for children. It’s for everybody. And so we see it in scripture and we believe that at WinShape. Um, we often say at WinShape, we are not the local church but we are for and support the local church. So if you’re a pastor listening to this, we thank you for the ministry you’re doing, and we want to come alongside and support you in that.

Stephen Moore — Um, I think the sad reality is there are people leaving the church. Um, and we’re seeing that and so we want to focus on them and we want to engage them. But we um also know the future of the church is children. You know, seven year olds today are going to be twenty-seven year olds in 20 years. And we want them to be plugged in and invested in their local church. So what we want to create and help build are local engaged church members. And we think doing that at a young age is important. So we do not water down the gospel at Winshape Camps. No, we boldly preach and teach the gospel. And we want kids to come to a ah knowing relationship with Christ um, while at camp and then while in their local church. So, a way that we do that is is through our mission statement. We glorify God by creating experiences that transform campers and families with the message of Jesus Christ. And so we would hope that churches do that with their children’s ministries. Hey, don’t just engage them. Don’t just entertain them. Don’t just throw on Youtube videos and have fun. No, engage them with the message of Jesus Christ and let church be a place where they are able to hear and learn about Him, and ultimately hopefully grow in a relationship with him.

Rich Birch — I love that. And you know one of the things we’ve seen about growing churches that are making an impact is they are next generation obsessed. They’re thinking about kids. This is a key piece of the puzzle that you can’t just kind of phone this in. You’ve got to, you know, think about it strategically, you have to invest in it. You’ve got to ah, give great resources towards that. Why do you think you know maybe some churches struggle with this. Maybe it’s the you know more the investment, the finding people. What is the what’s the sticking point there that maybe holds ah you know, churches back, or the churches that you’ve maybe engaged with or seen out there that have, you know, maybe struggle with this?

Stephen Moore — Yeah. I think um I think some of them is the resources and the volunteers. You know, in order to have a ah thriving children’s ministry you need to have folks volunteer and engage with that. And so I know that that’s that’s something even at WinShape we’ve struggled the last few years and engaging and hiring our summer staffers. Um, there’s so many options for people. Um, and we think working at camp, I mean any camp not just WinShape, is one of the best ways you can spend your college summers. I did it for four summers and I grew so much in that. So I think that’s one reason.

Stephen Moore — And I think too ah, it is work. You know, I think there is an element of oh well, we could just make children’s ministry or our children’s program really simple and entertaining and it won’t take as much like discipleship and investment. But what we do at camp is work. It’s tough work but it’s so rewarding. And it’s so life changing that it’s worth that additional investment in going that, what we would say WinShape, that second mile. I’m going that second mile second to be able to engage with people and invest um within them in a deeper, not just entertaining, but in a life-changing way.

Rich Birch — I love that. Well WinShape, ah you know, your reputation as an organization is just so positive. You know, high quality. Um, you know, people that engage with WinShape are just like, Man, they do just do such great stuff. And one of the things that um I’ve heard people say and then when I was doing a little bit of research I see you actually talked about it, or I read on your website, you talk about all-out-fun and all-out-faith, which I just love that. I love this idea of, hey, our our ministry is both of those things. Can you talk us through that? What does that look like, because man, I think that’s something our churches could learn. How how can we have all-out-fun and all-out-faith at the same time?

Stephen Moore — Yeah, that’s that’s a great ah great question. I think what we do and what we try to do is we try to build trust with children. We try to allow them to, you know, play soccer or flag football, or go to gymnastics or painting or crafts or fast food or wacky science. Those are just some of our our skill offerings. We go out out of the rec field and play games, and we listen to what the children are interested in because we know if they are able to engage with that counselor, if they’re able to engage with the volunteer, there’s going to be a trust built. In over 3 or 4 days um then when that staffer wants to sit down and and tell them about the gospel, that kid’s going to be more engaged to listen because they know that that staffer or that volunteer cares about them.

Stephen Moore — Um, and so I remember sitting down with a dad last year he came and he told me he said, thank you for the ministry you do. It’s so meaningful because we teach our kids these things in the home each and every day. But when they hear it from a 22 year old college student that cares about them, that invest in them, that wants to engage with them in whatever that activity is they hear it in a different way. It’s a reinforcement of what it’s taught at home and so that child is more open and receptive to the gospel in that setting because they’re a place they’re they’re doing activities they’re not normally doing. And they’re engaging in fun in a way they normally don’t. And so their faith can grow while at camp. Thats at any sort of camp – at our overnight camps, center day camps. There’s a lot of great Christian camps across America. We we think WinShapes one, but there are other ones too that I think it’s a camp is a setting where the gospel can come alive in a way that maybe doesn’t in ah in a day-to-day activity at home.

Rich Birch — Yeah, I’ve I’ve joked and now you didn’t say this; I’ve said this. So don’t this is don’t don’t take this in a negative way. But I’ve joked in other settings because I’m a huge camp booster. I think it’s really important for for families to engage with. I think it’s really important for, like you say, young leaders – it’s an incredible place to work, whether it’s WinShape or other places. But I’ve joked in other contexts I said, you know, like in a lot of churches ah Jesus has like a bit of a moldy basement and and maybe like ah some you know flannel board or something like that. But when you go to camp, Jesus there, man, he’s like super engaging. He’s got all kinds of fun activities. He’s going to, you know, it’s bright and sunny out and you’re running around outdoors, doing something amazing. What an incredible context for the message of Jesus to ah, you know, to resonate. Just incredible. I just think that’s it’s one of the things that makes camp ministry just so important, I think for kids particularly.

Rich Birch — What what does it look like? So I have to be honest until I engaged with you on this, I did not know that WinShape did day camps. So this is like a learning experience for me. What does that look like when you, you know, you end up partnering with a place, and what kind of activities – how does that all work? Give us a sense of what that kind of looks like.

Stephen Moore — Yeah, of course. And and you mentioned a few minutes ago camp started this morning so yesterday…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Stephen Moore — …our five overnight camps kicked off. So parents were dropping off yesterday afternoon, and they’re on day two.Day camp started this morning at 8am in ten different communities across the US.

Rich Birch — Wow.

Stephen Moore — So um, we have 10 different teams and those teams we just finished two weeks of training together.

Rich Birch — Okay.

Stephen Moore — So we brought all our WinShape summer staffers together. We professionally and intentionally trained them in their activities, in safety, in gospel presentation, and we send them on the road. Um.

Stephen Moore — And so we what we understand is not everyone can afford an overnight camp experience, nor are parents comfortable. You know some parents might say, hey, I’m not ready to send my first grader away for a week or two, but I do want them to experience camp. So what we said is, well, let’s take camp on the road.

Stephen Moore — Parents are also looking for things to do with their children while not in school during the summer. And a safe and a fun environment is important to them. We agree, but let’s put the gospel and faith in it as well.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Stephen Moore — Um, and so that’s what we do. Um so we partner with local businesses. We partner with local churches. And I think if even Florence, South Carolina we’re doing camp there in a few weeks. 25 different churches come together and send kids to camp there.

Rich Birch — Wow, wow!

Stephen Moore — It’s not just one church. It’s WinShape Camps for Communities. We want to be for that whole community.

Rich Birch — Oh that’s good. That’s good.

Stephen Moore — Um, and so we’re doing camp… yeah… in Texas and Florida and Illinois, all the way out to California and New Mexico and Oklahoma and everywhere in between. So um, we come in, we we set up on Sunday we go to church, we attend church at that local church. We set up all day Sunday and then Monday morning through Thursday camps from 8 to 5 and then Fridays our big Friday family fun day. So we we bring in all the parents, all the cousins, and the grandparents, and we feed them lunch. And then our day wraps up, our team packs up, and they go to the next location.

Rich Birch — Oh my goodness. Love it.

Stephen Moore — But I want to focus real quick on… Um, yeah, it’s it’s a fun…

Rich Birch — That’s amazing. That’s clearly university, college students doing that. That’s a grinder. What an incredible summer though. That’s so fun being on the road. Sorry didn’t mean to cut you off there.

Stephen Moore — Yeah, no, you’re good. You’re good. We um, we want our staffers to build really intentional relationships with the campers and invest in them. But more importantly, we want local church volunteers there as well. Because we know on Friday we’re packing up and we’re headed to the next town. We we intentionally ask the church to provide a volunteer for every 10 campers.

Rich Birch — Okay.

Stephen Moore — So if there’s going to be 380 campers one week, we want 38 volunteers. Because on Sunday morning when that kid maybe comes back to church for the first time, which happens so often because the parents are like, Man, my child had such a fun week. We don’t go to church. Maybe we should try this place out on Sunday morning. They come on Sunday morning. They’re going to see familiar faces because there’s 38 volunteers that were with us all week are going to be there on Sunday so that child is going to immediately feel that safety and that comfort. And they’re going to even want to be more involved there. So that’s something we also do. That that volunteer component is really important to us.

Rich Birch — Can you give me a sense of the like the scale, the scope of a kind of typical WinShape Day Camp? Like is this, like you mentioned you know, almost 400, 380 kids – is that kind of typical, is that what that is typically looking like, or are they larger smaller?

Stephen Moore — Yeah, well…

Rich Birch — What, you know…

Stephen Moore — Yeah, we’re…

Rich Birch — I know they’re all different, I get that.

Stephen Moore — No, that’s a good question. We um, our average camp size is usually around 250 to 280 campers…

Rich Birch — Yep, okay.

Stephen Moore — …um per per our day camps. Our community camps um we will have some that are going to be closer to 550 campers…

Rich Birch — Wow.

Stephen Moore — …and then we’ll have some that are closer to 175. So um we bring in either a team of 20 to 25 people, or if it’s a really large camp. We’ll actually send two teams to one location.

Rich Birch — Okay, that makes sense.

Stephen Moore — So this week we have ten unique locations. Next week we might have a really large location so we’ll send two teams there. So we’ll have nine unique communities. So this summer we’re doing 84 weeks of camp over the next nine weeks.

Rich Birch — Wow. That’s amazing. And um, that’s incredible. It’s so cool. What when at the kind of community level. So is that I talk me through how churches are working together on this. I love that idea of like, hey, maybe there’s a group of churches that are trying to leverage this kind of opportunity. What what does that look like maybe maybe if you could have your like perfect hey this would be amazing if we did this everywhere that would be incredible. What does that kind of look like?

Stephen Moore — Yeah, you know it kind of goes back to our name WinShape Camps for Communities. We are for communities and for the local churches in that community, not just one church. So what we we do a big event every January where we bring in a lot of our host churches. We call it Host Rally. We fly them in um, to Atlanta we do a very like 3-day training. We bring in speakers, guests. We want to enrich and empower them. We know church leaders and pastors can sometimes, it’s a struggle. And so we want it to be ah a very faith-fi like encouraging weekend but we also want to equip them to do camp.

Stephen Moore — So we invite them to bring up to up to 8 people, if they want, from different churche and a leadership team. And so it’s not just First Baptist Church or whatever church. It might be 3 or 4 churches coming to that event. And when we when we send them back home, we encourage them, we help them, we resource them: Hey, this is how you can go engage with other businesses and other churches and invite them to come to camp. Um that that church I mentioned a few days ago or a few minutes ago, 25 different churches from that community. That community had over 80 families attend camp that don’t regularly attend church.

Rich Birch — Wow, interesting.

Stephen Moore — So there might have been 120 families that do. There’s 80 families right there that don’t attend or engage with the church that sent their child to a church for five days during a week. So they’re gonna be so much more likely to say, hey, I want to get plugged in because my child had an awesome experience at camp. They came back changed. We hear that so many times from parents – the child I dropped off on Monday isn’t the same child that I picked up on Friday afternoon; something changed this week. And what we think is, it’s the gospel. We think it’s Jesus. They were introduced to him and engaged it with him in a way they’ve never had before. And so then that parent’s like, you know what? I want to try that out. So we think camp is such a great tool to help local churches connect with people in their community that they normally wouldn’t have the opportunity to do with.

Rich Birch — Love it. How, at the kind of participant or at the camper level, how do WinShape Camps for Communities differentiate against other… like what kind of activities are you doing and what is that like? So again, I can picture your overnight camp experience and I’m trying to picture how do you get that into the back of a bus and move it.

Stephen Moore — Yeah.

Rich Birch — Um, you know what does that look like?

Stephen Moore — Yeah, sometimes people are like…

Rich Birch — You can’t bring those nice hills in Georgia; you can’t move those nice hills in Georgia you can’t, you know, to everywhere across the country, you know.

Stephen Moore — That’s right, we’ll figure out a way to do that. Um, so I think some people are like, is it just VBS on steroids? And we’re like no, it’s it’s more than that. So you know, we just sent our teams out. They travel in two 15-passenger vans, two 26-foot moving trucks, and an additional pickup truck. So that’s what’s great for these churches. You don’t have to provide anything; just provide us some volunteers and some space to do it.

Rich Birch — Wow.

Stephen Moore — We bring everything with us. We bring our sound and our tech equipment. We bring LED walls. We bring an incredible, impressive set with us. Um we bring in 18 different skill offerings from flag football to soccer, to wacky science to archery. You know, we bring in targets and bows and arrows, because we think these campers maybe don’t get an experience this every day. So Let’s do something new for them. We haven’t quite figured out how to bring the horses on the road with us. So horseback riding’s just at our overnight camps. But rocketry – that’s something we bring in…

Rich Birch — Yeah, that’s so fun.

Stephen Moore — …little kids get to shoot off rockets into the air at camp in that skill. So um and again camp is from 8 to 5, and we often hear parents tell us—and the reason this is fresh on my mind is because I just let a session at this at staff training a few days ago—that it’s their child’s favorite and best week of the summer every single year…

Rich Birch — Sure.

Stephen Moore — …and they can’t wait for us to come back to the next year. And we know that’s not just unique to WinShape camps. We know that that that’s just camp in general. It’s such a special unique thing, but we want to be really intentional about what we do at camp and have it tie back to the Gospel. So if we’re taking flag football, we’re in that skill for 50 minutes, we’re taking a water break at 15 minutes in, we’re going to sit down and do a short devo. And we’re going to just, hey, for the next three minutes let’s have a water break and let’s look at a piece of scripture and how that ties into the rest of the day.So we’re intentionally trying to do that through each and everything we do at camp.

Rich Birch — Yeah, I love that That’s so good. Again this is fantastic. Love what you guys are up to. If there’s churches out there like that are thinking maybe this is the kind of thing I want to pursue, um are there kind of some characteristics or something you’re looking for in churches that would you’d love to partner with? I’m assuming you’re interested in partnering with new churches because you’re talking on this thing. Ah, but you know you might be looking, and obviously not for this summer but for following summers. But yeah, what what would you, you know, who are the kind of churches you’re looking for, what are some of the traits, what does that look like?

Stephen Moore — Yeah, that’s a great question. Um, so you might disagree with this and that’s okay.

Rich Birch — Sure.

Stephen Moore — We’re not looking for a camp to just come do camp for the kids in your children’s ministry.

Rich Birch — Yes, great. Love it.

Stephen Moore — We think those kids are very, very important. We think those kids need to hear the gospel and we want those kids at camp. Absolutely we want them there. But we want you to be interested in hosting camp to reach kids outside of your doors…

Rich Birch — Love it.

Stephen Moore — …to reach your community. That is really important to us and that’s one of the main characteristics we’re looking for in our churches. Are you someone that wants to get outside your walls, meet people in the community. And sometimes that’s difficult and challenging. Sometimes you know people might step into your door on Sunday morning that don’t look or, you know, act like the rest of your church, but those people need the gospel. The kids in your children’s ministry need the gospel, the kids at the church, you know, three blocks down the street need it. So we want it to be a community church that’s trying to engage with other areas and people in the community that aren’t typically in your doors on a Sunday morning. That’s really important to us.

Rich Birch — Yeah, that’s fantastic. I love that. And I love the you know the check they’re around that sounds like the kind of thing like most churches are going to agree with that. But you got to ask the second question, do you really? Ah because, you know, we want to see that happen in our ministries, but then when it happens and the complexity that can come there…

Stephen Moore — Yeah.

Rich Birch — …um, you know we have to be ready for that for sure. So I love that. Do you, um you know, in in the actual programming, do break up into small groups at any point and kind of help kids wrestle with, is there… you talked about like video walls and all that, is there like worship experiences? Give give us a sense of those kinds of that that kind of part of the program.

Stephen Moore — Yeah, that’s yeah I can give you just a quick flyover of our day. So we get there…

Rich Birch — That’s perfect.

Stephen Moore — …kids come, they’re jumping on inflatables. As kids arrive, we call it, you know, kind of arrival village training. So um, and then there’s put in different villages. So we have ocean, safari and alpine. And these are funny terms, I know, bu you know we break it down to kindergarten and first grade is 1one age. Second and third grade is another age. And fourth, fifth and some communities sixth grade is our next age. And they’re going to small groups with kids their specific age.

Stephen Moore — Um, we design our camper curriculum, that’s age specific. So ah, first grader is going to have a camper book and a camper guide that looks different than fifth graders. Um, because we want it to we want to engage in with them with the gospel in an age appropriate way. Um, they’re going to three different auditorium elements a day. and in these auditorium elements we have a worship leader that’s leading different songs and different activities. We have a theme director that’s delivering what we would call Christ-centerered truths. In our theme of the day this summer we’re going on a road trip through the life of David.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Stephen Moore — So we’re looking at a different story and a different example of the life of David every day. And we’re just tying it back on Wednesday with our gospel message on what it looks like to to be adopted as a son and daughter of Christ. And so we’re teaching that um each and every day at camp. But then we’re also kids get to sign up for four different skills. So we have, you know, so anywhere between 15 and 20 different skill offerings. And kids get to go to four of those throughout the week of camp, and those they get to choose. Um, we do rec every day, and then we do team time twice a day. And in that team time setting, that’s more of the small group bible study setting where they’re diving deeper with maybe you know 12 to 14 other kids on what the message is that day. So, it’s a fun-filled day, and they go home tired.

Rich Birch — I love it.

Stephen Moore — Um, but it’s incredible.

Rich Birch — Yeah, I love it.

Stephen Moore — Yeah.

Rich Birch — Yeah, I love it. And I think the transferable, listen you might be listening in and saying, listen, we’re not going to run this at our our church, which is okay. But the thing I do want you to think about is man how can you inject some fun, some intentionality, some um, you know, some thoughtful process – you can hear even in just how Steven’s unpacking that. Man, there’s there’s a lot of thinking around how all of that fits together, so that it speaks the language, that it appeals to kids, obviously parents love it. They’re like this is a great. this is a great thing and want to partner with that. It’s intentionally, outward focus intentionally, saying hey we want to reach people in our community. Just love that. I hope that inspires you as you’re listening in today. Kind of as we come to wrap up, anything you’d love to, you know, so you know, say as we kind of wrap up today’s conversation?

Stephen Moore —Yeah, Rich, you just used some some words that we use often at camp. We call it the WinShapeCamps recipe. So right now we’re doing 17 different camps as we speak. Those 17 camps are 10 community camps in the US, a community camp in Brazil, and a community there are a community camp in Costa Rica, and 5 overnight camps. What we want is we want to be cooking the WinShape Camps recipe wherever we’re doing camp.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Stephen Moore — And that keeps us in line. And I’ll just quickly do a flyover those recipe ingredients…

Rich Birch — Yes, let’s do it.

Stephen Moore — …and you know, I would invite any church to do those. Um so resource stewardship – we want to use our resources and take care of the things God’s entrusted to us – um, equipment stewardship. I mean um, sorry we’ve we’ve changed some of these names.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Stephen Moore — So Christ-centered truths is another one. So we want we want everything we do to have, you know, Christ as a part of it. Intentional culture. We want to be intentional about the little things we do. So a camper, they’re no longer just stepping foot into you know a local school or local church. They’re stepping foot into the Safari village where they’re a lion and they get to be with their other lions. So we’re gonna be doing cheers and we’re be doing games throughout the day.

Stephen Moore — Want to be people-first. We care about our people. We care about our summer staffers. We care about our volunteers. We care about our our campers. And engaging fun is our last one. We think everything we do, if fun’s involved, kids are going to be more receptive and understanding to hear, hear about Jesus. So um, that’s kind of our WinShape Camps recipe. And so any…

Rich Birch — Love it.

Stephen Moore — …church could do that. just like it doesn’t have to be that. But as you do children’s ministry. How can those elements be a part of what you do?

Rich Birch — Yeah that’s so good. I love that. I love how those hang together to really create a compelling ministry for, you know, for kids. And I know there’s people are listening in today that have found that, you know, just super helpful. So ah, really appreciate that. Well as we wrap up, if if people want to track with you or track with WinShape, where do we want to send them online? How do we want to, you know, get them connected with you?

Stephen Moore — Yeah, that’s that’s a great question – winshapecamps.org – you’ll be able to choose our overnight camps or our day camps is one it’s going to be your first dropdown option. So that’s one way to get connected. I think my email’s on there. But if it’s not, it’s smoore@winshape.org – um, so S-M-O-O-R-E um and so you could do that. Another thing I didn’t hit on yet, Rich…

Rich Birch — Yeah.

Stephen Moore — …but I just want to real quick before we leave…

Rich Birch — Absolutely.

Stephen Moore — …um is we want to engage with campers and we think it’s really important, but also I think working as summer as a summer staffer is an unbelievable value experience a valuable experience. I have 3 kids of my my own. They’re 2, 2, and 5, and I genuinely think the practical summer examples I had while working camp were very helpful for me, and they translate to any and every job out there. You could be studying chemistry and working camps still going to be a good beneficial thing for you to do during the summer. So if you know anyone of that college age, you know, 18 to 25 that you think could work camp or would be a good fit for WinShape, send them to us as well because we would love to be able to have them spend a summer with us to grow and be able to share their faith.

Rich Birch — Totally. I heartily endorse that. Ah you know, I do think like I said earlier I think the camp experience is fantastic for kids. It’s a great kind of thing to be a part of, but I really think to be honest, the sweet spot where the the place where God seems to have his ah, uses these experiences I think particularly as on that staff age transition as as young leaders. You know, man, it’s just something amazing happens ah when a young leader dedicates their summer, or like you say, all four you know summers of theirs, you know, college summers kind of thing. Man I just love that. That’s so good.

Rich Birch — Well I appreciate you coming on the show today, Stephen. I hope the rest of the summer, I know it will be fantastic, but we’re cheering for you. Thanks for giving us some time today.

Stephen Moore — Yes, Rich. I appreciate it, and thanks for the time.

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Welcome back to the unSeminary podcast. This week I’m excited to be talking with Stephen Moore, the Director of WinShape Camps for Communities. WinShape, an organization started in 1985 by Truett Cathy, the founder of Chick-fil-A, started as a college program and has since grown into five different ministries, with focuses on professional development, marriages, foster care, college discipleship, and summer camps. WinShape Camps for Communities is a traveling day camp program that partners with churches to bring camps to communities all over the US while spreading the gospel of Jesus.



Are you looking for a fun and engaging way to reach more families in your community with the gospel? Want to create opportunities for college-age kids to gain ministry experience while developing their leadership? Listen in as Stephen talks about the importance of children’s ministry in shaping the future of the church as well as the transformative power of camps for campers, their families, and the summer staff.




* Children are the future. // Children’s ministry is more than just a place to keep kids occupied during services. The future of the church is children; the gospel is for them too. WinShape Camps for Communities wants to help build local, engaged church members from a young age in the places they visit. They don’t water down the gospel at the camps so the kids who attend can come to a knowing relationship with Christ.



* Engaging kids. // The mission statement of WinShape Camps for Communities is to glorify God by creating experiences that transform campers and families with the message of Christ. Don’t just entertain kids by showing videos in your kids ministry, but invest in discipleship and be intentional to engage them as they learn about Jesus.



* Form a bond. // WinShape Camps for Communities is about embracing all-out-fun and all-out-faith. By spending time with the kids at camp and investing with them in the activities they enjoy, the staffers build trust and form a bond them. Then when the time comes for the WinShape staff to share the gospel, the kids are ready to open up and listen. Camp is a setting where the gospel can come alive in a way that it doesn’t in day-to-day life at home.



* Bringing camp to you. // Not everyone can afford or feels comfortable sending their children to overnight camps. WinShape Camps for Communities partners with churches and local businesses to bring camp to a community. The traveling camps provide a safe and fun environment for children during the summer, while also incorporating the gospel and faith into the activities which range from sports and crafts to science experiments.



* Work with others in your community. // WinShape Camp for Communities is for local churches in a community, not just one church by itself. WinShape hosts a big event every January and invites host churches for a rally in Atlanta. There is a three-day event with guest speakers to teach and empower church leaders. They are also invited to bring up to eight people from different churches with them. When they go back home, these churches are given information on how to engage with other businesses and churches to invite them to partner with the traveling camp.



* WinShape brings everything. // The churches partnering with WinShape don’t have to provide anything other than volunteers to help connect with the kids. WinShape Camps for Communities bring everything with them, including all the necessary equipment and resources for the activities. Everything they do ties back to the gospel, including flag football, where they take breaks for short devotionals. By providing volunteers from the local churches to work with the kids,]]>
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Thanks for tuning in to the unSeminary podcast. We’re talking with Stevie Flockhart, Lead Pastor of 901 Church in Tennessee.

Have you ever struggled with the desire for personal recognition and validation in ministry? In this unSeminary podcast episode Stevie shares his personal journey and struggles with comparison and the desire for success. Listen in as he examines critical lessons we can learn from failures, the importance of cultivating a culture of vulnerability on your team, and insights on discipleship.

  • The comparison trap. // On some level everyone struggles with the temptation to compare themselves to others and receive recognition from man instead of God. Stevie admits that as a leader who wanted to make a difference in the world, the desire for validation and achieving was a struggle. However, through two failed church plants, God gently pruned Stevie so that he learned to lift up the name of Jesus and be faithful with small things. All of this eventually prepared him for planting 901 Church in 2019.
  • Free to fail. // Stevie’s experiences have given him the opportunity to create a culture at 901 Church where people are free to fail. The staff is encouraged to be wise and be good stewards, but also to be vulnerable, take a risk and not be afraid of failing. Failure teaches us and builds character, making us the people we are today.
  • Enjoy the journey. // We can be so focused on the destination that we don’t pay attention to the journey we are on. But Stevie says the destination is often a mirage. There is a lot of dysfunction in the idea that if we just get to our destination we will be fulfilled and satisfied. Only Jesus can satisfy us so we need to learn to enjoy the journey, both the successes and the failures.
  • Learning from others. // In an effort to avoid comparison, we can’t to hide from others. Stevie says while we don’t want to compare results, it’s valuable to compare disciplines, principles or values and to ask what we can learn from others who are farther along than us on the journey. If we want to learn from others, we have to be willing to do the things others did to get where they are.
  • Apprenticeship. // Both discipleship and evangelism must be prioritized for effective ministry. In addition to offering groups and serve teams, 901 Church has an apprentice program where staff and other leaders meet with two to four people twice a month in order to grow their relationship with Jesus. In addition to reading books and doing things like scripture memorization, they have a lot of conversation around two questions: What is God teaching you right now? What are you doing about it? This intentional discipleship process becomes a pipeline that raises up leaders within the church.
  • Don’t go alone. // Stevie credits the success and growth of 901 Church to the financial and practical support they received from other churches and networks along the way. As a church leader or church planter, seek wise counsel from others who are farther along in the journey. Part of the way Stevie shares his own learnings is through participation with the Extraordinary Church Collective and also as co-host, along with his wife, of the Essentials podcast.

You can learn more about 901 Church at 901church.com, plus listen to the Essentials podcast there. If you’re a church planter, connect with Extraordinary Church Collective here.

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Episode Transcript

Rich Birch — Well, hey, friends, welcome to the unSeminary podcast. So glad that you have tuned in today. Oh, man, we’ve got a great conversation lined up. I’ve been looking forward to this one for a while. Today we’ve got Stevie Flockhart from us. He is the lead pastor at a church called 901 Church in Memphis, Tennessee. They’re both one of the fastest growing churches and the most reproducing churches in the country. It was planted by Stevie in 2019, very opportune time, right before the pandemic. Uh, and they’ve seen a whole ton of people take steps towards Jesus. We’re gonna talk about that today. Their dream is to reach the city and have multiple locations across nine, the 901 area and beyond, really ultimately helping to reach, uh, the world in Jesus’ name. Stevie, welcome to the show. So glad you’re here.

Stevie Flockhart — Man, so honored to be here. Thanks for having me on.

Rich Birch — Yeah, fill in the picture there. What did I miss? Kind of talk me through what, you know, kind give us the 901 story. Give us a bit of the flavor.

Stevie Flockhart — No, that was everything. You hit everything. So, no. So we, uh 2019, uh, my family and I, uh, married to Whitney, uh, been married for almost 13 years. We got three kids. So the five of us moved to Memphis, uh, in 2018 to plant the church, to get ready to, uh launch. And so spent time with the launch team. Uh, you do not know… if we knew Covid 19 was coming in 2020. Well, guess what? We were launch in 2021 or 2022, whatever…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Stevie Flockhart — …So, uh, we, uh, we launched with about 30 or 40 of us. And man, God just showed up. His hand was all over it um, learned a lot, uh, over the last several years. I’ll get to that in a moment. You know, we planted in, uh, the Atlanta area, went down to, uh, south Florida to revitalize a church uh, unsuccessfully, you know, so in the world’s eyes, man, I failed at it twice. And, uh…

Rich Birch — Okay, okay.

Stevie Flockhart — I came to Memphis, planted, and, uh, God just started blessing. And his, his favor was all over it, uh, truly skyrocketed. And every category you would ask, whatever, from attendance to salvations, to people, to groups. And then covid hit, you know? And so, uh, you go to three 30 or 40 people to several hundred in a year and a half, you think, my goodness, what’s, what’s happening here? And then Covid 19 hits, you know? And so, uh, if it had been up to us, you know, God really asked, Hey, what do you want to do?

Rich Birch — Yes.

Stevie Flockhart — What’s your perfect plan? You know? And so, uh, we’d have probably planted in 2021, maybe even 2022. And so, uh…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Stevie Flockhart — So we plant the church, And then a year later—uh, Easter 2019 was when we launched—and so truly, almost a year later, a little less than a year later…

Rich Birch — Wow.

Stevie Flockhart — …COVID happens. And so just like everybody else, we have to, uh, shut down, uh, meeting in person. Uh, we’re online. And it really did, uh, I don’t even wanna say killed momentum, of course it did. But it kind of gave everybody this new perspective of, so what now? You know? If we’re gonna continue to grow the church, continue to do what we need to do, we might have to do it in ways that we’ve never done before. And so, uh, we came back July of that year, and I’m telling you, God’s just been so good. I feel like we’ve planted the church twice, you know?

Rich Birch — Right.

Stevie Flockhart — So, uh, it really, and I think that was everybody’s, uh, feeling, but again, for us being so fresh and so new, but God has continued to bless. We’ve continued to develop leaders. Uh, we’ve seen over 1400 people saved in four years.

Rich Birch — Wow, wow.

Stevie Flockhart — Uh, over 700 baptized. It’s just been nuts. And so, uh, uh, developing leaders, uh, I gotta give, uh, just a nod to my spiritual father, Mack Lake, who’s just poured into me…

Rich Birch — Love Mack.

Stevie Flockhart — …and helped me just with processes and systems on how to, not just not do it all yourself and delegate, but truly reproduce yourself. You know, delegate…

Rich Birch — Love it.

Stevie Flockhart — …reproduce, empower, equip others underneath you to continue to build the church. It’s been unbelievable.

Rich Birch — Yeah. I love that. I love, so, such a great story. And I, I love the journey your, you know, your own personal story that, you know, God’s had you on, and I’d love to go there. I’d love to actually hear more about that. You know, you end up on these lists on fastest growing, most reproducing, and…

Stevie Flockhart — Yeah.

Rich Birch — …you know, what does that do inside your head? Is that, how do you fight the… there must be just a natural kind of comparison game thing that happens. Take us inside that. Help us unpack that a little bit. What’s, what’s the story that’s happening there?

Stevie Flockhart — Yeah. And so I think, uh, you know, for me, you know, and everybody’s journey’s a bit different, you know?

Rich Birch — Yeah.

Stevie Flockhart — But I think we all struggle with some of, uh, a lot of the same things. And so, especially leaders and, and guys that want to inspire, you know, and change the world. You know, there’s, so that comes with that sometimes if you’re not careful, you know. The flesh, your enemy will continue to try to lie to you. And so for me, uh, this is the crazy, let’s call it, uh, ironic thing about this: six, seven, eight, nine years ago, I wanted so badly to be on that top 100.

Rich Birch — Sure.

Stevie Flockhart — If I could, Lord, if I could just make the top hundred, then I could die, you know?

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Stevie Flockhart — Top hundred whatever. Don’t even have to be largest or fastest hundred [inaudible]…

Rich Birch — Love it.

Stevie Flockhart — …that started this year – just let my name be out there. Something…

Rich Birch — Yep, yes.

Stevie Flockhart — …that someone has to know about me.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Stevie Flockhart — And God just has a way, as you know, and as those who have grown in it know, just this way of disciplining and pruning. Uh, and he’s so kind and gentle, but it just hurts so bad. And so, uh, I just had this void, you know, and I knew Jesus, but I just needed to be known – by you, and by that guy, and that guy.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Stevie Flockhart — And, uh, and something takes place where, and again, there’s no formula, there’s no magical equation. So please don’t hear that today. But when you start putting your priorities and you get your priorities right, uh, and just being known by God and being known by, you know, listen, if, if, if God loves me, and I know he does, and if my wife loves me, and those three kids love me, all the other stuff, just kind of, just kind of falls to the wayside. It really, really does. And so, when you stop caring about those things, I believe that’s when God really started giving me more. God really started trusting me with more. And so you could go to scripture and say, faithful with the small, he’ll give you more, but, uh, if you’re faithful with what he’s already given you, and I was not for so long, you know? So I would say, uh, and I wouldn’t even say, man, that I was doing it for the wrong reasons. I was just doing it for, uh, other reasons. Man, I was, I wanted to do it for God’s glory. Man, this is for your glory, Lord.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Stevie Flockhart — Just give me a little bit, you know?

Rich Birch — Right.

Stevie Flockhart — And so I’m here to preach so people would be saved. I just want everybody to know how many people have been saved? Are you with me?

Rich Birch — Sure.

Stevie Flockhart — And so, uh, not until there’s this renewing of the mind…

Rich Birch — Sure.

Stevie Flockhart — …where God takes me through a season. When I say a season, I don’t mean three months. I wish it was three months. You know, four, or five, six years of just pruning…

Rich Birch — Wow.

Stevie Flockhart — …cutting off, tearing away, pulling the weeds of my soul out, to bring me to the place where truly this is for his kingdom, not mine. His church, not mine. And I have seen over the last three or four years that when that’s your posture in your heart, cause God can’t be mocked, you know? So that’s why I, when I say there’s no special secret, like you can’t trick God into pretending like it’s not about you.

Rich Birch — Sure.

Stevie Flockhart — And then he’ll give you more so that you can get more, you know, that God can’t be tricked or mocked.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Stevie Flockhart — Uh, but when you’re truly faithful with what he’s given you, when you understand it’s not about you, it’s about lifting the name of Jesus, I do believe that’s when he starts giving you more influence, uh, and sending more people to you cause you’re not pointing to them to you, pointing them to you anymore. You’re pointing them to Jesus. So that’s what we’ve experienced.

Rich Birch — Yeah. Yeah, I love that. Well, and even your story of like, you had to… there’s so many people would come on a thing like this and they would skip the fact that the first couple things didn’t go well. You know, they would skip that.

Stevie Flockhart — Yeah. Sure. Right.

Rich Birch — Which is kind of the easy thing to do, right? It’s just like you, you know, you show up and it’s like, we started and things went amazing. And that, that just isn’t the truth, right?

Stevie Flockhart — Yep, yep, yep.

Rich Birch — So how, how do you, how do you lead outta that place? What’s that look like for you as you lead with your team and with other people around you? How do you cultivate that as a part of, you know, even your, your culture, your, um, yeah, the team you’re, you’re with?

Stevie Flockhart — Yep. I love you used the word culture. Uh, you know, we have a culture within our church that’s, uh, so goes the leader, I believe, so goes the people. I believe that. And so our staff, uh, we have a staff culture. One of our staff values is we’re free to fail. And so out of that, there’s this vulnerability, there’s this freedom of failure. We take risk. Uh, now let’s be wise, let’s be good stewards, you know? Let’s don’t go spend $3 million and go, let’s just see if it’s a risk tomorrow. You know what I mean?

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Stevie Flockhart — And so there’s wisdom in that. But, uh, uh, looking at my story, if I could go back, and I’ll say this sometimes preaching, I’ll say this sometimes leading on my staff, if I could go back, people would ask, you know, what would you change if you could go back?

Rich Birch — Good question. Yeah.

Stevie Flockhart — And you immediately wanna say like, I wish I wouldn’t have planted so early. You know? Cause I was this young guy and thought I was the, the greatest thing that ever hit the church world, and they just couldn’t wait. You know? And God just had me to bring me through. I wish I wouldn’t have done that, but I wish we wouldn’t have gone down to South Florida and spared 14 months of literal hell down there, you know? And so, cause I believe then we were ready, but the church wasn’t; they just weren’t ready to change, you know? And they were in their ways. And so, if I could go back, Rich, I’m being honest with you, sure there are moments and times, but if I changed anything, I wouldn’t be who I am today, you know?

Rich Birch — That’s good.

Stevie Flockhart — And I’m grateful for the journey. And so, uh, the destination, I’ve learned, is oftentimes a mirage. Like, you know, like, just, if I could just get here… once you get here, you want to go there, you know?

Rich Birch — Right.

Stevie Flockhart — Now there’s health in some of that, you know, but there’s also a lot of dysfunction in, if I could just get here, I’d arrive, I’d be fulfilled, I’d be satisfied. Well, Jesus is really the one that can truly satisfy, you know?

Stevie Flockhart — And so the destination really is a mirage. It’s the journey. So enjoy the journey – the successes and the failures. And so where I am today, you’re talking about, you know, unSeminary, what they did not teach me in seminary was how you would feel when you looked at the guy down the road who’s got a whole lot more people coming to your church than you have at your church.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Stevie Flockhart — What they did not teach you was, you know, cause again, what we’d pray and what we’d want, I mean, we’re getting real on this pod… Like what we [inaudible]…

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah, yeah. Totally.

Stevie Flockhart — …change the city.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Stevie Flockhart — And I pray that you would bless this church, and this church, and this church. Just bless my church…

Rich Birch — …as well.

Stevie Flockhart — …a little bit more, you know?

Rich Birch — Yeah.

Stevie Flockhart — Yeah, yeah. Like, bro, I was jacked up. A little bit more, you know. But even, I guess even the growth, like as well.

Rich Birch — Yeah, that’s good.

Stevie Flockhart — What if God wants to radically change the city. And it’s from the church down the road. And the church up the road, you know? And you gotta be okay with that. And so, uh…

Rich Birch — Right.

Stevie Flockhart — I think we all fall into the comparison trap. We all fall into the, uh, feeling worthy, feeling validated. Uh, we all fall into the performance trap, you know? I know for me, uh, that’s just where I was. If I could just perform, if I could just, uh, check off the list, then everybody would see what I’ve accomplished. And somehow I was naive enough, you know, to think that my value and my worth was tied to how many people were coming to my church…

Rich Birch — Right.

Stevie Flockhart — …uh, how many people I had on staff, you know? And, and it’s, it’s a lie man. And the devil will ruin your life with it. So.

Rich Birch — Right.

Stevie Flockhart — And I lived it.

Rich Birch — Love, love it. So one of the things you said there got me thinking about this tension I think we feel where you, we don’t wanna get caught in the comparison trap, and I really appreciate you doing a good job, you know, helping us get inside that. But the other part of this is we wanna learn from other churches. We do want to, it’s not like you can kind of just hide…

Stevie Flockhart — Yep.

Rich Birch — …in your, you know, under a turtle somewhere. And I know it would appear like, yeah, you’re trying to learn from others, you’re trying to grow from others. Help us understand how does that work? How, how has that impacted your ministry? Is there a nuance between those two?

Stevie Flockhart — Yep. I do, uh, believe that. So I would say compare disciplines, compare principles, compare values, uh, compare, uh, uh, less results, and compare journeys, you know? And so this person, I could feel, uh, insecure about that guy, or I could go to that guy and say, how did you get here? You know, what did it take to get, so I could compare marriages and say, man, if my marriage was just… or I could say, how in the world do you and your life, your wife, love each other so much? How in the world do you parent your kids like that?

Rich Birch — That’s good.

Stevie Flockhart — You know, your kids aren’t perfect, man. How did they get to that point, you know, where you’re releasing them, you’ve given them authority, they’re making their own decisions. You need to compare those things, you know? So could I believe sometimes, and again, we’re talking about the renewing of the mind. This is a healthy person, a spiritually mature, and emotionally secure person asking themselves, wait, how do I get there?

Rich Birch — Right.

Stevie Flockhart — And so a lot of times we want what other people have, but we’re not willing to do what other people did to get it, right? You know?

Rich Birch — Oh, it’s so true.

Stevie Flockhart — So, yeah. And so if we’re living in this, uh, dysfunction of, you know, uh, worthlessness and validation, if I, that’s not a good place to be.

Rich Birch — Right.

Stevie Flockhart — But if we’re living in this place, like I want to be used greatly by God. I want my marriage to be successful. I want my kids to love the kingdom, and love the church, and not be burnout. How do I accomplish that? We do need to compare disciplines and principles and values to other people. Cause sometimes our disciplines and our principles and our values aren’t lining up to, uh, put us in the place that we’d like to be in. You know? So…

Rich Birch — Love it.

Stevie Flockhart — I think there’s value in that for sure.

Rich Birch — Love it. So good. Um, so one of the things you said, again, going back to one of the things you said earlier, kind of pivoting back to that. Your church obviously has a focus you have a focus on reaching people, people who don’t follow Jesus. You mentioned, you know, 1400 people saved, 700 people baptized. That’s amazing. Praise God. That’s in, that’s incredible. And you know, we know that that’s because God’s at work, right?

Stevie Flockhart — Sure.

Rich Birch — Ultimately, there’s not some magic that you’re doing, but obviously there’s something as a leadership you’re doing to stay focused on that. What does that look like? How do we keep our churches focused on evangelism?

Stevie Flockhart — Yep. Yep. Uh, I mean, culture’s, everything, uh, but you’re pointing people back to mission and vision. And so, uh, our mission statement and, and 901 Church is we exist so that people would be reached and lives would be changed. Uh, it’s our way of saying, we are here so that people would be saved, and disciples would be made. I think we have done ourselves an injustice the last several years, especially in the world of podcasts and everything’s online as social media. We’re debating and fighting, and there’s division within the church, evangelism or discipleship. Oh it’s just a show and entertainment on Sunday to get people there, you know? So it’s like, it’s this weird, uh, reality of like, oh, so obviously if your church is big and has lights and there’s a band, it’s gotta be shallow.

Rich Birch — It’s so true.

Stevie Flockhart — And obviously if your church is small, and it’s like, it’s must be depth. It’s like, oh, well, goodness. Like, I think we’re missing the point here. We’re focusing on methods and not fo focusing on mission, you know?

Rich Birch — So true.

Stevie Flockhart — And so we’re here everything we do, man, and so we talk about it in staff, and we pray over this, and we fast over this. And we, uh, we have systems and metrics to make sure that we’re living out our mission. And so, every sermon I preach, every song we sing, every group we have, every recovery conversation, every marriage counseling, every person in the parking lot or serves in students knows, I’m here, priority one, for people that do not yet know Jesus. That’s why I’m here.

Rich Birch — Yep.

Stevie Flockhart — People reach. But we’re not just gonna stop there. Do I believe it’s the most important thing? I absolutely do. But do I believe it’s the only thing? I don’t, you know?

Rich Birch — Yep.

Stevie Flockhart — And so now let’s make disciples. Now let’s get cyclical for a moment. I believe, a disciples number one priority is for people that don’t yet know Jesus. You know?

Rich Birch – Yes, yes.

Stevie Flockhart — And so, uh, and so again, people reach, lives changed. Everything we do is for people that do not know Jesus. But, now you’re a part of the family. You are in the army, you know. We are not us focused. We will not be inner focused. It is continuing to be people that are not here yet. And our people have grabbed a hold of that, you know? And so they love…

Rich Birch — Yeah. Love it.

Stevie Flockhart — …and it’s a part of our vision, our mission, and now it is our culture.

Rich Birch — Yeah, I love it. So love that. That’s so good. And one of the common misnomers, and you kind of touched on it there, was, you know, that fast-growing churches are all shallow, that they’re not interested in discipleship. And that my experience in, you know, 10 plus years of studying these, that’s just not true.

Stevie Flockhart — Yep, yep.

Rich Birch — That actually to be a fast-growing church, you actually have to do both. You have to do discipleship…

Stevie Flockhart — Sure.

Rich Birch — …as well as evangelism. The words might look different at every church, but you have to do both. Talk us through what that looks like. What does your kind of discipleship process look like? How are you, how are you helping people take steps to Christ? That’s, that’s, you know, all those people that got baptized. What are you doing to help them, uh, grow in those relationships with, with Jesus?

Stevie Flockhart — Yeah. And so, I mean, the easy, quick answer would be, you know, we, we push, uh, groups, you know, every single week. You know, we push getting involved on serve teams, you know. Uh, one of the, uh—let me be nice about it—one of the silliest conversations I could have with somebody, is coming to a church, 6, 7, 8 months, they hit the road. Nobody talked to me, nobody loved me. My uncle was in the hospital, whatever, you know, the, the situation is. And unfortunately those things happen. But oh my goodness, we’re so sorry. What group are you in?

Rich Birch — Yes. Yeah, yeah.

Stevie Flockhart — Well, I’m, I’m not in a group yet. What serve team do you serve on? Well, haven’t… I was going to, but it’s like, so you truly, let’s just get real for a moment. You show up on Sunday morning. You are the back of somebody’s head every week. You sing your songs, you hear the sermon, you leave, and you call that like you’re a part of the church? Like, no, you attend a service, you know? It’s gotta go beyond that.

Stevie Flockhart — And we talk about this stuff, you know? We, we, the truth sets us free, you know? So we say get on a serve team, it accomplishes so much. You are the hands and feet of Jesus. You’re serving others. But you’re also building community within those, you know. So even‑I get to that to a moment‑we have, uh an apprentice program at our church. Uh, every staff member, every leader has to have two to four people that they are meeting with, uh, at least twice a month where they’re walking… some, some of it’s books, some of it’s scripture memorization, some of it’s both.

Rich Birch — That’s cool.

Stevie Flockhart — Uh, some of it truly is just real life, uh, uh, you know, walk through, Hey, I’m going through this. I need some help right now. And so it it just looks like a, uh, it looks like the way Jesus did it, you know? He spent a, uh, a ton of time with the three, and then a whole lot of time with 12. You very rarely saw him spending an a ton of time with the crowd, with the people, you know. But he’s the most influential people person of all time. How is this? I think it’s the leadership development and the discipleship development process, you know? So those three men acted like Jesus, thought like Jesus, dealt with conflict like Jesus. And those three men went in, you know, met new people and planted churches. And so again, this, this, this trickle effect, this multiplication effect that takes place, uh, it happens all over the world, but it can happen within our church, and it has to start with discipleship.

Rich Birch — Yeah, I love that. Let’s talk about that apprentice thing. I love that. That is that, um, so like, I, you know, I think I heard you say every staff, you know, they have two to four people they meet with at least twice a month.

Stevie Flockhart — Yeah.

Rich Birch — Is that people that are on your team? Is that people, you know, how, how do you define those relationships? How do you ensure that’s actually expanding beyond, you know, kind of just the, the relationships that might be just in front of them? What does that look like?

Stevie Flockhart — Sure, sure, sure. So I do believe in, you know, affinity groups where we’re draw we’re drawn to naturally people who are mm-hmm.  either like us, or have the same age kids, or some of the same hobby, you know, for sure. And so we don’t just say, go find three random people. You know, but it’s people that…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Stevie Flockhart — …you, you would want to have dinner with, people that you’d want to invest in. Somebody that you would, or a couple that you would say, this is somebody I wouldn’t mind spending a whole lot of time with over the next year or two, you know? And so we’ve just kind of put this into practice. We’ve always, you know, had the multiplication effect for sure.

Stevie Flockhart — But, uh, I need to go find three people and three couples. It would be, you know, where I’m spend, I’m golfing with them. I’m meeting with them at Starbucks. We go out to dinner with them every few Fridays where we’re spending the time with them, and we’re talking through, you know, and sometimes it’s as easy as two questions. You know, what is God teaching you right now? What are you doing about it? What is God teaching you right now? What are you doing about it? I mean, those two questions. You could have hours of conversations…

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Stevie Flockhart — …with those two questions. Uh, and again, it’s kind of, uh, never ending. It’s open-ended. And so, uh…

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Stevie Flockhart — …every staff member has, you know, an apprentice, uh, or they should, you know, every leader, every team lead, every coordinator. And again, we do it, and the language doesn’t matter right now, but you know, there is uh, a flow; there’s a leadership pipeline that we have that every single person are some people are just showing up. Then they move into team members. Well, then those team members can move into leading a team. But then when you recognize and you equip and you pour into, that person can then lead a department, and then you recognize, and you pour into, and you lead and you equip, and then that person can lead, uh, an organization, you know? So lead others, lead leaders, lead departments, lead organizations. And there, there really is a structure and a system, and there’s a way to do this. And I think it’s the Jesus way.

Rich Birch — Yes, yep.

Stevie Flockhart — And so, uh…

Rich Birch — Love it. Some good Mack Lake pipeline stuff there too. He would’ve, uh, he’d be very happy that.

Stevie Flockhart — The man, the myth, the legend. Yeah.

Rich Birch — Yeah. Yeah. He’s incredible. Yeah. That’s so good. I love that. And I love the, you know, the simplicity of, you know, hey, let’s gets, get in relational, uh, get in, you know, get a relationship, kind of intentional relationship with some people. And then just some simple questions. You know, what are you learning? What’s Jesus teaching? What are you doing about it? Like, let’s just keep that in front of people. I think, man, just that alone, if we could get our people to do that, man, we’d have a leadership development revolution going on, you know, around us. That’s, uh, you know, that’s, that’s fantastic.

Rich Birch — So kind of talking about the, your actual planting experience this time, um, talk us, talk to us about, you know, are you connected with a network? Did you just do this all your own? Did you drop into, you know, your town, you know, and just like open the phone book and start calling people? Talk, talk to us about that.

Stevie Flockhart — Wow…

Rich Birch — What’s the support around you look like?

Stevie Flockhart — Sure. I think that’s some guy’s stories and I salute them…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Stevie Flockhart — …and I honor them. Oh my goodness.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Stevie Flockhart — But no, we could not have, uh, been where we are done what we did, you know, New Season church in Hiram, Georgia when we first started, um, donated probably $50-, $60,000 worth of AVL sound system…

Rich Birch — Yeah that’s great. Wow.

Stevie Flockhart — …for sure. But then, uh, a church, uh, and I consider him, my pastor now Pastor Paul Taylor, Rivers Crossing Church, Cincinnati, Ohio. Uh, they just saw something in us, invited us to be, at the time it was called 10 and 10 Network. And, uh, they, I mean, hundreds of thousands of dollars over three or four years. Uh, and what they did for us financially allowed us to bring on support staff, you know, so just going back to that leadership pipeline, yes, you can do it with volunteers, but when you’re able to bring on staff, uh, it’s just a game changer, you know?

Stevie Flockhart — So that’s where, again, I can tell somebody like, you know, uh, when you’re faithful in the small, God will bless you. I mean, I started the church. I was the lead pastor and the janitor and the student director…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Stevie Flockhart — …and the receptionist, you know…

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Stevie Flockhart — …and so, and the card note writer to the first time guest, well, then weeks go by. Yes. And you, you know, empower and equip, but they just came in, uh, financially helped us, you know, emotionally helped us. He was a pastor to me. And so I was, uh a part of, uh, the 10 and 10 network for two or three years. We’ve just changed the name. Now I’m on leadership with them, called Extraordinary Church Collective, ECC, again, based outta Cincinnati. But, uh, anybody that wants to plant a church, we’d love to have a conversation with you. But, uh, they, it was a game changer for me. We would not, maybe 901 exists without ’em, maybe, perhaps. No way, we’ve seen 1400 people say, there’s no way I have 20 staff members four years into this. There’s no way we’re looking at location number two right now, being able to renovate it  without them, the mission, the vision behind church planning, uh, and what they want to continue to do. So it’s huge. It’s huge.

Rich Birch — Yeah.

Stevie Flockhart — Do it without ’em.

Rich Birch — Yeah. I love that. And that, you know, that’s one of the things that we’ve seen, and friends, you probably know this if you’re listening in, but one of the things that you know, is like a definitive, Hey, we’ve, we’ve learned this lesson, you know, when one of the defi, the divider kind of dividing lines between church plants that make it and those that don’t, is that, that the ones that have a network are more likely to make it. They’re more likely to push through. And so, yeah, Extraordinary Church network, that’d be great. Where, if people wanna learn more about them, where do we send them online to learn more about, about that, that group?

Stevie Flockhart — Yeah – extraordinarychurchcollective.com – and , uh or Google…

Rich Birch — Dot com. Ok, great.

Stevie Flockhart — Yeah. And so, Extraordinary Church Collective. Uh, my name, Steven Flockhart…

Rich Birch — Perfect.

Stevie Flockhart — …pastor Paul Taylor.

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah, yeah – that’s all good. Yeah.

Stevie Flockhart — And again, we’re starting, it’s, it’s a network. It’s a collective though.

Rich Birch — Yes. Yeah.

Stevie Flockhart — Much different. Maybe some, uh, traditional networks, and, uh, anybody, what you just hit on though, is I think the key to life, it’s community.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Stevie Flockhart — It’s it, you can’t do it alone. You can’t be isolated. And what you just said, Rich, is so true. A lot of guys are failing and falling because they didn’t have people in their lives to either help them, hold them accountable, or just say, yo, hey, I’ve been there. I’ve done it. Here’s what I believe you should do. And pastors and authorities in your life to say, sometimes not just, Hey, here’s what I think you should do. Here’s what you should do.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Stevie Flockhart — And here’s what you should not do.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Stevie Flockhart — Go ahead. You know?

Rich Birch — Don’t step on that landmine. Yes, exactly. I have done that. I lost my leg. Don’t do it.

Stevie Flockhart — Yeah. Wise council is, so, yeah.

Rich Birch — Yeah. That’s so good. That’s so good. Well, when you look to the future, when you look up over the horizon at 901, what’s, what’s on the horizon? Where are you, you know, kind of what are you thinking about next? What are the questions you’re asking as you look down the road?

Stevie Flockhart —Yeah. And so, uh, when we planted, we always knew, so even 901 Church, it’s the area code. It’s a brand of where we’re at in Memphis. I mean, the Memphis Grizzlies talk about it all the time. Rise up 901. Justin Timberlake…

Rich Birch — Yep.

Stevie Flockhart — …Al Green, whatever. I mean, everybody just talks about the 901. And so from the very beginning, our vision behind that was to reach a city to change the world. And so we wanted to be multisite, uh, multiple locations. Uh, God, that’s a long story. I can tell you later off podcast, God gave us a 15,000 square foot building…

Rich Birch — That’s amazing. Praise God.

Stevie Flockhart — …15 minutes from us right now in the, another city just gave it to us. A church that was struggling, uh, was gonna shut down, sell it, and give the money to missions. They just gave us an almost $2 million property; they just handed to us.

Rich Birch — Praise God.

Stevie Flockhart — So we’re renovating that right now. So over the horizon is more locations, multiple locations within the 901. People have asked me, it’s like, what happens when God blesses and God does what he does, and you want to continue to church plant. So we’ve planted churches in Scotland and Chattanooga and the Ukraine and Arizona, and a digital church online only right now. But what happens, like, well, are they 901? They’re not in the area code. You know, the brand is messed up. It’s like, well, we’ll reach a city to change the world, you know? And so, uh, uh, multiple locations we want to, raising up leaders, once again. And again, moving people from one location. We’ve got about 200 of our people right now ready, excited, prepared, equipped, uh, raising them up even now to go over to the next location that’ll launch later this year. You can’t just hope to launch a location next week and send some people over there. There’s a process. It’s going back to that pipeline, getting them ready. So, uh, you ask what’s on the horizon, that’s what’s next. But, uh, we do see ourselves in 6, 7, 8, 9 locations over the next 10 or 15 years…

Rich Birch — So good.

Stevie Flockhart — …within all around the 901.

Rich Birch — Wow. This is so great. This has been so fantastic, Stevie. I really appreciate you taking time, uh, you know, to be with us today. Lots of, you know, just, I gotta page your notes here, stuff to think about and chew on. I, I know for sure our listeners do as well. Uh, just as we’re wrapping up, anything else you’d like to say, uh, before we close down today’s conversation?

Stevie Flockhart — No, thank you, Rich, for having me. I’m honored. If anybody’s listening, uh, keep Jesus the focus. Not a magazine, not a number. Be faithful with what you have. And he just promises to give us more and more and more. Be a good steward. Uh, let him be, let be trustworthy and let him be able to trust you more. So that’s what I would say to anybody.

Rich Birch — So good. That is so good. Uh, where do we wanna send people online if they wanna track with you or with the church?

Stevie Flockhart — Yeah. 901church.com. That’s our church, uh, website. But my wife and I also have a podcast called Essentials Podcast. Uh, we just help marriages, uh, parenting, leadership, you know, it’s the essentials of life. So man, anybody that would wanna support that or go there, we’d be very, very grateful.

Rich Birch — Love it. Yeah, we’ll link to that as well on the show notes. So, thanks so much, Stevie. I appreciate you being here today. Thanks for sharing with us. I really appreciate it.

Stevie Flockhart — Thank you, Rich. See you next time.

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Thanks for tuning in to the unSeminary podcast. We’re talking with Stevie Flockhart, Lead Pastor of 901 Church in Tennessee.



Have you ever struggled with the desire for personal recognition and validation in ministry? In this unSeminary podcast episode Stevie shares his personal journey and struggles with comparison and the desire for success. Listen in as he examines critical lessons we can learn from failures, the importance of cultivating a culture of vulnerability on your team, and insights on discipleship.




* The comparison trap. // On some level everyone struggles with the temptation to compare themselves to others and receive recognition from man instead of God. Stevie admits that as a leader who wanted to make a difference in the world, the desire for validation and achieving was a struggle. However, through two failed church plants, God gently pruned Stevie so that he learned to lift up the name of Jesus and be faithful with small things. All of this eventually prepared him for planting 901 Church in 2019.



* Free to fail. // Stevie’s experiences have given him the opportunity to create a culture at 901 Church where people are free to fail. The staff is encouraged to be wise and be good stewards, but also to be vulnerable, take a risk and not be afraid of failing. Failure teaches us and builds character, making us the people we are today.



* Enjoy the journey. // We can be so focused on the destination that we don’t pay attention to the journey we are on. But Stevie says the destination is often a mirage. There is a lot of dysfunction in the idea that if we just get to our destination we will be fulfilled and satisfied. Only Jesus can satisfy us so we need to learn to enjoy the journey, both the successes and the failures.



* Learning from others. // In an effort to avoid comparison, we can’t to hide from others. Stevie says while we don’t want to compare results, it’s valuable to compare disciplines, principles or values and to ask what we can learn from others who are farther along than us on the journey. If we want to learn from others, we have to be willing to do the things others did to get where they are.



* Apprenticeship. // Both discipleship and evangelism must be prioritized for effective ministry. In addition to offering groups and serve teams, 901 Church has an apprentice program where staff and other leaders meet with two to four people twice a month in order to grow their relationship with Jesus. In addition to reading books and doing things like scripture memorization, they have a lot of conversation around two questions: What is God teaching you right now? What are you doing about it? This intentional discipleship process becomes a pipeline that raises up leaders within the church.



* Don’t go alone. // Stevie credits the success and growth of 901 Church to the financial and practical support they received from other churches and networks along the way. As a church leader or church planter, seek wise counsel from others who are farther along in the journey. Part of the way Stevie shares his own learnings is through participation with the Extraordinary Church Collective and also as co-host, along with his wife, of the Essentials podcast.




You can learn more about 901 Church at 901church.com, plus listen to the Essentials podcast there. If you’re a church planter, connect with Extraordinary Church Collective here.
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Training Your Team to Lead Through Others with Phil Caporale & George Probasco https://unseminary.com/training-your-team-to-lead-through-others-with-phil-caporale-george-probasco/ https://unseminary.com/training-your-team-to-lead-through-others-with-phil-caporale-george-probasco/#respond Thu, 11 May 2023 08:44:00 +0000 https://unseminary.com/?p=1393008 Thanks for tuning into the unSeminary podcast. We’re talking with Lead Pastor, Phil Caporale, and Campus Pastor and Kingsway Leadership School Site Director, George Probasco, from Kingsway Church in New Jersey.

As a church leader, one of the most challenging aspects of your role can be developing leaders. While it can be difficult to identify potential leaders and provide them with the necessary training and support, neglecting this area can have serious consequences for the long-term success of the Church. Listen in as Phil and George share some practical steps that church leaders can take to invest in leadership development.

  • A critical issue. // Raising up leaders is critical because pulpits are emptying faster than we can fill them. Whether it’s because of ego, a fear of being replaced, or something else, many church leaders haven’t obeyed Ephesians 4:11-16, instead shouldering the work ourselves. We have to train others for the work of ministry without worrying that they may get more recognition or do something better than us. It’s rewarding when we can fan into flame God’s gift in someone else’s life to help them walk in God’s purpose for them. This process is part of making disciples.
  • Leader Track. // Kingsway Church launched a 10-week program called Leader Track which is an onboarding ramp for high-capacity volunteers. It helps people apply principles from the word of God on things, such as character development, creating a personal mission statement, and leading healthy teams, to all areas of their work, homes and lives.
  • Ministry Education. // Meanwhile for those interested in full-time ministry and acquiring a degree, Kingsway Church has partnered with Southeastern University (SEU) to create Kingsway Leadership School (KLS). Through KLS, Kingsway can offer 15 degrees, five of which are master’s degrees. Not only is this a more affordable option for students because they can take classes online, it also provides practical ministry experience along with their theological education.
  • Head, heart, and hands. // Kingsway Leadership School is broken down into three components: head, heart, and hands. Head represents SEU’s partnership with the church, heart is leadership and character development, and hand allows students to receive college credits through a ministry practicum. This structure allows students to continue to serve in their local churches while also getting a ministry education and hands-on experience.
  • Ministry practicum. // Because many of the students have full-time jobs, the program takes place midweek in the evening from 6-9pm. This midweek portion includes leadership and character development while Sundays are a ministry day. In their first year, students are exposed to all the different ministries at Kingsway Church and rotate through working with the various ministry leaders. Students in years two, three, and four are allowed to choose their ministry focus and the church leader in that area then becomes responsible for training that student.
  • Lead through others. // To start taking steps towards intentional leadership development in your church, look at your calendar and identify 6-8 hours where you can be investing in other people. Model this to your staff and provide them with regular, practical training so they are equipped to invest in others. Finally, as church leaders we need to make ourselves available to our staff teams and keep developing them as they develop others.

You can learn more about Kingsway Church at www.kingsway.church, or email George to learn more about Kingsway Leadership School.

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Episode Transcript

Rich Birch — Hey, friends, welcome to the unSeminary podcast. So glad that you have decided to tune in. Listen, I’m really excited for today’s conversation ah because it’s a great church, but it’s also a great church in New Jersey, even though it’s South Jersey. It’s not central jersey which just does not exist and so ah, you know and we’re already off to the races just only talking to people in New Jersey but so excited to have some leaders from Kingsway Church here, Phil Caporale and George Probasco, just are fantastic leaders from an incredible church. They’re they’re doing some great stuff ah, both in the you know online world with their church online and a couple physical campuses in South Jersey.

Rich Birch — They also have this really innovative partnership with Southeastern University in Lakeland Florida that we want to drill into and learn more. Ah, Phil is the lead Pastor, George is ah the leader of this school and also one of their campus pastors – welcome to the show show, guys. Glad you’re here.

Phil Caporale — Yeah, thanks for having us, Rich.

Rich Birch — Phil, why don’t we start with you. Tell us a little bit about kind of round out the picture, round out the Kingsway picture. What did I miss there? What what, you know, if people were to come to the church this weekend, what would they experience? Talk us through what, you know, give us the Kingsway flavor.

Phil Caporale — Yeah, yeah, thanks. Well um, our church’s been around a while. It started in in Camden New Jersey in 1925, so we’re just a couple years short of our hundredth anniversary.

Rich Birch — Wow.

Phil Caporale — So long, long history and ironically enough they started in a in a grocery store. And you know what they would do on the weekends is go in and take down all the produce off the shelves, canned goods, and and set up church. So before we were multi-campus or even knew it was a thing in in our history, embedded in the beginning of our church, they were set up and tear down in a grocery store. Um.

Rich Birch — That’s amazing. Like they didn’t have it 24/7; they only had it on Sundays.

Phil Caporale — Exactly. Exactly. Yeah, yeah.

Rich Birch — That’s incredible. Wow that’s amazing.

Phil Caporale — Yeah, and then sometime later, a few decades after that, bought ah a purchased a bank in the city of Camden. We have some people in our church that will tell you stories of going to Sunday school in a vault in the bank once they purchased it…

Rich Birch — Amazing. Yeah.

Phil Caporale — …and then move to our current location in Cherry Hill in the ’70s. And and then eight years ago, it’ll be 8 years this fall, that we launched the Glassboro campus that George is the campus pastor at. And that’s been going well, been in a bunch of places in the last several years, actually 8 locations in the seven plus years. Um and if people join us on Sunday in person, online, I think one of the one of the hallmarks of our church is I think authenticity. We hear that a lot from people. It’s very warm and welcoming, people use those words a lot. And even as they’re trying to express the presence of the Lord and how they sense and feel and interact with that. So, love it. Our our heart is for this area South Jersey. Obviously we’re just ten, twelve miles outside of Philadelphia too, so consider ourselves the suburb of that city as well.

Rich Birch — Love it. So good. This is gonna be a great conversation particularly around the whole leadership development issue that so many of our churches are are leaning in, and there’s a lot I want to talk about I want to make sure we we talk to folks. But George why don’t we start with you. It seems like so many churches struggle with developing leaders who are not staff. In fact, recently I was talking to a church, a senior pastor lead pastor at a church, who kind of challenged his team. He gathered them together, and this is a fairly you know thousand person, 1500 person church, that challenges leaders to get together and and asked his staff,Hey like how many of you lead volunteers who lead other volunteers. And ah it was single digit. It ended up being there was just a few of these people in our churches. Man, that just seems to be such ah ah, an issue. Ah, talk to us about this issue, George. Why is this such a critical issue for us as church leaders to be thinking about?

George Probasco — Yeah I think it’s ah important for several reasons. And by the way um, you know all credit to Pastor Phil here because what you see and what you’re going to get from from this is exactly what I’ve been learning from him over the years now.

Rich Birch — Nice.

George Probasco — I’ve been saved and and knew of my faith for about 8 years and Pastor Phil’s always been there every step of the way…

Rich Birch — Love it.

George Probasco — …and so what you hear is a little bit pastor it’s going to be from Pastor Phil.

Rich Birch — I love it.

George Probasco — So I want to say I want to say Ephesians 4 and when we don’t do Ephesians 4:11-16 we are violating the scriptures. And I think so many churches, and this is pertaining to New Jersey um you know, specifically in Assemblies of God and in our network or our fellowship, is that ah pulpits are emptying faster than we can fill them. And um, that’s an unfortunate reality. And I think if I just had to draw conclusions over the years it’s because we violated simply Ephesians 11:14-16. We have not raised up leaders. Because pastors you know, probably themselves or only had a select or a small team to do the actual work of the ministry and they were doing it themselves. And so it’s critical because you know we have churches with empty pulpits now. And we have empty positions and and there’s ah, there’s a serious need in the in in these communities for pastors and ministry leaders to preach the gospel. So.

Rich Birch — Yeah, love it. Phil, why are church leaders why are we tempted to not develop leaders like why, you know, why do we not do that? Like it seems because Ephesians 4 is, it is very clear. It’s not it’s not like debatable. You can’t be like, oh like I wonder what we’re supposed to do? It’s like pretty clear. But what’s those what’s the temptation. What why do you think we’re we’re tempted to not develop leaders?

Phil Caporale — Yeah, but I think part of it is not knowing how to craft the ask, for one.

Rich Birch — Oh that’s good.

Phil Caporale — You know, does it look like if if I’m a pastor, or I’m a ministry leader or director on a staff on a staff team at a church, um, there’s a little bit of that sense of responsibility. Well I was hired to do this. This is this is my job. Here’s my job description with a set list of bullet points that I have to meet some requirements on. And and while that’s true, there’s a part of all of our responsibilities, for those of us that are ministry leaders, pastors, whatever on staff at churches, to to do a part of our job, but we really want to help our our team and other churches as as the Lord allows us to to to really shift that in the sense of, Hey we’ve got to empower people.

Phil Caporale — Right back to what you and George just mentioned a moment ago – Ephesians 4 is pretty clear. You know that God gives the gifts to the church so that we can. We can pastors, evangelists, apostles, prophets, teachers um prepare the people for works of service. But if you read on and get to verses 12 through 16, particularly, there’s a lot of fruit there. Paul talks about growth, and maturity, and building up, and edification, and the body is strong, and people really find um, their groove. They use the gifts and the skills and the natural aptitudes that God’s hardwired into them to be able to um, feel that life-giving sense of purpose, being part of the body of Christ. So I think it it goes back to the the the ability and the awareness to be ah conscientious of the fact that we have to make an ask. I think it’s a little bit too, Rich, of ego that gets in the way of pastors and ministry leaders a lot of time.

Rich Birch — Yeah, that’s true.

Phil Caporale — If if I train somebody else that could do it as well or maybe even better than me, um, am I going to be needed? Is there is there a need for my position or for my role? So we’ve got to always fight and and and battle against that the need to be recognized, or to get the pat on the back for, you know, any kind of recognition. Um I think one of the greatest greatest things that we can experience—I know this is true of George, of our other leaders, and myself I’ve experienced this—that when you can fan the gift and the flame in somebody else’s life and you can watch them walk in the purpose that God’s designed them for, man, it’s one of the most rewarding things. And then you realize oh no, what Paul is instructing us there, is the same thing he told Timothy, right, in 2 Timothy 2:2. What you hear me say in the presence of others, teach reliable people that can go teach others. So Paul’s saying that you can have influence three clicks removed um and without ever seeing people because you’re passing on what you’ve been given.

Phil Caporale — So I think it’s those couple of things and then I think it’s also there’s not there’s not many good models. And we’re certainly far from having it all figured out. We’ve just been fortunate enough, and God’s been gracious enough to us to put people in our lives that have just said, hey come along, shadow me, let’s do this side by side. We have a little philosophy amongst our staff that, hey whenever you’re doing anything in ministry, whether you’re going to Costco’s and picking up supplies, whether you’re going on a hospital visit, you’re planning an event, take somebody with you, let somebody shadow you. And have conversation, right? So it’s that lead… it’s discipleship’s happening but it’s also developing leaders at the same time.

Rich Birch — Love it. Yeah I was thinking it’s not lost to me that that there’s two of you here today. I love that you’re modeling it, even in this conversation. George talk me through at Kingsway, so let’s say either you maybe in your campus specifically, or on a team in your you know in your campus you you see one of those people who are like, okay that person’s got some potential. How do you begin? What is the conversation? What’s the platform? What’s the ask for trying to move those people towards leading? What does that look like, George?

George Probasco — Yeah, so one of the things that ah that I specifically do is I try to lead through my staff. So they are really the ones having the conversations, or I am if if I’m approaching an individual in the church that I feel has leadership potential, um, what I’m doing is shoulder tapping them and then connecting them with somebody from our um, our team specifically. And so one of the programs that we launched this year, relaunched that I should say, Pastor Phil can go in a little bit more about that would be Leader Track. And that’s something that is a great pipeline onboarding ramp for ah, high capacity volunteers within the church context as far as that that perspective is concerned. And that is a little bit less skin in the game as far as fulfilling an academic requirements through our partnership with SEU, so.

Rich Birch — Love it. Yeah, yeah, Phil, do you want to tell us about Leader Track, kind of unpack that? What does that look like? How do we talk to that ah, you know what’s covered there? How how does that fit? How’s that work?

Phil Caporale — Yeah, yeah, it had its Genesis in about 2015, so we’re going back a few years. Actually George and about 13 others were the pilot of that and we just put together what was then Leader Step, Rich, was really out of our assimilation and what is our Growth Track process. People were going through that, they were doing everything we were asking of them to move in their journey in their faith, and you know, being involved in the life of the church, being connected in a small group—we call life groups—being being on a ministry team. But then we had a handful of people come up to us, and George was one of them then, that said. Hey I’m I’m in but I feel like God has something else for me to develop. I feel like I can lead others. I feel like I want to learn more; I want to lead better. And so after several of those conversations, it was enough at the time our lead team for us to realize, Hey we should probably lean into this a little bit more and and do something a little bit more deliberate in training um, high-capacity volunteers that can really step into some ministry roles, but really fulfill um, what they’re sensing in their hearts and and let’s let’s do that. You know, let’s go back to Ephesians 4.

Phil Caporale — So we started doing that. We did it for several years and took about 70-ish people through that. And we were watching just the fruit of that, which was spectacular because people were owning their part of ministry. They were owning their they were owning that idea of growing their influence in their homes, in their families, on their jobs. I mean some of the stories that were outside the walls of the church were incredible of how God was working in people’s lives. And then um, from that we we launched a year-long program that was very intense that we just called Protégé, like some others have named it and that discipleship program. And then out of that was birth the the leadership school, Kingsway Leadership School.

Phil Caporale — But even even though we’re in our I think 6 year now of of the school, we realized that hey they’re gonna be people that are aren’t going to be preparing for full time ministry, or don’t need a degree, or aren’t interested in that level of commitment. So we’ve got to bring this Leader Step back that was on hiatus for a little while, and we just thought, hey it really is a track for leadership development and potentially not just leading as a volunteer. But if people are wrestling with a full time call to vocational ministry, um, Leader Track can help begin to allow them to explore that. So we just relaunched it this past fall. We named it instead of Leader Step, Leader Track this time. And it’s a ten week commitment. In fact to pilot it, or re-pilot it, we took our our Kingsway Leadership School to students through it in their fall semester, asked them for feedback, asked them to speak to it. What do you love? What do you not like? What do you need more of? What what could we take away?

Phil Caporale — And then we um, we made an invite of um, we’re hoping to take 40 people through it this year, and we just finished a ten week cohort of 22 of them um, that are already leading in many areas of of our church. Some of our pastors and ministry directors have already made specific asks of them in in you know, worship and student ministry, children’s ministry, whatever else. And now the responsibility is on our our staff to meet back up with those people that have gone through it and continue to make an ongoing investment into them.

Phil Caporale — And so some of the early fruit we’re seeing is relationships that are being forged, Rich, in some incredible ways as well. But people really leaning into it. We’re getting reports similar to what it was in the past of people applying the principles at work. I mean some of these people are lead in high-level roles in their jobs, entrepreneurs in business, whatever it is, education, and they’re taking some of the principles from the word of God on character development, and personal mission statement, and leading healthy teams, and implementing that. And they’re coming back and saying things like this, Hey this works! And we’re like yes, of course it does!

Rich Birch — Love it.

Phil Caporale — You know, that’s incredible.

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah.

Phil Caporale — So it’s it’s been fun to really watch that. And it just it just continues to ignite that fire in us to go man, this is what we as ministry leaders, as pastors, are called to do. And we shouldn’t be surprised of the fruit that Paul promised in the word.

Rich Birch — Yeah, I love that. You know, one of the interesting things is I saw a stat recently I think it was three quarters I think it was like 76% of this is marketplace leaders who are already managers, so they’re already leading people, say they have never received any training to be a manager…

Phil Caporale — Wow.

Rich Birch — …which is fascinating. And so you can see why as a church if we step in and provide some leadership, it doesn’t surprise me at all, you step in and provide some leadership training, man, it makes a huge difference in in people’s lives. Sticking with you, Phil, how do you balance out the um like the in class, something like Leader Track, with the practicality of leading in context, you know the being with people, the two by two, how do those two balance out together? I sometimes feel like we’re tempted by classes like this; we’re tempted by like say all we need is another curriculum. When clearly obviously you know it’s more than that. h, balance that out. How does that work out for you guys at at Kingsway?

Phil Caporale — Yeah, well and George kind of alluded to it a few moments ago. One of the things that we do is we we want it to be by invitation. So until a couple of months ago during a vision so a recent vision series, we hadn’t really talked about Leader Track. Our so our church knows about Kingsway Leadership School, of course…

Rich Birch — Right.

Phil Caporale — …but Leader Track has always been this shoulder tap, this personal invite from a ministry leader because we wanted to make sure that these people were already they already have a lot of skin in the game. They’re already leading, many of them are leading really well and we’ve identified, our teams identified in them the potential to to take on more, and to and to grow their influence by leading people. Ah, one of the gaps that we noticed, Rich, in our church was between staff and ministry leaders, and others that have led others is this this group of leaders of leaders. How could we get somebody to coach others. Ah, we don’t use this term but it would be like a team captain really where where they’re investing themselves into others, from a volunteer standpoint, which could potentially be a base for us to hire potential staff someday. That’s always a thing that we’re keeping in mind, but it’s not the desired or ah intended end result.

Phil Caporale — So watching people already serve. They’re already in involved, embedded into the life of the church. This is stuff that we’re seeing on display in who they are, and how how consistent they’re involved in the life of the church, and then coming alongside of them and going hey… The content that we provided, a lot of we make it very interactive. We don’t want to just get up and lecture. They can get the information anywhere. We’ve just tried to do our best to contextualize it. And then create even within that large group of the 22 we took through it, um, we put them around small tables. And half of the evening, half of the 3 hours we were together was then building community. And we didn’t ask any of them to do this but one of the neat things that happened out of that, Rich, was very early on they started exchanging numbers together. They were in text threads. They were…

Rich Birch — Yeah, that’s great.

Phil Caporale — …I heard from some that I’m close to, Hey we’re we’re exchanging a prayer requests and so-and-so showed up in my house to encourage me. And nothing we ever said, we just instead of teaching in in rows, like a classroom setting, we said let’s do it around tables so we can naturally facilitate community. And that kind of caught on like wildfire and and expedited a process of us going, Hey here’s some content and curriculum we want to help you with, and if you’ll learn to lead yourself well, you’re going to be able to lead others just as well.

Rich Birch — Yeah, I love it. Yeah and I do think this whole leader of leaders issue, man, there’s so many of our churches we we struggle with this. We we’re looking for people to just do stuff for us, if I can be too if I can be a little too pointed. We’re looking for people who just if you could just stand here and hand out these programs, or you could just you know helping kids ministry. As opposed to, man, I want you to lead a group of leaders to make a difference. Um George, let’s talk about the Kingsway Leadership School. Let’s talk through this. Ah give us this so give us a sense of, you know, kind of what is offered through that. How does it work? How is it partnership kind of give us an overview and then let’s dig into it. So give us an overview there, George.

George Probasco — Yeah, so we’re going into our seventh year come…

Rich Birch — Amazing.

George Probasco — …comes fall. So we’ve learned a ton over the years, Rich. I mean a ton. We had to add and bring in some values for our students because we just our culture was just all over the place, and that’s one of the things that I would just say strongly is that we have to, when you’re developing a leadership culture in your church, you need to have strong values, whether it be church values or if you have like a program that you’re taking your your students through, you have to have values. So that’s one of the things that we instituted.

George Probasco — But an overview, we offer 15 degrees…

Rich Birch — Wow!

George Probasco — …in partnership with Southeastern University. Ah, five of those are which are masters degrees. And so students are able to come for our leadership development within the church, so we don’t teach any SU academic accredited courses here in the church – that is all online only. What we do is we come alongside of Southeastern University and we’re ah, developing the student’s heart and hands.

George Probasco — And so we like to break it down into three categories heart, head, and hand. So the head component would be SEU’s partnership with us. The heart component is leadership development, character development. That’s actually what our pastoral staff and and leaders are actually doing and in our students and developing in our students. And then we love to develop our students’ hands, and that’s through ministry practicum.

George Probasco — So the cool thing about Southeastern’s partnership, if you’re an extension site, is every college student gets college credits through something called practicum. That is an actual college level course through Southeastern University. And if you’re a bachelor uh, degree student or looking to acquire your bachelor degree, that’s twenty four college credits that a student can earn through ministry practicum. So what that means is if they’re serving in their local church, working with under a ministry leader, shadowing them, um, really learning from them, they are logging what they are doing in the ministry and they’re getting college credits for that. So that’s a big deal. So long, the days are over I would say with students going away to college, especially ministry students, not being developed, rather they’re just getting all head knowledge and then no practical ministry experience. So we’re looking to really, again, meet that need where we can provide an academic degree for our students, but also train them up and and give them practical ministry experience. So.

Rich Birch — Now so talk to me through ah, you know, so SEU is a fantastic school, very innovative. This is not a, they’re great school. I love those guys. They’re good people so there’s no negative in all of this. But why the partnership with them? What what about them specifically you would say, hey ah, you know they’re good people to work with? Phil why don’t you take this what what was you know, kind of what drew you to a partnership with them? Why is that been a great connection? How does that how has that been for you guys?

Phil Caporale — Yeah, we um we we early on as we were long um, going through what I mentioned earlier, Protégé, Rich, which was developed out of what Leader Track was the first time our first iteration of it. We had come into contact with a couple people, 3 or 4 actually, that said, hey you should look into SEU. They’re making college education really affordable. And I was um I was really excited about that because I’ve I’ve always I’ve always felt like there’s been these two sides of it, and neither one really fully met the um, the requirements of what it would look like for people that, especially wanted to pursue full-time vocational ministry.

Phil Caporale — And what I mean by that is we had people that would have a lot of experience in in church culture, but were missing that educational, the theology, the doctrine understanding of the scriptures, and the the formal education there. And then there were other people, to George’s point of moment they ago, Rich, that were coming out of bible colleges with almost you know, zero zero ministry practical ministry experience. So when we heard of the partnership with SEU, we did some exploration, we connected with them on some calls, and had them come up and visit us. And and the fact that they could package that and a student would never have to leave Jersey, and stay involved in their local church, do it very affordable for less than a third of the cost. There were a lot of um, very obvious pros to that. And we said, all right, well let’s let’s dig into that a little bit more. And as we did we realized that we can bring really the the crux of the discipleship, and and they can they can get an idea of what it means to here’s what a follower of Christ looks like as they’re growing, as they’re learning the lead, as they’re pursuing potentially vocational ministry. Um, and it it very quickly became appealing.

Phil Caporale — It’s funny, Rich, about half of our student body through the last six plus years has not even been within our own church. It was other churches that kids were coming out of youth ministry…

Rich Birch — Oh really? Interesting.

Phil Caporale — …other adults that were serving.

Rich Birch — Okay.

Phil Caporale — Because it allowed… pastors were interested because they’re like wait a second guys. You mean my this person from my church doesn’t need to go down to Florida for 4 years? Like no, no, they can stay involved in your church. We’ll do the discipleship part, you offer the practicum and SEU… So then it was like this three-headed partnership.

Rich Birch — Oh, that’s really cool.

Phil Caporale — Um, and that’s appealed to a lot of people, you know. And and and I think the fact, especially in this day and age, where where you don’t have to go away, and it’s going to cut the cost down, again, until less than a third, that there’s ah, there’s obviously an appealing nature to that. Um, but the fact that they cannot just get practical ministry experience, but stay in that church which they’re part of, perhaps even grown up in, um, really continues to benefit, and feed that, and strengthen the local church.

Rich Birch — Yeah, that’s that’s fantastic. Love it. So so good. George, give me a sense of the kind of week-in week-out for a student, you know, that’s engaging. What does that look like? How do they, you know, how do they connect with with with you guys? What’s that all again, kind of give us it from from their perspective. What does that look like when so, you know, when they’re in class or what I don’t even share the language you use.

George Probasco — Sure.

Rich Birch — When they’re you know when they’re engaged, what’s that look like?

George Probasco — Yeah, sure. So students gather on Wednesday evenings from 6 to 9. We’ll feed our students. A lot of them have jobs, full time jobs, so they’re doing other things. Um, and that’s another thing about ah Southeastern is that it is affordable and students are able to work a part-time job, or work full-time and almost nearly knock out their their student debt right away. So um…

Rich Birch — Oh, that’s great.

George Probasco — …but so a lot of them are coming in from 6 to 9, and then what we’ll do is we’ll we’ll do some leadership development, we’ll have chapel, and then we’ll do some character development as well with them. And then Sundays is ah all hands on deck ministry day. So we are exposing them to to ministry. And we take our year one students through ah kind of a general practicum is what we call it. And we rotate them through all the various ministries here at ah at the local church. And we’re teaching them and giving them a a well-rounded exposure to Kingsway Church Min. So it’s not the end all be all, but it’s just the way how we do it in our context.

George Probasco — And so they’re working with different ministry leaders, and they’re being exposed to those ministries. And and a lot of this is and I say and I highly recommend that because what it does is it’s going to build some character. For students that just want to get up on a platform and and start speaking, well we know that that’s not realistic. And so we’re going to throw them in the kids’ ministry. We’re going to throw them in ah, you know, around teenagers or you know we’re going to really help build that character within them because that’s just what we do. And then for year two, three and four what we do is um, we take our students and we allow them to choose their ministry focus. And so…

Rich Birch — Okay.

George Probasco — …we’ll we’ll get around our our practicum leaders. So one of them being our our youth pastor, and if if a student’s interested in that that our youth pastor becomes responsible for that student. And so literally they have their own curriculum that they have built to develop help develop our students ah, to train them up to be a youth pastor or whatever the gap is.

Rich Birch — Love that. So good. Phil, a part of what you’ve talked about is this whole vocational ministry push, that a part of what… and we all know this, right? Like anybody that’s that isn’t just heads down in their local, you know, they realize, gosh, there’s a giant leadership crisis in every church. I was literally just this week talking to some leaders in a particular movement, they were saying hey we’re going to 1500 pastors retiring—and then we all know these statistics—1500 pastors retiring in the next ten years, and they’re graduating, I think it was 8 per year out of their ministry school.

Phil Caporale — Wow.

Rich Birch — So it’s like, Hey this is going to be a problem. We’re trying to, you know, so what has that what’s kind of been the output on that side? I know not all of these people are going to end up in vocational ministry, but what has that looked like, you know, give us some context on what that looks like, Phil?

Phil Caporale — Yeah, um, some of them um, it really gets it gets interesting, Rich, in the sense of placement. One of the things we are very upfront with about students that are interested in the school, in Kingsway Leadership School, is to tell them, Hey there’s no guarantee of placement upon graduation, whether it’s two years, four years, or six years that you’re with us, but we’re going to continue to walk alongside of you. And because of, you know, our network of churches and the connections that we have to a bunch of them um, we’ve been able to and minimally hook up um a student that’s finishing graduating the program, graduating the school with a degree and whatnot with other local churches and their pastors to at least entertain a conversation that sometimes has…

Rich Birch — Right.

Phil Caporale — …even um, you know turned into an interview, or them pursuing you know ministry credentials, or going down another path ah similar route to be involved in in their local church, or or Kingsway, whatever whatever the case might be. So I think one of the things is always having keeping that out in front of them, especially for those, Rich, that feel or sensing and working through a call to vocational missionary, not just pastoring but even missionary. We have a girl coming through our school right now that where she just finished up her her grad degree, is our first grad student. So she’s got this master she’s got this this Masters of Divinity and she’s preparing to go to India on a two-year term…

Rich Birch — Oh wow.

Phil Caporale — …as a missionary associate. and so that’s been a big deal. She got to go on that as a scholarship for being part of the school this past this past fall, and just felt a real tug and pull in her heart from the Lord to be there. So she’s pursuing that now and I could certainly see her um, becoming a career missionary. Um, there’s a strong call in her life for that, but she’s really leaned into it. And she’s gotten that practicum experience…

Rich Birch — Right.

Phil Caporale — …that George just detailed a moment ago with um, one of our pastors who’s over missions, and has been able to really lean into that, been able to really draw from that. And not just from our pastor that’s leading her in that, but the connections that that Pastor has as well to some other pastors, to some other missionaries that has opened this girl’s scope of potential resource and influence up so she can explore this call.

Rich Birch — Yeah, this is fantastic. I love this. I love what you guys are doing here. I think there’s so much for us to learn from and continue to lean in on. George, when you think about um you know individual students, is there like similar to the student we just heard about, are there any other stories or kind of insights of like, here’s kind of how this is working out practically in in someone’s life?

George Probasco — Yeah I have a student actually, when I transitioned in into the campus pastor role in October of ’22, we had a ah vacant area also I’ve I’ve identified in at the campus.

Rich Birch — Okay, yeah.

George Probasco — And so one of our students one of our students is so high capacity. He actually um, came from another church where he was briefly youth pastoring, but he’s now with Kingsway and in in our program. And part of his practicum it just so happened to work out where he was going to be coming down to the campus with me this year. And so now I have him overseeing um, our guest experience teams at our campus. And um so he’s responsible for for five teams in particular, and caring and pastoring for them. And so that’s just providing alongside of his academics very real ah, very real experience. And and the reason why I say that is because these are just some things that textbooks don’t train you up on.

Rich Birch — Right.

George Probasco — These are things that ah they don’t they don’t tell you how to have a hard conversations, difficult conversations. You just kind of have to be thrown into that. And there’s a lot of coaching with me me and him you know, again, it’s a lot of one on one, so anything that he’s doing, we’re we’re talking about it afterwards. So that’s where the discipleship comes in.

Rich Birch — Love that. Yeah I love that and that that’s been my like very similar experience particularly as people have transitioned into our churches from um, you know the marketplace, is that there is like there’s the academic side that we can deal with it’s like okay you know you can you can learn. There’s a certain amount of theological stuff you can learn. You can take courses, but there is some. There’s real issues around how do we help people get the practical insights around, you know, when you’re sitting across the table for the first time and someone talks about that they want to leave their spouse. You know you know, that the first minute of your response there is really important. And you know you don’t want people being like, I don’t know I’ve never really thought about that before. And so what you guys are doing is, you know, in such a supportive environment is is enabling that kind of thing I think that’s fantastic.

Rich Birch — Well, Phil, why don’t we give you the last word. If I was a ah church leader that was listening in today that was saying, man, I think we need to really step up our game on this front. We need to we need to look to grow. What would be some of those first steps that we should take, whether it’s leader track or maybe even pursuing something more robust like, you know, Kingsway Leadership School. What would be some of those first steps that you would encourage leaders to be thinking about today?

Phil Caporale — Yeah I think I think part of the the first thing ah a leader needs to do is is really look at—this is very practical—look at their calendar and of their week, let’s just call it a 40 hour work week as a pastor or ministry director on staff at a church, and and ask ourselves right now, How many hours a week am I giving to intentional and deliberate leadership development? Um, ah one of the things that we put in front of our staff, it hasn’t been a hard and fast rule, but, you know, could you take up to a day a week, six to 8 hours a week, where you’re developing others. In other words, our theme this year for our our team, Rich, is um, our staff is to I just call it LTO – you’re going to lead through others. We have to lead through others. We can’t just think, hey that’s a good idea, or someday I hope to get to it. No, it’s like we have to, right? Some of us are going to be natural just doers all the time, others of us do have a proficiency to develop others, but we’re really trying to move our whole staff to think, you know, I’m here to develop others; I have to lead other people through those that are right in front of me.

Phil Caporale — And so the practical, my the first thought again practical is just looking at the calendar and it’s not necessarily a full day, like I’m just going to pick oh Thursday’s the leadership development day. It may be a two hour pocket here, and a three hour window there. But what does that look like and how do I continue to do that to make an intentional investment in other people? Because look we all know that battle right of of urgent versus important. But one of the things I’ve learned through ministry and in my experience, and probably took me a little longer to learn than I care to admit is that, yeah, you’re always going to have the urgent, but if you’ll if you’ll focus on what’s important, right? In this conversation we’re talking about developing leaders of leaders. If you’ll give more time to focus on what’s important, it will keep some of the urgent at bay. Not all of it. There’s always going to be the emergency situations, of course, but part of the urgency that creeps up at times is our lack of being purposeful and intentional in building leaders.

Phil Caporale — I think back to Exodus 18, right? This the first this is like this is like the um Old Testament version of Ephesians 4 when when Moses is kind of burned out. He’s judging all the cases and his father-in-law Jethro goes, You can’t do this, right? You got to find some leaders that can lead tens and fifties and hundreds and a thousand. And and he said at the end of that, and we often overlook this part, he said if you’ll do this, then you’ll be able to endure and the people will go home in peace. And I just thought about that like longevity and ministry. If if God’s call in our life is not just for a season but it’s for all our lives, and for those of us that are called to pastoral ministry, um, that man, let’s do this well. Let’s look to make sure that we endure and we pace well through this. And others are going to go home in peace. But there’s also tied to that word a sense of fulfillment in their own lives, you know?

Phil Caporale — And again kind of back to earlier in the conversation when you see that life-giving joy come out of others, it adds to your your sense of of purpose being fulfilled as well. So I think it’s it’s as as as simple even as going, hey look at my calendar how many how many meetings have I had with other people this week?

Rich Birch — Yeah, so good.

Phil Caporale — Am I grabbing lunch or coffee with anybody and making an intentional investment into that time? And then as ministry leaders right on staff I would think um, if I’m in the executive pastor role or lead paster role or on the lead team, what are we doing to train our staff? I realized that a large portion of my job I would I would I would contend that about 25% of what I do is thinking about how I’m training the staff to lead through others. Because if I don’t train them, if I don’t model it to them, I’m I’m going to get the same thing from them, right? So it’s got to be something that’s real. So where we can invite people like Paul said, hey you follow my example as I follow the example of Christ. And and as we do that, it it catches on. And it takes a little bit of time and you’re always going to have those on the team or on the staff potentially that are a little intimidated by it. I don’t want other people to pick up my bad habits, or I’m not quite sure to do this. So we just leverage our chapel every week. We have a two hour chapel where we’ll worship and pray together. And then the second hour of most of that is training. It’s it’s it’s hey let’s get into the nuts and bolts. This was what it looks like, not just philosophically or theoretically to train leaders. But this is how we’re gonna do it.

Phil Caporale — And then keeping yourself available. I think as as the point person or if you’re leading a ministry um to just say to the rest of your staff or your team or those that report to you, hey I’m available and I’ll continue to help develop you as you develop others.

Rich Birch — Love it. So good. I really appreciate this conversation today, guys. This has been super helpful and inspiring. Really, really good. George, um, if people want to connect with you, with the church with you know to kind of follow along, where do we want to send them online, just as we wrap up today’s conversation?

George Probasco — Yeah, they can ah email me personally gprobasco@kingsway.church

Rich Birch — Oh great, good stuff. And then kingsway.church for everything else if they want to track along. Well, appreciate you guys being here today. Thanks so much, and always good to talk to leaders from Jersey. So thanks for being here today.

Phil Caporale — Yeah, it was a blast, Rich, thanks for having us.

Rich Birch — Thank you.

George Probasco — Thanks for having us, Rich.

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As a church leader, one of the most challenging aspects of your role can be developing leaders. While it can be difficult to identify potential leaders and provide them with the necessary training and support, neglecting this area can have serious consequences for the long-term success of the Church. Listen in as Phil and George share some practical steps that church leaders can take to invest in leadership development.




* A critical issue. // Raising up leaders is critical because pulpits are emptying faster than we can fill them. Whether it’s because of ego, a fear of being replaced, or something else, many church leaders haven’t obeyed Ephesians 4:11-16, instead shouldering the work ourselves. We have to train others for the work of ministry without worrying that they may get more recognition or do something better than us. It’s rewarding when we can fan into flame God’s gift in someone else’s life to help them walk in God’s purpose for them. This process is part of making disciples.



* Leader Track. // Kingsway Church launched a 10-week program called Leader Track which is an onboarding ramp for high-capacity volunteers. It helps people apply principles from the word of God on things, such as character development, creating a personal mission statement, and leading healthy teams, to all areas of their work, homes and lives.



* Ministry Education. // Meanwhile for those interested in full-time ministry and acquiring a degree, Kingsway Church has partnered with Southeastern University (SEU) to create Kingsway Leadership School (KLS). Through KLS, Kingsway can offer 15 degrees, five of which are master’s degrees. Not only is this a more affordable option for students because they can take classes online, it also provides practical ministry experience along with their theological education.



* Head, heart, and hands. // Kingsway Leadership School is broken down into three components: head, heart, and hands. Head represents SEU’s partnership with the church, heart is leadership and character development, and hand allows students to receive college credits through a ministry practicum. This structure allows students to continue to serve in their local churches while also getting a ministry education and hands-on experience.



* Ministry practicum. // Because many of the students have full-time jobs, the program takes place midweek in the evening from 6-9pm. This midweek portion includes leadership and character development while Sundays are a ministry day. In their first year, students are exposed to all the different ministries at Kingsway Church and rotate through working with the various ministry leaders. Students in years two, three, and four are allowed to choose their ministry focus and the church leader in that area then becomes responsible for training that student.



* Lead through others. // To start taking steps towards intentional leadership development in your church, look at your calendar and identify 6-8 hours where you can be investing in other people. Model this to your staff and provide them with regular, practical training so they are equipped to invest in others. Finally, as church leaders we need to make ourselves available to our staff teams and keep developing them as they develop others.




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Thanks for tuning in to the unSeminary podcast. This week we’re talking with Patrick Lencioni, one of the founders of The Table Group and an expert in leadership, teamwork, and organizational health.

Pat’s also the author of 13 books which have sold millions of copies around the world, and today he’s talking with us about his latest book, The 6 Types of Working Genius: A Better Way to Understand Your Gifts, Your Frustrations, and Your Team. Listen in to learn how to help your team tap into their God-given gifts, identify the type of work that brings them joy and energy, and increase productivity while reducing judgement and burnout.

  • What is a working genius? // When it comes to getting work done, one task can give someone joy and energy while it feels draining to another person, even when they love their job. Pat identifies six types of working genius, spelling out the word WIDGET, which identify a person’s God-given gifts so they can work from a place of increased productivity while reducing frustration and burnout.
  • Understanding WIDGET. // Understanding the six types of working genius gives you a model for understanding yourself, your team members, and why you need all of the working geniuses to be present and working together on your staff. It will also help you to place people in the right roles so that they thrive while helping the church to thrive.
  • Wonder. // People who have the working genius of wonder are naturally fed by asking questions. They are concerned with possibilities and potential. Wonder is always the first step; without it our organizations will keep doing the same thing until they stagnate.
  • Invention. // People with the working genius of invention are attracted to developing a new and better way. They will partner with the person who has the working genius of wonder to turn questions into new solutions and systems.
  • Discernment. // The working genius of discernment is a God-given gift of using your judgement, intuition, instinct, pattern recognition, and integrative thinking. Give the person with this working genius a problem and they can naturally identify the right thing to do.
  • Galvanizing. // The galvanizing working genius belongs to people who wake up every morning and love to inspire other people to act. They exhort, encourage and rally people together to take action.
  • Enablement. // The positive form of enablement is the next working genius and it’s critical for a team. Being gifted with enablement is all about joyfully coming alongside people and helping them with whatever they need in the way they need it.
  • Tenacity. // The last working genius is tenacity and it’s about finishing things and plowing through obstacles. People with tenacity are focused and persistent; they won’t move on to the next thing until the current task is completed.
  • Take the quiz to know your gifts. // Without knowing what gifts God’s given you, you can’t fill in the gaps with the team around you. Take the Working Genius Assessment in about ten minutes to identify your working geniuses, your working competencies, and your working frustrations. Plus, complete the assessment with your team and receive a team map that will reveal any gaps in the organization.

Discover your gifts and transform your team at www.workinggenius.com.

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Episode Transcript

Rich Birch — Well hey, friends, welcome to the unSeminary podcast. So glad that you have decided to tune in. You know every week we try to bring you a leader who will both inspire and equip you and today’s no exception. It’s our honor, really our privilege, to have Patrick Lencioni with us. You probably have heard of him before – he’s one of the founders of The Table Group, which is really a pioneering organization around ah, organizational health. They really do a fantastic job – started in 1997. As the president of The Table Group, Pat spends his time speaking, writing about leadership, teamwork, and organizational health as well as consulting with executives and their team. He’s also the author of 13 books, which have sold a crazy number – 6,000,000 copies, translated in 30 languages. His latest book, which we’re going to talk about today, The Six Types of Working Genius. Pat, welcome to the show.

Patrick Lencioni — It’s great to be here. I’m so excited – when I saw this on my schedule a few weeks ago and woke up this morning I thought, this is the kind of podcast I love to do. I love to speak to your audience and so I’m a kid in a candy store today.

Rich Birch — So honored that you that you’d come on – really appreciate it. What what did I miss there? Kind of fill out your story. What parts of, you know, Patrick do we want to let people know in on.

Patrick Lencioni — You know I mean I I I always like when people go: Pat Lencioni – here he is. That’s it. You don’t need to tell. But I think the one thing that your audience might be interested in is 10 years, almost ten years ago, I started an organization with another gentleman called The Amazing Parish. And though I work with like I work with, I know a ton of megachurch pastors and pastors and different denominations and Christian Evangelical all that, I’m Catholic and we started an organization called The Amazing Parish ten years ago that really serves pastors in Catholic Churches…

Rich Birch — Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — …who went to seminary and didn’t learn how to lead didn’t learn how to develop teams. And and we help them with that in a very spiritual, prayerful way. So I love this audience. Not only from my Evangelical friends but I’m steeped in it in the Catholic Church as well. So this is fun.

Rich Birch — Yeah, love it. I I have to confess—I said this before we got on air—I have been following you for a while – did not know about The Amazing Parish until I was doing research for this and I checked it out. It looks amazing. So yeah, friends, you should go and check out that website. It’s really easy to find. amazingparish.org if you want to check that out. It would be a great thing.

Patrick Lencioni — And you know what’s an interest. What I love is so many of my Evangelical friends have actually come to our annual conference…

Rich Birch — Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — …where we bring people there, and and we’re partners with Northpoint and Andy and the and the folks there who you’re friends with.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — …and they’re serving churches and we’re helping them and they’ve come to our conference and so yes, yes, ladies and gentlemen, in this time of persecution and craziness in the world. Evangelicals, Protestants, Catholics are all realizing we’re all brothers in Christ so it’s wonderful.

Rich Birch — Oh absolutely. Actually I was just in London…

Patrick Lencioni — And sisters.

Rich Birch — …and a couple couple weeks ago and spent a bunch of time with with an organization called Alpha.

Patrick Lencioni — Oh!

Rich Birch — And there’s a yeah lot of the huge Catholic component within that and I dinner with a guy across the table who spent a whole night talking, and it was it was fascinating, you know, sharing across the table about our ministries. How similar, you know, we really are for sure.

Patrick Lencioni — Well and let me tell you the evil one hates the idea that we’re talking, and I mean that but…

Rich Birch — Yeah, so that’s true. That is very true. Yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — …years ago I had the chance to go to London and go to speak at um, um the conference there and meet the Alpha folks, and and be be involved with the with the folks that do that on the Catholic side as well. It’s wonderful to see how we’re cooperating and working together.

Rich Birch — It is.

Patrick Lencioni — It’s great.

Rich Birch — It’s very good.

Patrick Lencioni — Nicky Gumbel. That’s what…

Rich Birch — Nicky Gumbel.

Patrick Lencioni — …Nicky Gumbel. Yup.

Rich Birch — Absolutely. Love it. Well I’m really looking forward to diving into your most recent work here Working Genius – The 6 Types of Working Genius. Talk to us about it. What is this model? You know, like give us a sense of what what we’re talking about here today.

Patrick Lencioni — Essentially this is this is two things. It’s a model for understanding yourself – the gifts God gives you when it comes to getting real work done. Like to the specifics of which kind of task, activities give you joy and energy and God intended you to do because it’s a gift. And which kind did he not give you, and it drains you of your joy and energy, and feeling guilty about not being good at that is not good. It’s not good. And and that’s how I developed it and I came about I came upon this by accident in trying to address my own frustration at work. I was finding myself grumpy at work…

Rich Birch — Right.

Patrick Lencioni — …for 20 years off and on even though I worked with wonderful people doing something I loved. But I would often drift into grumpiness and I couldn’t figure it out. And somebody finally said, hey why are you like that? And I and I said I don’t know. And by the grace of God I came up with this model just for myself. And then we found out people were were just were were saying, no this is universal; this helps me. And and so it went crazy. But what what this also is is not just an individual tool, but it is the fastest and most transformational tool for teams to better appreciate one another, readjust how they get things done in an organization…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — …and certainly in a church…

Rich Birch — Yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — …so that they can lean into their geniuses more…

Rich Birch — Yep.

Patrick Lencioni — …and and call other people to work up into their geniuses. It is such a wonderful tool. As it turns out God made us to need one another. We don’t… none of us have everything.

Rich Birch — Right. Love it. The—and I want we’re gonna talk about the assessment I had a chance to take it and it was fantastic, but we’ll get a chance to talk to that—one of the things I loved was you’ve got these kind of six different types, and they spell out the word “widget” but Wonder, Invention, Discernment, Galvanizing, Enabling, Tenacity – widget. That seems kind of crazy to me that you use that as a, you know, as that the the word under it all.

Patrick Lencioni — Well let me tell you it was mostly by accident. So we got as we were. We were really coming up with like what’s the right word for each of these these geniuses…

Rich Birch — Yes, yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — …and we got it was W and I and D and G. And I was like okay, I’m not going to make it spell widget. I’m not going to do that. And then we were struggling with a word for the the fifth one, and we were like there’s only one word and it’s it’s enablement. It’s like in the in the good way…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — …enabling others to. And when I got to that I said, now I’m going to find a darn T word because it’s not going to be widgel or widger. So we and we found a great T word. So we didn’t do it on purpose. In fact, we were kind of worried about doing it that way…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — …because it sounded like, did you do that on purpose?

Rich Birch — Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — Most of it was by accident and then we said okay, we’re gonna we’re gonna finish it. So.

Rich Birch — Yeah, so why don’t you take us through that a little bit kind of unpack that a little bit. Give us a sense of the model; talk us through what that, you know, what those what those six are.

Patrick Lencioni — Great. So I’m going to do it in the order in which they generally occur in getting things done. Although nothing’s that neat and tidy and I’m going to start from the highest altitude – the first thing down to the lowest, like landing the plane. So the first thing, the first genius—which most people who have this don’t think it’s a genius because mostly they’ve been either criticized or kind of looked at funny when they do it, but it’s critical and it’s a first step in anything—is the genius of wonder. The genius of wonder – the W. And and people that have this genius and it’s completely God-given are naturally inclined to, and are fed by, asking questions and thinking about things at a high level – about possibilities and potential. And and and asking questions like, is there a better way? Is this enough? Should we be rethinking this? Why why are things like this? And why do we do it this way? And and it’s it’s it’s how this model came about.

Patrick Lencioni — My colleague Amy said to me one day, why are you like that? What goes on?

Rich Birch — Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — And and that question somebody says—and this is true in any kind of organization—is there a better way to do ministry?

Rich Birch — Right.

Patrick Lencioni — Is is the way we’re doing youth outreach, is it is this really working? They’re they’re not saying they have the answer…

Rich Birch — Right.

Patrick Lencioni — …but they’re the ones that look at and go, I’m going to ask the question.

Rich Birch — Right.

Patrick Lencioni — And it’s critical, and there are certain people that are naturally inclined to doing that, and it’s a beautiful genius, and we need to realize that without it our organizations…

Rich Birch — Right we don’t move forward.

Patrick Lencioni — Yeah, or we keep doing the same thing.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Patrick Lencioni — I I had a group of of executives of a multibillion dollar tech company, who had been behind the curve in innovation for years. They had no new products, and they were just living off of their old products. And when they saw their their their team profile, they realized nobody on their on their leadership team had W. In fact, it was worse than that. Almost everyone had it as one of their working frustrations, their least happy thing.

Rich Birch — Oh gosh – they were repelling it. They were pushing it away. Absolutely.

Patrick Lencioni — Exactly.

Rich Birch — Wow.

Patrick Lencioni — And the CFO who certainly was not a Wonder said, if we don’t learn to wonder we’re never going to figure out this market. So…

Rich Birch — Wow, wow. That’s great.

Patrick Lencioni — So we need people to do that. But that’s not enough somebody has to ask the question, then somebody else says, oh please please. The next genius – the genius of Invention. Please let me try to come up with something new. That’s that person who goes, oh I can think of a better – let me think of a – give me give me a whiteboard with nothing on it and a pen, and I will come up with a new way to do youth outreach.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Patrick Lencioni — You know, this is one of mine and your working geniuses – I’ve seen your results. And you and I are not intimidated by, in fact we’re attracted to the need for a new way.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Patrick Lencioni — And you know what else? Rich, we do this even when it’s not necessary. And that’s how you know it’s a you know it’s a genius…

Rich Birch — Right.

Patrick Lencioni — …because like I would like to do this all the time.

Rich Birch — Right.

Patrick Lencioni — And it’s okay for people to say, hey Rich, I love your Invention, man. God gave you a great gift, but this is not the right medium for it. You know because you know…

Rich Birch — Right. Yes, let’s do that at a different spot.

Patrick Lencioni — Right. You’re about to roll something out and I’m in a meeting in my company and and I’m like, ooh I have an idea! And people go, wait a second, wait a second, wait a second! I think we’re done with the idea phase for now – we’re like two days from implementation. We’ve got the plan. We’re doing great. So sometimes, sometimes it’s a genius that we’re not supposed to use and that’s okay.

Rich Birch — Right. So I when I read when I read this, took this, you know, your assessment and and rolled through it this particular piece of it really stood out to me as true. For years, probably 20 years, when someone would ask me, hey, what is it that you actually do? Because they try to, you know, sometimes be an executive pastor who’s not on the stage all the time people wonder what is your job, like what do you do around here. And I would always say the shorthand I would say my job is I live at the intersection of vision and execution. I love taking the “where are we headed”—the Wonder in your language, the Wonder, what do we think that God’s calling our church to do—and then actually figuring out how we’re going to go and do that. Like let’s actually… so it is like a little bit of vision casting. It is I have to and I and I can live in that space. But then I love then saying ok, let’s figure out what that looks like let’s go make it happen.

Patrick Lencioni — Right. Well and we’re gonna get to let’s go make it happen. I love that that you said that. Um, so so there’s Wonder and Invention, and those two…

Rich Birch — Yep, yep.

Patrick Lencioni — …the first two—are what’s called idea ideation. That’s where new ideas come from.

Rich Birch — Ok, ok, love it.

Patrick Lencioni — Okay, by the way I’ve had I had we had a pastor right after this model came out. He took the assessment, and he wrote to us and he said, I thought I was a a fraud, and I should have never been a pastor. He’d been a pastor for over ten years and he goes, I thought I was a failure…

Rich Birch — Oh wow.

Patrick Lencioni — …and I I picked the wrong profession. And he said, I realize now I just don’t have W or I, and so writing a homily, writing a sermon, was really hard for him. And so I looked at his type and I said, do you like to counsel people? He goes oh I love to. Do you like to come alongside people where they’re at in their discipleship journey? Oh yeah I do. I love that. Yeah, see a pastor is not a pastor is not a pastor.

Rich Birch — Right, right. Search.

Patrick Lencioni — All you need to do is find somebody on your team or somebody that you know who’s good at W I, and spend a few hours with them every week and they’re going to help you. But don’t feel guilty.

Rich Birch — Right, right, right, right, right.

Patrick Lencioni — And it was he said it it changed his whole view of his pastorship.

Rich Birch — Love it. Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — Okay, so so those first two – Wonder, Invention. Then we get to the D – discernment. Discernment is a God-given gift of using your judgment, your intuition, your instincts, pattern recognition, and integrative thinking. It’s people that just kind of have a sense. You give them a problem and it’s not about data or expertise, but they have great… they look at things and they just see things and they go, this I think this is the right thing to do. And they’re usually right and they and it is an absolute gift. Some people just think that way.

Patrick Lencioni — I love to tell the story of Tracy, a woman in my office who has great discernment. When my wife and I are talking about just about anything, like should we refinance our house, or where should we go on vacation, or or how should we handle this, or does this look good, or what kind of car should we get? Here’s the…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — Laura will say, ask Tracy.

Rich Birch — I I love it. Love it. So good.

Patrick Lencioni — I think the last three cars I bought I finally said, Tracy, I don’t know – what do you think? She was you need this. And I’m like then I probably should get that.

Rich Birch — Ah love it. Yes, Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — And you know what’s funny. She said when she was a kid her friends would ask her for advice because she always had…

Rich Birch — Ah, oh that’s amazing.

Patrick Lencioni — Yeah.

Rich Birch — Yeah, and we all know people like that, right? We all know those people.

Patrick Lencioni — Right.

Rich Birch — That it’s like they they’re just in our orbit and and we just want to listen to what they have to say, and they’re yeah they’re very discerning. I love that. That’s so good.

Patrick Lencioni — Right? And it’s a God given talent.

Rich Birch — Yeah, cool, cool.

Patrick Lencioni — And it’s real and when you say to them, prove it with data. They’re like oh yeah, yeah, that’s not my thing.

Rich Birch — Right.

Patrick Lencioni — I I don’t know. That’s not how I make decisions.

Rich Birch — Yes, love it yet.

Patrick Lencioni — So so discernment is great because when people invent something, like you’re an inventor having somebody that can come along and discern it and go, Hey, three of your ideas are pretty good. This one’s fantastic. This one here would never work. This one needs a little bit more work.

Rich Birch — Okay.

Patrick Lencioni — So we had a guy write to us and say that for years he thought he kind of thought his wife didn’t like him. She was against him. And he said for their anniversary they took the Working Genius Assessment. He goes he goes I’m an inventor and I come up with new ideas all the time. And every time I come up with a new idea, she tells me what the flaws are.

Rich Birch — Oh wow.

Patrick Lencioni — And he goes I thought she was like trying to crush my enthusiasm. And they took the assessment and her lead genius was discernment.

Rich Birch — Okay.

Patrick Lencioni — So he would give her new idea and she’d say, the way I love you is to try to give you feedback because I want it to work for you because I love you. And it changed their marriage.

Rich Birch — Interesting. Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — So it’s one of those things we we often judge people like you’re criticizing me because you don’t like me. And it’s like oh no I’m a discerner and that’s how I love on people is I give them advice.

Rich Birch — Love it. Love it. So good. Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — So Discernment is the third one.

Rich Birch — Okay, great.

Patrick Lencioni — And and the next one comes to one of yours, Rich.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — And that is Galvanizing.

Rich Birch — Galvanizing. Yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — And that’s the G. And that is people that wake up every morning and love to inspire people to act. They love to remind people to exhort people.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — Exhort exhortation is a great word.

Rich Birch — Yep.

Patrick Lencioni — You know they’re like come on! You can do this! We can do this!

Rich Birch — Right, right, right.

Patrick Lencioni — So your your two geniuses are Invention and Galvanizing. The word we use for that pairing is the evangelizing innovator. They come up with new ideas.

Rich Birch — Yeah when I read that…

Patrick Lencioni — Yeah.

Rich Birch — Yeah when I read that again that did that did resonate. I was um and I posted on social I was like okay so I took took the Working Genius. For those folks that know me, what do you think? And you know it’s that little thing on Instagram where they can pull the bar. And it was 100% of the people said 100% of it. Like they were like, yes, that was that’s very much you.

Patrick Lencioni — Yeah.

Rich Birch — This idea of somebody who is out you know, evangelizing saying, hey let’s let’s let’s pull this thing together. Let’s make this thing happen. We can do this, you know, whether it’s in lots of different areas of my life. So that’s kind of fun.

Patrick Lencioni — Yeah, by the way, a little a little personal feedback I I know a lot of I-Gs, G-Is like you. And one of the things I found about all of them I love them. They’re some of my favorite people. But when I first meet them I always suspect that they’re not authentic because I can’t believe anybody could be so excited so often.

Rich Birch — Okay.

Patrick Lencioni — And then my third interaction…

Rich Birch — So now you’re reading my… but Pat this is the first time we’ve met.

Patrick Lencioni — Yeah.

Rich Birch — I’ve had that feedback from people in my life in the past where people have said they’re like are you…? Like yeah like they would say like after we’re friends for a little bit, they were like when I first met you I was like, is this guy real? Like you see is he really honest in that way? Which is so funny so that’s great. Love it. So fun.

Patrick Lencioni — Yeah, um, and praise God that this actually works. You know I don’t think I invented it. I think I discovered it. I really do believe…

Rich Birch — That’s great.

Patrick Lencioni — …God like anointed me with like, hey Pat, here’s an insight that can help other people…

Rich Birch — Right.

Patrick Lencioni — …who are feeling guilty about themselves, or are judging others, without understanding it. St Francis of Assisi said, you know, seek to understand more than to be understood. And the more we can understand other people then the more they can understand us too.

Rich Birch — Love it. Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — So anyway, so you’re a Galvanizer. Now here’s the thing about me, I’m not.

Rich Birch — Okay.

Patrick Lencioni — But I’ve learned how to do it and I I can do it well. But I don’t like it.

Rich Birch — Oh interesting. Okay.

Patrick Lencioni — And so that’s how this whole model came about, Rich. I would come to work every day, ready to invent and discern, and people would go well, you’re the best galvanizer we got so galvanize us. Galvanize us. Galvanize us.

Rich Birch — Okay, okay, okay.

Patrick Lencioni — And it was burning me out. And and…

Rich Birch — Interesting.

Patrick Lencioni — And so sometimes just because you’re good at something doesn’t mean that’s actually what you’re called to do. You know I love that I love that idea that when you make a decision go where you’re where you find peace. And and and if you don’t have peace and when you’re doing something but people say you’re great at it, maybe there’s that there’s probably something a little bit wrong there. You know when Barry Sanders the football player, if you follow football, retired—like the best running back ever—retired when he was like 28. And…

Rich Birch — Yeah, it’s crazy.

Patrick Lencioni — …and you know why? I don’t think he loved it. He was just good at it.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Patrick Lencioni — And God really does call us to spend as much time as possible in the things he gave us that give us joy and energy.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — So this isn’t just about talent. It’s about joy and energy…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — …where we and that’s where usually our talents lie.

Rich Birch — Yes I love that.

Patrick Lencioni — So you’re a galvanizer; you love doing that.

Rich Birch — I do. Actually I’ve I’ve seen that many times. So what what’s that what are your two? You said Wonder is your first – are you W I? Is that what you said?

Patrick Lencioni — No – I’m I and D.

Rich Birch — Oh okay.

Patrick Lencioni — So I’m an inventor and a discerner. And that’s called a discriminating um ideator.

Rich Birch — Okay.

Patrick Lencioni — Which means like when I come up with new ideas – this is going to sound very immodest but but humility is not being falsely modest. Humility is actually acknowledging what is true. And and since we know we’re not God and it’s a gift, um acknowledging your gifts is not a violation of humility. In fact, to deny your gifts is.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Patrick Lencioni — Because they’re a gift. How can I brag about my gifts?

Rich Birch — Yes, yes, yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — So when I come up with new ideas a a disproportionately high number of them turn out to work…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — …because because I I have this loop of invention and discernment, invention and discernment. So by the time I I put it out there, I’ve already kind of evaluated it.

Rich Birch — Okay, okay, that makes sense.

Patrick Lencioni — And so it’s just kind of how it works.

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — Now I suck at a bunch of other things. That’s also humble.

Rich Birch — Nice. Now these last two. Enablement and Tenacity – those are the last two. Talk us through what those are.

Patrick Lencioni — Those are both your and my working frustrations. By the way, Rich, do you know what a working frustration is? A working frustration to compare it… Your Working Genius is like pouring coffee into a Yeti mug and putting a lid on it.

Rich Birch — Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — You know it holds the it holds the heat for hours and hours. You’re Working Genius – you could spend ah an entire day in your Working Genius and feel like I’m not really tired. You know?

Rich Birch — Right. Yes, yes.

Patrick Lencioni — The the next two areas are what we call your working competency. That’s like pouring coffee into a cup and putting a lid on it – a regular plastic coffee cup. It’ll hold it for a while. You can do that. Your working frustration is the coffee cup you pour into and it’s got a hole in the bottom of it. It’s going to drain you of joy and energy. And it’s hard to spend much time certainly over a period of time. We really aren’t designed to spend a lot of time in our areas of working frustration.

Patrick Lencioni — And so the next area which is both your and I working frustration. It’s hard to admit this as followers of Jesus, but the next genius is called Enablement.

Rich Birch — Okay, yep.

Patrick Lencioni — And it’s a beautiful thing. It’s not enabling an alcoholic or a drug addict. It’s enabling people by coming alongside them and helping them with whatever they need.

Rich Birch — Okay, yep.

Patrick Lencioni — And there are people who have a God-given gift, and you all know it because you see it in your organizations, when somebody says I need help. Their energy, they’re like, oh please I want to help you. What do you need?

Rich Birch — Pick me, pick me. Yeah yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — Right. Because they love to help on your terms. Now you and I love to help people too. But when somebody asks me for help, I want to invent and discern for them.

Rich Birch — Hmm, okay.

Patrick Lencioni — I don’t necessarily want to give them what they’re asking for. Um the best explanation I have of this one is when my wife says to me, Pat, I need your help this weekend. Before she even tells me what it is I start to feel a little bit drained.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — And then I said oh okay, what do you need help with? She says I need help cleaning the garage. So now I’m even a little lower. So what I immediately go to my my strengths and I say, are you sure we need to clean the garage? Tell me why you think we need to clean it. That’s my discernment.

Rich Birch — Love it. Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — And she’ll say, I don’t want your discernment.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — Trust me, we’re gonna I need to clean the garage. Then I go, Okay so what’s your system? Maybe we can come up with a new way to do this. And she says, I don’t want your invention.

Rich Birch — Yeah, just…

Patrick Lencioni — I just want you to stand in the corner. And when I hand you a box, I want you to put it where I tell you to.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — That is paralyzing to me.

Rich Birch — Yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — And there are other people that are like no, no, no, no, no. I will get joy out of just watching this person get what they need.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — And that is a God-given genius. Now, I still have to do it sometimes, Rich.

Rich Birch — Right. Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — But there are certain jobs that would require me to do that every day that would send me into the looney bin.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Patrick Lencioni —And that’s why one man’s trash is another man’s treasure. And God didn’t give anyone everything. And I would be a really bad nurse.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Patrick Lencioni — But I’d be a really good diagnostic doctor. I like…

Rich Birch — Right.

Patrick Lencioni — I would be the one in the emergency room where people come in and I would like have to use my discernment to quickly evaluate all the variables

Rich Birch — Figure out what’s going on. Yeah, I love it. Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — Right?

Rich Birch — Yeah, totally.

Patrick Lencioni — Yeah, but then if somebody said okay just give these people whatever they need, would be really hard for me. Not because I’m a bad person. I thought for for the last fifty five years that meant I was a bad person. It’s like oh that’s just not a gift.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Patrick Lencioni — So it’s not an excuse but it’s an explanation.

Rich Birch — Yep makes sense. And then Tenacity.

Patrick Lencioni — The last one is Tenacity. This is the genius of finishing things, and plowing through obstacles, and crossing things off the list, and meeting the numbers, and and fulfilling the the standards. And there are people who wake up if in the morning—I call them freaks, no I love them, but I’m not one of them—who say give me something to do that I can finish…

Rich Birch — Yep.

Patrick Lencioni — …and see the results of it, and that gives me joy and energy.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — Rich, I’m the opposite. I get halfway through a project and I think it’s largely solved, and I want to move on to the next thing.

Rich Birch — Yeah, what is the next thing?

Patrick Lencioni — Yeah, I don’t have angst when things aren’t yet finished…

Rich Birch — Right.

Patrick Lencioni — …which is why I need people around me. And if I’m a pastor of a church—executive pastor, whatever—one executive pastor is not the same as another one, and another one.

Rich Birch — Right, right, right.

Patrick Lencioni — So you have to know what gifts God gave you, and then invite people to work with you that fill in your gaps. And so if you’re the pastor, an executive pastor, and the pastor of your church is is really like the the preacher, the preaching pastor, is really strong in certain areas, you’re probably going to have to fill in some gaps.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes, yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — And and but more importantly than even the two of you can’t do it all.

Rich Birch — Yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — And then you’re going to build a team around you and say, hey let’s look at our team map.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Patrick Lencioni — Because when a team fills this out they get a map with everyone’s type on it. And they look at it and they go, oh we’re totally exposed over here. We don’t have anybody doing enabling. I was I was in a church organization that had no enablers which is rare.

Rich Birch — Right. Well and you know… yeah that is interesting… So that’s actually very quickly as when I did the assessment I could see very quickly how this could work so well in a team environment. I like how you’ve laid out even just the widgets. You know it makes sense how kind of ideas flow from just ah, you know an idea all the way through to execution, or tenacity. You know how do we move the the thing all the way through? I love that. Talk me through what it looks like in a team environment. Go a little bit deeper on that because I think there are people who listen in around these assessments and it’s like it’s like they’re just cynical. They’re like oh gosh another one of these you know personality assessments. I don’t blah blah blah. I don’t want to do this. Tell me how this works and how could I roll this out well.

Patrick Lencioni — Okay I love this. First of all I like people that are skeptical because that means they’re not going to just take anything. And when you convince them that it has value then they’re on, they’re on board even more. So I like that.

Rich Birch — Yep, yep.

Patrick Lencioni — And I did not think the world needed another assessment. I like them all. I like Myers Briggs. I like um DISC. I’ve done them all.

Rich Birch — Yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — But what what I didn’t have is one that translated quickly to how to put people in roles…

Rich Birch — Right. Yes, yes.

Patrick Lencioni — …that brought them alive. This this assessment takes 10 minutes to fill out. And you look at your results, and like you said and the the face validity is super high, like people like this is me. And then when you look at on a team 15 minutes later everybody in the room is going, oh crap. Yeah now I know why we do that really well, and why when we have to do something like this it doesn’t work well. Now I know why Mary is burning out because she’s the only Tenacity person on the team and she’s landing the plane every day.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Patrick Lencioni — And not why… and you know and it explains so much. So I think the the the immediacy of benefit of this is like nothing we’ve ever experienced. I know my Myers Briggs type.

Rich Birch — What does that mean?

Patrick Lencioni — I just don’t know what does that mean I should do every day.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes. Or who I should interact with, or what is you know, when we think about projects and we think about doing things – that was the thing that that struck me as I was like okay I could see how this could work within our organization…

Patrick Lencioni — Yeah.

Rich Birch — …which I just think is that’s a gift to people for sure.

Patrick Lencioni — Here’s another thing. I think, by the way, churches are more important than any other organization in the world. You know, there’s family—the home church—and then there’s churches.

Rich Birch — Yep.

Patrick Lencioni — And the sophomore company down the street or the restaurant or whatever else, the church is more important. It’s people’s souls. So I think that we should have higher standards. Well I think it’s beautiful when a church becomes a source of wisdom for people in their life. And I think that churches should be introducing this not only to their staff and volunteers, but to their congregation.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — And saying let us, as your as your church, let us help you understand what God gifted you with so that you can bring that into your home, and into your workplace, because church is relevant everywhere. So you know I love that Dave Ramsey, who’s a friend of mine, Financial Peace University has brought so many people to Jesus because they’re like…

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Patrick Lencioni — …I’m I’m struggling with my finances. Well here’s a biblical way to understand your finances. Well I think that this is a very God centered way to help people understand what they what they’re meant to do.

Rich Birch — Oh I love that.

Patrick Lencioni — And it doesn’t only apply to to work like when you’re at work at your church or in your job.

Rich Birch — Right.

Patrick Lencioni — It applies to work at home.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — My wife and I – our marriage changed because we realized the combination of our working geniuses left us exposed into areas that caused a lot of arguments over the years. And now we have grace for one another. And we are outsourcing things that we thought we felt guilty about before, but we’re just bad at.

Rich Birch — Okay, makes sense.

Patrick Lencioni — So it’s really changed our our marriage and our home life as well as our work life. And our and the parishes that use this. in the Catholic world and the churches that use it in the Evangelical and Protestant world are just finding it to be really um, it allows them to reduce guilt and judgment and increase morale and fulfillment.

Rich Birch — Yeah I can see that, I was I was going to ask you if there’s any examples from a church, Catholic or otherwise, who have used this on kind of a wide, you know, kind of a wide margin like you’re saying there a wide part of their church. Because I could see that as a a real gift to a church. Do you have an example of that?

Patrick Lencioni — Oh goodness. I mean yeah, I mean the the pastors some pastors are like I know pastors who are W-I’s, right? So which means is they’re they’re the that’s called a creative dreamer.

Rich Birch — Yep.

Patrick Lencioni — And they can just go for a walk in a park and come up with threes homilies or sermons…

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Patrick Lencioni — …and and and they preach. And then they go, and like in the Catholic world—so it’s ah particularly challenging because we don’t have executive pastors.

Rich Birch — Right, right, right.

Patrick Lencioni — We’re trying to teach them to do that more. Like no, we need to have a team and you need to to give some responsibility to others. But there’s pastors that don’t really like counseling.

Rich Birch — Right, right. Yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — Like E and D, let’s say are there frustrations, and they feel really guilty. Like I know Catholic pastors who don’t like to do the sacrament of confession. Now they don’t have a… they have to do it. But that’s not the thing that gives them the most energy and joy because that’s a very pastoral role.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Patrick Lencioni — It’s a counseling and and…

Rich Birch — Traditionally pastoral. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — Exactly. And they’re like oh my gosh. I’m a preacher and I love coming up with new ideas. And I like looking at what’s going on and what people need to hear. And it’s like yeah, you’re not a bad person. That’s a beauty. Now find, build up a counseling ministry. And when you go do your confessions, offer that up to God and say, God I’m going to go do something that’s hard for me, but rather than feel guilty about that I’m going to lean into that and say, I’m going in there to do something that’s hard, and I can do it for two hours a week.

Rich Birch — Yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — And say, that’s okay. We have a guy in our office named Matt, who you met. He um he does not like tenacity that much. So when he has to do tenacity work, he goes into one of our offices and he goes, I’m going into the T cave. I’m coming out in 2 hours. And and he comes out and he’s like yes! I finished all those things!

Rich Birch — Yeah, I did it all! Check the list!

Patrick Lencioni — Right.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — Whereas we… you know I’ll tell you a really really quick story is when I was a kid my dad used to try to get me to mow the lawn with him. And I did it out of duty, but I hated it.

Rich Birch — Sure, sure.

Patrick Lencioni — And I felt like a bad son.

Rich Birch — Okay, yeah, yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — And and I carried that forever. And I realized he wanted me to do it. He wanted me to be an enablement and tenacity person, follow him around, he’ll tell me what to do. I’ll do it and I have to do it perfectly. And it was exactly my working frustrations.

Birch — Right, right. Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — And so here I am fifty years later going, oh I wasn’t a bad son.

Rich Birch — That’s funny.

Patrick Lencioni — Whereas if it he if he had said, hey Pat, I want you to look at the the yard and I want you to envision how you think it should look.

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah. Yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — And come up with a way to do it. I’m not saying he should have done that, but I would have been like YES! Invention, discernment.

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, love it. Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — But he needed T work.

Rich Birch — Well, this seems to me like, yeah I love this. And isn’t that true. That feels like a very true statement. I’m a little bit younger than you – not that many years younger, and I do feel like in this this age is is about figuring out our childhood. It’s like looking back and being like, oh right. That’s what was going on fifty years ago forty years ago.

Rich Birch — Um so to be honest, Pat, I don’t know if other people said this you when I read this and looked at this, this feels like in a different category than your other writing. This feels like wow this has got huge—and yeah, and obviously you’ve had huge influence, you’ve helped so many people so many organizations, your writing is is so helpful and you know catalytic in so many ways—but this feels like it’s in a different category. What’s your thought for the future of Working Genius? What are you thinking about? What’s your kind of dream for this? What’s your hope for this as it kind of continues to ripple out?

Patrick Lencioni — Well as I’ve gone through my own healing in my life, which is really the essence of our spiritual life is healing, you know, it’s be healed. I’ve come to hold things a little more lightly and realize it’s all a gift. And so when somebody first saw this—one of the guys in our office who has who has discernment and galvanizing, which is called a intuitive activator—he looked at this and he said, right away, this is going to be bigger than The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, which is the the most popular book.

Rich Birch — Wow. Yeah, yeah, that’s saying a lot. Yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — We’re convinced that that’s true. I’m also convinced that this is a gift, and that we just want to steward it well.

Rich Birch — Oh love it.

Patrick Lencioni — And so my hope is that nobody ever, you know, I mean that so many so many fewer people feel any sense of guilt or frustration in work because they think that there’s something wrong with them.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Patrick Lencioni — But more that they realize, oh no I’m just meant to do something else.

Patrick Lencioni — And that’s true if they’re 16 years old, or 20 years old getting out of college, or if they’re in the midst of their career and they’re and they feel like they’re failing. Or if they’re retiring and they’re saying, God what else do you want me to do? I think it’s like well I’ve given I’ve imprinted this on your heart. Do things like this.

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — So I want the world to be that much more fulfilled in their doing, because they’re aligning that with what God has intended for them.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — So that would be that’s my that’s my dream…

Rich Birch — Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — …but I’m I’m holding it lightly and letting God take it where it goes.

Rich Birch — Yeah, I would echo that. I do it does feel like to me it has that kind of like, oh this has like long burn potential in a lot of different organizations and a lot of places. And I’m hoping frankly the churches that are listening in today that they’ll take steps to do the assessment, pull their team together, have the conversations.

Rich Birch — Where where do we want to send them if they’re thinking, yeah I would I want to do that. I want to take some steps. I want to want to learn more. I want to jump in and and kind of get a better sense of this.

Patrick Lencioni — You know, and it’s so funny because I I have a company we serve the corporate world. And in the corporate world, we price this very low, because we wanted we don’t want it to just be in the corporate world. But then when I talk to a church like oh but it’s $25 to take this assessment, right? And um. And but if ah if if somebody had a volume, like we want this to go throughout our church, we we do discounts and stuff like that.

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah, sure.

Patrick Lencioni — But take the assessment…

Rich Birch — Yep, yep.

Patrick Lencioni — …and the report that comes back is usually like super helpful. And and you look at a team map, or you share this with your friends, or your spouse, or your boss.

Patrick Lencioni — Um, we had a guy in a church that—here’s a great way to look at this – a story. A guy who worked in a church who was getting ready to do his performance review, and he knew it was going to be bad. He was he was struggling.

Rich Birch — Okay.

Patrick Lencioni — And he took the Working Genius Assessment. He brought it to his manager. And said I want to go over this with you before, and and the guy looked at it and said well it’s no wonder you’re struggling, we have you in the wrong job.

Rich Birch — Oh wow.

Patrick Lencioni — And and he he literally said, I got promoted because I because they figured out what to do with me.

Rich Birch — Right. Wow.

Patrick Lencioni — And so the first thing people can do is go to workinggenius.com. It’s a it’s our website working genius – two Gs in the middle. And and you can take the assessment. It takes 12 minutes to take or 10 minutes. The results are very powerful. This is a better gift to give somebody than a tie, you know.

Rich Birch — Yeah, totally. Totally.

Patrick Lencioni — And it’s like it’s like what do I give somebody that can change their life? Um so sometimes I think that’s ah, that’s a great thing to do. One day I’ll be glad when we just give it to everybody for free, but we’ve had to put a lot of time and energy into it, and we’re selling it in the corporate world.

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah, yeah, it’s great.

Patrick Lencioni — But in a church this can be a great tool.

Rich Birch — Now, and again friends, I would encourage you to do that – workinggenius.com. Go. I think as a bare minimum that’s a great idea even this time of year. Maybe this is what you do instead of Christmas gifts for your staff. This could be a great, you know, conversation starter. A great discussion piece. Listen particularly, you know, I’m thinking particularly on the staff side. You know, you can. You’ll get more than $25 value. It even sounds stupid to say that because of course it’s more than $25 value.

Patrick Lencioni — Right.

Rich Birch — Repositioning people into their, you know, asking the question of, hey what what is the kind of your seat on the bus, ah, you know, what does that look like? Love it. So I think it could be great.

Patrick Lencioni — You know you know, Rich. We just did a podcast that came out yesterday um about Working Genius and the holidays. And we’re we’re encouraging people to actually do this at Thanksgiving…

Rich Birch — Oh love it.

Patrick Lencioni — …and and or and or just just take a one page sheet of the six Working Geniuses. And say to instead of arguing about politics, or or or playing doing charades, it’s like just say, hey can any be what which of these do, you guys, feeds you?

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah.

Patrick Lencioni — Which of these gives you joy and energy? Which doesn’t?

Rich Birch — Love it. Love it. Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — And it’s like families are like, oh my gosh, I I never realized that about you. That’s so true! When you were a kid you always were drawn to this.

Rich Birch — Right. Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — And and and it’s a really wonderful way for a family to celebrate one another’s geniuses.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Patrick Lencioni — And so anyway.

Rich Birch — Well, Patrick, I just want to say thank you. Thank you for this. Thank you for Working Genius. Thank you for your your work. I got to be honest, just such an honor to get a chance to talk with you a little bit. When your team reached out I was like I’m like, you have the right person? You must have asked the wrong person. You must be looking for someone else. But really, super honored to have you on. And your work has made an impact—I know you know this—has made an impact on lots of leaders lives, and so the fact that you would come on here just really does ah it honors me. And I’m just thankful that you were here today. So thanks for that. Thanks for being on the show today.

Patrick Lencioni — As the people at Chick-Fil-A say, it is totally my pleasure.

Rich Birch — Yeah thank you so much, sir. Have a great day, and like again, friends, workinggenius.com – pick one of those up. Thanks so much for being with us today, Patrick.

Patrick Lencioni — God bless.

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Thanks for tuning in to the unSeminary podcast. This week we’re talking with Patrick Lencioni, one of the founders of The Table Group and an expert in leadership, teamwork, and organizational health.



Pat’s also the author of 13 books which have sold millions of copies around the world, and today he’s talking with us about his latest book, The 6 Types of Working Genius: A Better Way to Understand Your Gifts, Your Frustrations, and Your Team. Listen in to learn how to help your team tap into their God-given gifts, identify the type of work that brings them joy and energy, and increase productivity while reducing judgement and burnout.



* What is a working genius? // When it comes to getting work done, one task can give someone joy and energy while it feels draining to another person, even when they love their job. Pat identifies six types of working genius, spelling out the word WIDGET, which identify a person’s God-given gifts so they can work from a place of increased productivity while reducing frustration and burnout.* Understanding WIDGET. // Understanding the six types of working genius gives you a model for understanding yourself, your team members, and why you need all of the working geniuses to be present and working together on your staff. It will also help you to place people in the right roles so that they thrive while helping the church to thrive.* Wonder. // People who have the working genius of wonder are naturally fed by asking questions. They are concerned with possibilities and potential. Wonder is always the first step; without it our organizations will keep doing the same thing until they stagnate.* Invention. // People with the working genius of invention are attracted to developing a new and better way. They will partner with the person who has the working genius of wonder to turn questions into new solutions and systems.* Discernment. // The working genius of discernment is a God-given gift of using your judgement, intuition, instinct, pattern recognition, and integrative thinking. Give the person with this working genius a problem and they can naturally identify the right thing to do.* Galvanizing. // The galvanizing working genius belongs to people who wake up every morning and love to inspire other people to act. They exhort, encourage and rally people together to take action.* Enablement. // The positive form of enablement is the next working genius and it’s critical for a team. Being gifted with enablement is all about joyfully coming alongside people and helping them with whatever they need in the way they need it.* Tenacity. // The last working genius is tenacity and it’s about finishing things and plowing through obstacles. People with tenacity are focused and persistent; they won’t move on to the next thing until the current task is completed.* Take the quiz to know your gifts. // Without knowing what gifts God’s given you, you can’t fill in the gaps with the team around you. Take the Working Genius Assessment in about ten minutes to identify your working geniuses, your working competencies, and your working frustrations. Plus, complete the assessment with your team and receive a team map that will reveal any gaps in the organization.



Discover your gifts and transform your team at www.workinggenius.com.



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Welcome to the unSeminary podcast – so glad that you have decided to tune in. This week we have with us Aaron Tredway, Lead Pastor of Fellowship City Church in Ohio.

As church leaders, we know that when we empower others, we can accomplish more together than we can alone. But it can be hard to “give your job away”. Listen to today’s podcast as Aaron shares how the team mentality at Fellowship City Church has allowed them to turn around from a place of decline to growth.

  • Team philosophy on leadership. // There’s always a temptation to fill the gap yourself rather than bring others in to raise them up and release them. Church leaders wear a lot of different hats and we have limited capacity so we have to get creative about problem solving. Team leadership can be a solution to our limitations, but it requires us to lay down our egos and not build the ministry around our own personalities.
  • Team preaching. // One example of team leadership at Fellowship City Church is the preaching team. Every Thursday this team of more than ten people meets to do a full runthrough of the message, whether Aaron or another person on the team is preaching. The team vets the message together and, as a result, on Sundays it’s really the voice of the team bringing the message even though one person is communicating it.
  • Give your job away. // At Fellowship City Church, the staff is taught to embrace a team mentality where they are working themselves out of their jobs. Everyone needs to hold their position and title loosely, and intentionally think about how they can operate from a place that serves the team best. To combat fears about being replaced, Aaron reminds us that because there is always enough work to go around and enough people that need to be reached, there will always be an important place for people to serve out of their callings.
  • Help them find their place. // To help people at the church get plugged in, a vocational paid staff at Fellowship City Church created a leadership system that raises people up and releases them into ministry. He worked to get the system off the ground, but then handed it off to unpaid staff who are now facilitating it. Rather than shy away from empowering volunteers in these roles, create intentional touch points to help them continue to grow in their leadership while staying aligned with the church’s mission and vision.
  • Aim for significance, not success. // As people start to reach their life goals, they have a sense of accomplishment and fulfillment, but it doesn’t last. Aaron has written the book, Don’t Miss Your Life: The Secret to Significance, which reveals that many of us are dissatisfied with our lives because we are aimed at the target of success rather than the target of significance. Gift this practical guide and read it together with your team to discover how we can find a life of meaning in God’s kingdom.

You can learn more about what’s happening at Fellowship City Church by visiting fellowshipcity.org, or find out more about Aaron and his book at aarontredway.com.

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Episode Transcript

Rich Birch — Well, hey, everybody. Welcome to the unSeminary podcast. So glad that you have decided to tune in. You know every week we try to bring you a leader who’s going to both inspire and equip you and today’s no exception. Super excited to have Aaron Tredway with us. He is a Lead Pastor at a church called Fellowship City Church. They have 2 locations located in Ohio around the cultural epicenter of the world, Cleveland. Aaron is the the Lead Pastor – he’s been there since 2017. At that point the church had existed for 40 years and was in decline. We’re going to pick up the story from there. But, Aaron, welcome to the show today.

Aaron Tredway — Hey, Rich, So great to be with you man.

Rich Birch — Yeah, why don’t you fill out the story. Tell us a little bit about your background and kind of how did that connect with Fellowship City, and kind of bring us up to speed on that.

Aaron Tredway — Yeah, well first, I love the idea of the cultural epicenter which is Cleveland, Ohio.

Rich Birch — It is isn’t – that’s true, isn’t it? Isn’t that true?

Aaron Tredway — It’s how everyone introduces me. I just I pastor at church in Cleveland, Ohio. No that’s that’s awesome. I’m not a native Clevelander, but I gotta tell you I’ve grown to love this city. I love the people of this city. I actually originally from California, and had the opportunity to travel a lot in my life. You know, kind of I guess I sometimes call it my former life. I was a professional athlete I was professional soccer player for 13 years. And really ah spent about 25 years in professional soccer altogether. But the Lord always had ah a calling towards vocational ministry on my life. I went to seminary kind of while I was a player – not common thing to do. And not because I thought it was called to be a pastor per se, but I was kind of always like a pastor to professional athletes along the journey.

Rich Birch — Okay, yeah, yeah.

Aaron Tredway —And found myself at ah at a local church. I’ve always loved the local church whether I was living in Harare, Zimbabwe, Singapore, Sao Paulo, Brazil, or now Cleveland, Ohio – I’ve always loved the local church, had a passion to see people equipped and released to live out the kingdom, and and live for the glory of God. And so so, yeah, I found myself in Cleveland, Ohio 2017 with my South African wife. We had moved here and this church was in decline. It was, you know, it was ah a great church at one point. And this community, in my opinion, needs a great church, and it wasn’t quite that at that time.

Rich Birch — And what when you say it was in decline, kind of paint the picture. What does that look like? How did you, you know… So there’s two fascinating pieces of that. One is tell us about that. What did that look like? And then how did you land there? How did those two pieces kind of come together?

Aaron Tredway — Yeah. I guess the shortest way to describe it is I was a missionary of this church with an organization called Ambassadors Football. After my career in in soccer, I joined an organization, a ministry – a Gospel Ministry, presenting the gospel, doing discipleship through soccer all around the world.

Rich Birch — Very cool.

Aaron Tredway — It’s part of how I met my wife in South Africa. And so really ambassadors exist to serve the local church around the world, to help the church harness the power, the vehicle, of soccer to do discipleship and evangelism in their own communities.

Aaron Tredway — And so when we moved to Cleveland, Ohio, it was kind of a natural place to land because we were supported by this church, and so we kind of landed here, and I ended up on the board of this church. And so I served as an elder for a few years, and and we we went through a 10 year downturn in terms of leadership, where you know there was was a little bit of moral failure on on the part of one pastor. There was just some, you know, some deficiencies – a gap in leadership over 10 years. And really, what was a 40 year legacy of real impact in this community had quickly diminished to, you know, we were on a lifeline, so to speak.

Rich Birch — Interesting. Well I’d love to hear the story of kind of what what has God used in the life of your church over these years between 2017 to now, kind of what would have been a few of those things that have bubbled up as like, hey it seems like God’s using this to help us reach our community to kind of restore the church to where it had been in the past.

Aaron Tredway — Yeah, I think there were were probably a lot of questions to answer when I first came in to leading the church. And you know I’ve led a few different organizations. Um from a professional soccer organization franchise here in the United States, to a fairly large nonprofit globally with offices in forty different countries. And you know, so so from a leadership perspective I feel like, you know, not that I’ve figured everything out, but I really have a philosophy on leadership that’s really built around team. It’s really a team-centric model of leadership where I really want to just empower those around me and believe that together we can do more. It’s kind of cliché I realize, but I really believe and we pull our resources and leverage that which God is instilled within us, we can do more than I could personally do on my own as a leader.

Rich Birch — Mm-hmm. Now let me poke on that a little bit. I think a lot of people say they’re into team leadership. They are like, yes, they know that because you’re supposed to say that. But then it seems like a lot of local churches are like these pyramids that all bubble up to like a single person at the top. When you say “team”? What do you mean by that? What do you mean by team leadership?

Aaron Tredway — Yeah, I can’t speak for for other churches; I’m not… and you know, I’m I’m an unconventional lead pastor.

Rich Birch — Sure, sure. Yes, great.

Aaron Tredway — I backed my way into this role, but I gotta say as well I really feel I am here for such a time as this, that God equipped me to be in this position. Um, and you know it it might not be that we’re reaching at this point the outer most parts of the universe yet. But but God has me here. And so when I talk about team, I do recognize that, you know, a lot of people say they want to do team and and value team. But for me what it means is is trying my best to not build the ministry around my own personality.

Rich Birch — So good.

Aaron Tredway — And I think if I would ah to to boil down my philosophy, it’s, you know, from everything from from preaching on a Sunday um, you know, I had ah an itinerant preaching ministry for 20 years. So even though I’m a fairly new pastor I’ve preached in 150 countries.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Aaron Tredway — So, you know, I’m not the greatest preacher, but I can preach a bit.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Aaron Tredway — And and yet I think the the real tension is not to fill that gap myself. Really try to bring in other people and to raise up, and also release, them, to do that that work as well.

Rich Birch — Yeah, I love that. So that’s a great example of, you know, how do we kind of acquiesce, how do we give to other people—maybe talk about that a little bit particularly on the teaching piece—what has that looked like? How has teamed work itself out in that, because that does seem to be ah, it’s like um, ah, a bottleneck, a capping off point that we can find ourselves in. What what does that look like, how does that work itself out in your church?

Aaron Tredway — Yeah, I’m probably like most people; I have I wear different hats. I’m a husband, I’m a father, and I lead ah a nonprofit organization in addition to leading in the local church. So there’s lots of different balls you’re trying to keep in the air all at the same time. And the preaching team is just one example of how I manage that. You know, I think one of the great challenges that I’ve seen in the local church is capacity. You know, unlike big fortune 500s who might have you know maybe deeper pockets or or greater resources, whether it’s kind of paid staff, or you know just the finance to go get the right people in the right position, I think the local church often has to think creatively. And I think team leadership is a potential solution to that. It does take the laying down of ego in some ways – something I’m always trying to work on. But but the example would be with our preaching team. So I’ve got about at this point 12 guys…

Rich Birch — Wow.

Aaron Tredway — …on a team that meets every Thursday. And we do a full runthrough of the Sunday message, whether it’s me preaching on Sunday or somebody else on the team…

Rich Birch — Wow.

Aaron Tredway — …the team fully vets the message. The the preacher preaches it, and they have the ability to speak in. So it’s really the voice of the team bringing that message through the communicator on any given Sunday.

Rich Birch — I love that. So the thing you’ve hit on that we’ve seen in so many churches is teaching, particularly at and very large churches, is a team sport. That it’s although there may be one person who’s ultimately up communicating, there’s often a group of people behind that. I love that you’ve systematized that even with kind of every week we’re going to pull that group together. I love that one of the other interesting nuances around team, I think in the local church, is oftentimes churches that are struggling with team, they have a very kind of strong line between who’s on staff and who isn’t on staff. And they get really wrapped up in like titles and, you know, that kind of stuff that I think can ultimately undo some of the teamwork stuff that we’re we’re trying to build. Am I wrong on that? What’s what’s your take on that kind of thing when it comes to ah, you know, how do you think about staff, paid and unpaid, all those kinds of things – what does that what does that look like for your church?

Aaron Tredway — Yeah, for for us it’s kind of like everybody’s on staff.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Aaron Tredway — Some some people get paid and and other people don’t.

Rich Birch — Right.

Aaron Tredway — In fact, other people might pay…

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Aaron Tredway — …to be on staff but we kind of have a mentality that we are one team kind of working together, pooling our resources to the best of our ability. And I think especially with the the volunteer staff, you know, everybody else that kind of sits in the seats on a Sunday, it is a paradigm shift.

Rich Birch — Right.

Aaron Tredway — You know, this for us at Fellowship City isn’t a spectator sport.

Rich Birch — Right.

Aaron Tredway —You know this is this is a battleship situation. We’re not on the, you know, the the cruise liner where we’re sipping drinks and everybody… it’s all hands on deck. And it it is easy to say but you’ve got to really be intentional about instilling that within your people, from my perspective, or kind of it’s human nature. You know, if I can kind of just eat along for the ride, sign me up.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Aaron Tredway — You know, I’ll just cruise along.

Rich Birch — Interesting. So talk to me about how you’re how you’re getting people onto your teams. What’s that actually look like? So I Iove this. Oftentimes you know I’ve said in other contexts that actually volunteer growth is actually a precursor—we’ve seen this time and again in church growth—it’s actually a precursor of church growth. So if you’re building your volunteer teams, getting more people onto your volunteer teams, that’s actually an indication that overall growth is coming because there’s this whole thing that happens as people change their own life, and they become a part of their team, they talk to their friends about it and and they’re like well I now do this thing at my church, they end up naturally inviting people. It becomes a kind of accelerant for church growth. But talk me through what that looks like – how are you encouraging people like you say, you know, echo what you’re saying, get out of the stands and onto the field, stop being an just an observer, become an active participant. What what does that look like for you?

Aaron Tredway — At every level of of our ministry within our church, we’re trying to promote this idea of team. So whether it’s kind of the preaching team to you know the kids ministry team. Every aspect has a team mentality.

Aaron Tredway — And I know that there’s, you know, that this whole idea of the leadership pipeline is quite a popular concept, which I like as a leader, but I’m I’m really probably more invested in the idea of a greenhouse, where we’re constantly growing people up. And and really the the perspective and mentality of our paid staff is to be working themselves out of a job. And that’s that’s a mentality, you know. And unless you’re strategically and specifically thinking in that direction, but we’re trying to create a culture where we’re all thinking: how can I replace myself as fast as we can. How can I hold my title and my position loosely because I just want to be in the place that I can serve the team best?

Rich Birch — Okay, I love that. Let’s lean in on that a little bit. I think ah, we’ve all run into team members on our staff who have not that hasn’t really fully got into their head, and they feel like, gosh, if I replace myself, then what’s going to happen? Like if I find other people to do what I’m doing, doesn’t that mean I’m just going to be somehow made redundant, which we know that’s not the case, but work work us through that, kind of talk us through what does that look like for your team.

Aaron Tredway — Yeah, I’ll try to illustrate that – maybe from outside of church world.

Rich Birch — Sure.

Aaron Tredway — You know I served a long time in soccer and, you know, soccer, you know, whether Americans want to believe it or not is the most popular game in the world.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes, true.

Aaron Tredway — And so, you know, the the reality is there are a lot of people doing soccer ministry out there. And and whenever a new soccer ministry has arisen over the the history of Ambassadors Football, we never viewed it as competition. Because we all felt like there’s enough people and enough ministry…

Rich Birch — Right.

Aaron Tredway — …around the world through soccer to go around. And that’s kind of how I feel like in the local church. No matter how big the church happens to be, there’s enough people and enough work to go around. So whether I’m the lead pastor today, or I’m a campus pastor tomorrow, or I’m an elder you know, or I’m a kids ministry director, or… to me there’s just there’s so much to do…

Rich Birch — Right.

Aaron Tredway — …that if I’m thinking through the lens of team, there’s always going to be ah, an important place, not just a place, an important place for me to serve out my calling.

Rich Birch — Yeah, I love that. I and, you know, I think one of the critical pieces of building great teams sticking—and I am like the opposite of the sports guy, so this is I’m way out of my field here at this point—but you know, knowing your kind of place on the team is important, getting a sense of kind of what is my what’s my unique piece that I bring to the table. Um, how are you doing that at you know Fellowship City? What does that look like to kind of help people find their place, to find their spot in how they can serve, how they could be an active part an active participant in what’s going on?

Aaron Tredway — Yeah, we’ve got ah a few different kind of of formalized mechanisms, I suppose. We we in-house started like a leadership university, just in our church. It’s not something formalized. We actually launched through a seminary, Ashland University.

Rich Birch — Mmm-hmm.

Aaron Tredway — And and we found like they they did a great job that first year – it was a nine month thing, but we felt like it wasn’t contextualized enough. And you know so one guy he, on staff, he kind of owned that. And the reason I bring that specifically that example up is because he owned it. He got it off the ground as a vocational paid staff. But now that thing is fully run by unpaid staff, where we are raising up and releasing leaders into ministry. But but it’s actually not being facilitated in any way by somebody being paid by the church.

Rich Birch — Oh I love that. That’s so cool. And so how do you then kind of that’s a good example of any of ah you know and an area where you know you’ve been able to hand that over. How do you kind of how does your team interface with that? How do you ensure that that continues to push ah, in the right direction, that it continues to meet the needs that you’re hoping it will meet in the church?

Aaron Tredway — Yeah, it’s a good question and I I interpret it as a cultural piece. You know, you want to make sure that the culture of what you’re doing remains consistent across the board, whether you’re you know a single site church, or you’re multisite.

Aaron Tredway — You know, especially as you kind of broaden your your reach a bit. But that that happens you know, even within ah a single location, if you’re running programs especially if they’re being led by unpaid staff then you know how do you maintain that. For us it’s its intentionality.

Aaron Tredway — You know, it’s It’s not saying, Okay, well we raise them up and now they’re fully released. Fly!

Rich Birch — Yes, yes, yeah. Go do it! Yeah, yeah.

Aaron Tredway — You know, is to continue to have very intentional touch points along the way continue to walk the journey of leadership out. It just means that I don’t have to handhold quite as much.

Rich Birch — Right.

Aaron Tredway — It means that I, as a leader, am released to begin to invest my time elsewhere, while I maintain and monitor, you know, other things going on.

Rich Birch — Well and that’s as you know as old or as foundational as Ephesians 4, right? That’s our job is to equip the people, to release them, to get them ready for ah, you know, the ministry. I love that. Where are the bounds like have you run into areas where maybe that handoff hasn’t gone as well? Like I, you know, I can imagine areas where, you know, sometimes people just want a paid staff member. It’s like maybe it’s like hospital visits, or maybe it’s funerals, or you know are there things like that where where people have kind of pushed back a little bit on this handing off or or there been kind of, you know, interesting engagements on that level?

Aaron Tredway — It’s such a good question and I’m sure you know your listeners especially pastors have dealt with with this question. For me coming in, for our church which was a fairly traditional – we’re a nondenominational church, but fairly traditional sitting in a fairly traditional community here in Cleveland, Ohio. And so the idea of multiple voices on a Sunday morning…

Rich Birch — Right.

Aaron Tredway — …from the pulpit, not normal.

Rich Birch — Right, right, right.

Aaron Tredway — Not not readily embraced. The idea of the lead pastor, or more appropriately, the senior pastor…

Rich Birch — Oh sure, sure.

Aaron Tredway — …not being the one who would go to the hospital, or you know make the call, or etc etc. Not normal here.

Aaron Tredway — So was it that like we snapped our finger in 2017 and after 40 years we shifted into this, you know, everybody embraced… No!

Rich Birch — Right.

Aaron Tredway — It took time. You know it’s interesting too because you know not having been a career pastor, um I talked to a lot of pastors now. And and we talk about, you know, like different emails you might get, or comments that you might get on any given week. And the interesting thing to me is I got a to me an unprecedented amount of feedback in my early days leading Fellowship City.

Rich Birch — Sure.

Aaron Tredway — It felt like everybody wanted to have a say in what we were doing…

Rich Birch — Everybody’s got an opinion.

Aaron Tredway — …everybody had an opinion.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Aaron Tredway — And as a professional athlete I was not unfamiliar with that reality.

Rich Birch — Sure.

Aaron Tredway — You got the armchair analyst…

Rich Birch — Yes, yes, yes.

Aaron Tredway — …in sport, right? It kind of feels like the same thing exists in church world.

Rich Birch — Oh wow. Oh wow.

Aaron Tredway — You got people who are not professionals…

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Aaron Tredway — …sitting out in the seat kind of commenting like they are the coach.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Aaron Tredway — And fair enough; that that makes sense to me. But the interesting thing that happened is the longer we just stayed consistent with what we were doing, and how we were doing it, and unapologetically, for the most part, the more I felt like people got on the bus.

Rich Birch — Right.

Aaron Tredway — And got on board. And I’m not saying that I never get an email with a negative critique or kind of, you know, input. But it’s very rare for me now.

Rich Birch — Interesting.

Aaron Tredway — Very rare.

Rich Birch — Right.

Aaron Tredway — In covid I got two emails the whole of the last two and a half years.

Rich Birch — Wow! That’s incredible. Yeah, that’s amazing.

Aaron Tredway — And that’s stating a lot to anybody who’s been leading in a local church for the last two and a half years.

Rich Birch — Absolutely, absolutely. There’s been lots to comment on, for sure. That’s that’s incredible. Yeah, I love that idea of staying consistent, staying focused. Um, you know, and people will follow leaders long term. It’s normal at the beginning when you start in a location, you know, for there to be questions for sure. But I love that idea of consistency, pushing in the right direction.

Rich Birch — I’d love to pivot in a different direction. You have a book that just came out that I want to talk a little bit more about, if if you don’t mind. It’s called, Don’t Miss Your Life: The Secret to Significance. Tell me about this book. This is a lot of time, effort, and energy to pull this kind of thing together. What was it that you that led you to say, now is the time; I want to pull this book together.

Aaron Tredway — Yeah, thanks for asking. Ah I’m super-excited, like you just said it. It just launched just came out October 4th and and we’re real excited about this particular book. I’ve been, you know, fortunate enough to write a few books in the past. But really this book specifically is kind of like my life and and my my whole philosophy put into a few hundred pages.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Aaron Tredway — And really it’s a book on on living out our God-given purpose. You know, I can’t speak for everybody but for me, growing up I wanted to be an athlete. And you already said that’s not what you wanted.

Rich Birch — Yes. Sure.

Aaron Tredway — So this is not a book about becoming a professional athlete. But for me, growing up, you know, I had this vision of what my life maybe could or should be. This idea in my mind. And and when I got there, it was an amazing thing. I felt you know the sense of accomplishment and fulfillment. Um, but the interesting thing, and I think most people can probably relate with this, is you know when you start to attain some of the things of the world, and some of the the things that you maybe desire most, they do satiate and satisfy, but not long term.

Rich Birch — Right. That’s true.

Aaron Tredway — And and for me I had an experience standing on ah a dirt soccer field in Harare, Zimbabwe in 1998 where I went on a mission trip and I’d never been on a mission trip. Um I was a 21 year old kid at the time, and I’d only come to know Christ a few years before. And I’m on this mission trip and we’d played in a stadium of 60,000 people the day before…

Rich Birch — Wow.

Aaron Tredway — …but now I’m standing in the middle of nowhere Africa. And and I don’t know if it was the audible voice of God, but I felt God impressed upon me, do you think I left you on the soccer field all of these years just for you? Or do you think that there’s a bigger purpose, you know?

Rich Birch — Right.

Aaron Tredway — Is there some reason that you are here that is more important than just the significance of self?

Rich Birch — Love it.

Aaron Tredway — And for me what I realized in short is that I had aimed the at the target of the the target of my life was the wrong target. So for me, it’s really become about, how do I aim the target of my life at significance instead of aiming at success…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Aaron Tredway — …which is what I always thought we were supposed to aim at.

Rich Birch — Yeah, I love that. You know, I’m struck by this because I think this could be a great book as like ah ah, either a team discussion, like with my the people who you know I work with, or even as a gift, you know, maybe to people in our churches, significant donors, that kind of thing. Because I think this whole idea of, you know, we come to the place in our life where we have some level of success but the question is is that of any significance, is that actually making any difference. I really do, I love that idea. Now as you wrote this book, what part of it resonated the most with you, or has resonated as you’ve had it released out there with other people, that it’s like okay this this this kind of core piece of it seems to be the part that’s getting the most traction?

Aaron Tredway — Yeah, there’s this idea that I didn’t come up with – those are all but always the best…

Rich Birch — Yes, I love it.

Aaron Tredway — …called the hedonic treadmill – have you heard of it?

Rich Birch — No, tell me about it.

Aaron Tredway — It’s this idea that, you know, it’s kind of if you imagine that you’re running on a treadmill, and the the more you run and the more you attain the thing that you want the more you want, that thing.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Aaron Tredway — You know, it’s like it’s like sugar. If I if I feel like I crave sugar and I eat some sugar. I’m satiated for a moment, but the second I eat the sugar, I want more sugar.

Rich Birch — Okay, yeah, yeah.

Aaron Tredway — So it’s like this treadmill that you can never really get off because the more of it that you get, the more of it that you want. And the more of it want, the more of it you get, et cetera, et cetera, and it just keeps going.

Rich Birch — Yeah.

Aaron Tredway — And and for me I think that’s something that’s resonated with me. As I started to experience just a little bit of of success, I craved it.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Aaron Tredway — I wanted more. And I started to experience more. And it’s almost like I could never get enough. And and I think that idea resonates with people.

Rich Birch — So true.

Aaron Tredway — Um that that, you know, when you experience success really that the success isn’t going to satisfy the deepest longings of your soul.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Aaron Tredway — Um, and so the question becomes, what will?

Rich Birch — Love it. Well and yeah, you can see where that the hedonic treadmill can be really the part of a ah, really vicious, negative, downward spiral in life. Um, or. You know there could be a part of that that could actually drive to something great, right? That’s like hey you know there’s if if we can get our our desires aligned with things that ultimately pushes towards the Lord that could be a you know that could be fantastic. .

Aaron Tredway — Yeah, definitely.

Rich Birch — Um, now when so where do where do we want to send people online if they want to pick up a copy of this? So like I said, friends, I was struck by this because I do think this would be actually best in a team, ironically, ah that this would be best for either your team, like here we are in the fall. Maybe you’re thinking about either, you know, at last quarter kind of training stuff, I think could be great. I think it could be great if you’re looking for um, you know, conversation starters with maybe a group of leaders around you, but ah, where do we want to send them online if we want them to pick up a copy? Where do we want to send them for that?

Aaron Tredway — Yep, it’s it’s kind of everywhere books are sold type of an idea. You know, Barnes and Noble, Amazon, aarontreadway.com …

Rich Birch — Love it.

Aaron Tredway — Everywhere books are sold, that’s that’s where it will be.

Rich Birch — Love it. Well I appreciate you being on the show today, Aaron. Is there anything else you want to share with us just before we wrap up today’s episode?

Aaron Tredway — Yeah, um, you know again, it’s it’s probably a widely known saying, but you know, I’m married to an African so I feel obliged to to share this.

Rich Birch — Yes.

You know, this idea that if you want to go fast then go alone. But if you want to go far, go together.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Aaron Tredway — And for me in my my leadership, whether it’s here in the local church, or or a para-church, or on a soccer field, I’m all in with this idea of going together.

Rich Birch — Love it. So good. Well, where do we want to send people online if they want to track with you, or with the church? You talked about aarontredway.com – where do we want to send them for more information about the church if if they want that? I want to make sure people are tracking with your story; I think it’s pretty amazing what God’s doing through it.

Aaron Tredway — Thanks, Rich. Yep, our church is Fellowship City Church. It’s fellowshipcity.org and again I can be contacted personally: aarontredway.com

Rich Birch — Thanks so much – appreciate you being here today. Thank you so much.

Aaron Tredway — Thanks, Rich.

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Welcome to the unSeminary podcast – so glad that you have decided to tune in. This week we have with us Aaron Tredway, Lead Pastor of Fellowship City Church in Ohio.



As church leaders, we know that when we empower others, we can accomplish more together than we can alone. But it can be hard to “give your job away”. Listen to today’s podcast as Aaron shares how the team mentality at Fellowship City Church has allowed them to turn around from a place of decline to growth.



* Team philosophy on leadership. // There’s always a temptation to fill the gap yourself rather than bring others in to raise them up and release them. Church leaders wear a lot of different hats and we have limited capacity so we have to get creative about problem solving. Team leadership can be a solution to our limitations, but it requires us to lay down our egos and not build the ministry around our own personalities.* Team preaching. // One example of team leadership at Fellowship City Church is the preaching team. Every Thursday this team of more than ten people meets to do a full runthrough of the message, whether Aaron or another person on the team is preaching. The team vets the message together and, as a result, on Sundays it’s really the voice of the team bringing the message even though one person is communicating it.* Give your job away. // At Fellowship City Church, the staff is taught to embrace a team mentality where they are working themselves out of their jobs. Everyone needs to hold their position and title loosely, and intentionally think about how they can operate from a place that serves the team best. To combat fears about being replaced, Aaron reminds us that because there is always enough work to go around and enough people that need to be reached, there will always be an important place for people to serve out of their callings. * Help them find their place. // To help people at the church get plugged in, a vocational paid staff at Fellowship City Church created a leadership system that raises people up and releases them into ministry. He worked to get the system off the ground, but then handed it off to unpaid staff who are now facilitating it. Rather than shy away from empowering volunteers in these roles, create intentional touch points to help them continue to grow in their leadership while staying aligned with the church’s mission and vision.* Aim for significance, not success. // As people start to reach their life goals, they have a sense of accomplishment and fulfillment, but it doesn’t last. Aaron has written the book, Don’t Miss Your Life: The Secret to Significance, which reveals that many of us are dissatisfied with our lives because we are aimed at the target of success rather than the target of significance. Gift this practical guide and read it together with your team to discover how we can find a life of meaning in God’s kingdom.



You can learn more about what’s happening at Fellowship City Church by visiting fellowshipcity.org, or find out more about Aaron and his book at aarontredway.com.



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Welcome back to the unSeminary podcast. We’re chatting with Shawn Lovejoy, the founder and CEO of Courageous Pastors and Courage to Lead. His work is all about coaching leaders around what keeps them up at night and focuses on personal and organizational growth.

Shawn is talking with us about building and redeploying healthy teams in our churches after the struggles of the last couple of years.

  • A switch in the focus. // Shawn says that three years ago, before so much of the upheaval we’ve experienced, 90% of his talks with pastors were on the nuts and bolts side of leading a church and 10% on the personal side. Today with everything we have going on in our world, that has now switched to 90% personal and 10% nuts and bolts. Shawn’s organization talks with pastors about getting back up and finding confidence and courage again.
  • Grieve the loss, then move ahead. // Grieve the loss that you had in your church since the pandemic, but then focus on moving ahead. Look at the church leaders currently on your staff as your new launch team and pour into them. Rebuild the team you’ve got and deploy them to equip your people to live out the church’s mission.
  • Look at building leaders at every level. // The opportunity for church leaders now is not to focus on getting more followers, but rather building leaders at every level. Look for people who aren’t just ministry doers, but ministry developers. Build teams from the staff to lay leaders to volunteers. Train your staff team to replicate themselves and give their jobs away. In doing so they make themselves indispensable rather than being bottlenecks. And building a strong leadership culture at your church will strengthen you at the center so you can stand firm when the next challenge comes your way.
  • Culture, team, and systems. // Shawn’s book Building a Killer Team Without Killing Yourself or Your Team helps leaders move ahead with becoming a better leader and team builder. Shawn can trace every growing or non-growing church back to three things—the culture, the team, and the systems—and he coaches around these three gears of growth. The number one thing that keeps church leaders awake at night is people. We need to stop believing that if we can hire a certain person it will solve all of our problems. Instead we need to learn to develop our people on healthy teams.
  • Build great, healthy teams. // Shawn’s process to building healthy teams focuses five pillars. This sequence includes fostering togetherness, recruiting and building great talent, bolstering accountability, structuring for growth and peace, and maintaining rhythms and finish lines.
  • Be clear and honest with your staff. // We all would love to acquire the best team ever. But we all have folks on our teams who aren’t meeting expectations. As a leader, part of developing staff member means talking to them when we are not happy with their performance. By doing so we can help them get realigned, or they may recognize the current position isn’t right for them. Be clear and honest about not meeting your expectations. It allows them to hear from the Holy Spirit on where they are called and whether they should opt out. Offer clarity and honesty on where they are winning and not winning, on what’s acceptable and not acceptable.

You can learn more about Building a Killer Team Without Killing Yourself or Your Team at www.killerteambook.org. To get coaching help, listen to the Courageous Pastors podcast, and explore more free resources that can help your church, visit Courageous Pastors at www.courageouspastors.com.

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Episode Transcript

Rich Birch — Hey, friends welcome to the unSeminary podcast. So glad that you have decided to tune in. You know today we’ve got a leader you’re going to want to lean in on and and learn from. We’ve got a leader of leaders – someone who’s connected with just so many great people across the country. We’ve got Shawn Lovejoy – he’s the founder and CEO of Courage to Lead which is all about coaching leaders around what keeps them up at night. They really facilitate organizational and personal growth for leaders. He has a real diverse background. He’s been a church planter, a pastor, a real estate developer, entrepreneur, a leadership coach. He is the host of the Courage to Lead podcast and just a fantastic guy. Plus he’s written ah a book that we want to make sure you hear more about. So Shawn, welcome to the show. So glad you’re here. Welcome back to the show. You’ve been on again which is nice, which if you’re longtime listener, you know we don’t do that often. So glad so glad to have Shawn back.

Shawn Lovejoy — Honored to be with you and honored to be your friend, and I’m glad you and I have a relationship, man, because you’re one of the smartest guys that I know, but you’re also one of the most approachable and accessible guys that I know. So I just appreciate that about you.

Rich Birch — Oh thanks so much, Shawn. Why don’t you kind of fill out this Shawn story a little bit for folks that might not know who you are. Tell us a little bit about yourself, give us that kind of a bit of the story there.

Shawn Lovejoy — Yeah, so I didn’t grow up wanting to be a pastor. Nobody my family had ever been in ministry, you know. I grew up in Alabama, man. We are all my my grandparents and all his brothers – they were all in bar fights. They’d all been stabbed and shot, you know, and so and then my my grandfather broke the cycle. Um, godly man, you know, and got his family back in church. So um, I’m third generation you know Christ follower. You know my dad was the same – Baptist deacon, you know and but all I ever want to do is follow in his steps and do real estate. And I got my real estate license when I was 19 years old, started selling real estate on the side. By the time I’m 21 I’m making a 6 figure income, and that was in the early 90s, Rich.

Rich Birch — Yes, back when 6 figures was like a big deal.

Shawn Lovejoy — That’s that’s when 6 figures was a lot of money. Yeah.

Rich Birch — Yes, exactly. Wow.

Shawn Lovejoy — And I started teaching a college and career Sunday school class.

Rich Birch — Oh nice.

Shawn Lovejoy — Yeah, you didn’t know this part of my story did you?

Rich Birch — Ah I didn’t know this this is new. This is great.

Shawn Lovejoy — And and God swept the whole church really up in revival out of our Sunday school class.

Rich Birch — That’s cool.

Shawn Lovejoy — And like ruined us in the best way. And I walked in and told my dad I was leaving the family business and going to be a pastor.

Rich Birch — Wow.

Shawn Lovejoy — And he compared me to David Koresh that day. You know he told me he said even David Koresh thought he was doing God’s will.

Rich Birch — Oh gosh – that’s a great opening line. Oh my goodness. Nice like it worked. Yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — Ah ah well it made no sense. You know what I’m saying. And so served a couple traditional churches and then moved to metro Atlanta and started a church. You know it kind of grew, despite my preaching, into a megachurch. But I always felt like a business guy trapped in a pastor’s body.

Rich Birch — Okay.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know and I realized that I was good at the between Sunday stuff. Which is what seminary does not teach you…

Rich Birch — Yes, yes, yes, right.

Shawn Lovejoy — …thus the need for this podcast.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — Like I I started the church when I was 28, Rich. I was starting a church and I had never led a staff meeting.

Rich Birch — Right. Amazing. Yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — I had never hired anyone much less fired anyone before, nor had anyone ever taught me how to do any of that. So we had we had four and a half hour staff meetings on Mondays.

Rich Birch — Nice – sort it all out. Get it all figured out on Monday.

Shawn Lovejoy — That’s how I started. And so through great coaching you know and and school of hard knocks, you know and then I started coaching leaders. You know, just how to get better between Sundays, and how to stay sane, centered, and married in the process, like that’s that’s an important tenet of you know my coaching over the years.

Rich Birch — Amy Amy

Shawn Lovejoy — And so made the second scariest decision I made eight years ago to hand off the church and go full-time coaching.

Rich Birch — Right.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know and we’ve been coaching marketplace and ministry leaders now for the last eight years, and I’m having the time of my life. We’ve got 17, 18 coaches now, you know it’s just crazy what God’s done. So.

Rich Birch — That’s so good.

Shawn Lovejoy — I never walked off a stage when I was a megachurch pastor, Rich, and said I like, I was made for that, honestly.

Rich Birch — Okay, interesting. Yes, yeah, yeah, totally.

Shawn Lovejoy — But like you know how that is, like I walk out of coffee shops and boardrooms now all the time and I’m like man, I’m good at that.

Rich Birch — Yes, love that. Yeah yeah, totally.

Shawn Lovejoy — God’s given me a gift I’m, you know so I can I’m decent on a stage, but I’m I’m better in circles than I am in rows.

Rich Birch — Yeah, right. So good. And so you really have two parts of what you do. There’s the Courage to Lead side, which is is really about marketplace leaders—correct me if I’m wrong—and then you’ve got kind of the courageous pastor side which is about coaching pastors. Help me understand those two – give us like… I want to focus in on what you’re seeing in pastors particularly, but kind of talk to us about the two parts of what you do.

Shawn Lovejoy — Well I always felt like because I had a previous life, you know outside vocational Ministry, a lot of what we were teaching was scalable to the marketplace. You know and I wrote my first book to pastors The Measure of Our Success with Baker Books. The editor of my book cried he said I’ve never been a pastor but all this personal leadership stuff you’re teaching like man, I need to hear this. I could… he tried to get me to expand it to marketplace leaders as well and I just said no, I just want to write to pastors. Because I’d had several pastors disqualify themselves in the process of building this thing they were building, and just passionate about it. So the goal all along was to take the organizational design principles and leadership principles that I’ve learned from great coaches, and scale it from the ministry into the marketplace as well, and we’ve been able to do that. For a while they lived under the same brand, you know, now we have Courage to Lead and Courageous Pastors and we’re coaching both.

Rich Birch — Yeah, so good. Well you spent a lot of time thinking about leaders. A part of why I love you and what I love what you do is there are folks who are in this space of you know, helping church leaders who I get the vibe from sometimes that that they just see us as a market. They just see us as like, hey we’re trying to like sell junk to churches. And that’s not you at all. I really do you give out the vibe and I’ve seen it consistently of your love for church leaders. Um, and which I I just want to hero and champion I think is fantastic. You spend a lot of time thinking about church leaders, talking to church leaders. What are you seeing these days? You know we’re coming up on 600 episodes I wanted to get you on and kind of tap your kind of meta thinking around where are church leaders at? What are you wrestling in what are they wrestling with? What are you hearing them thinking about consistently these days?

Shawn Lovejoy — Well I would say you know first of all, you know three years ago 90% of my discussion with pastors was on the nuts and bolt side. 10% was on the personal side. Three years later the backside of political tensions, and pandemic pandemics, and racial tensions, and every other kind of possible accusation that pastors could have thrown at them in the last three years, you know it’s now 90% personal and 10% nuts and bolts.

Rich Birch — Flip-flopped. Interesting. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Shawn Lovejoy — Like a lot of church leaders lost their swagger, I call it.

Rich Birch — No, it’s true.

Shawn Lovejoy — In in the last three years like we we just we’re just trying to stay out of off the front page, stay out of the headlines…

Rich Birch — Yeah, yes, yep.

Shawn Lovejoy — …you know not be accused of something we didn’t do, trying to be so careful and so tentative. If you’re not careful, you still can get in that mode where you’re playing defense all the time. You know so one of the things we’re talking a lot to pastors about is like, hey we got to get back off of our heels and get back up on the balls of our feet again. We got to start thinking. Let’s not let’s don’t move the target, move the bullseye, settle for less. Like the Lord wants your church to grow, more than you do.

Rich Birch — Oh that’s so good.

Shawn Lovejoy — So don’t over spiritualize this. Okay, he wants your church healthy things grow so we need to hold ourselves accountable to that and we can’t blame the pandemic forever. We got to we got to get back, you know and play offense. But that takes some you know some some they got to get their confidence, their courage back, you know to to take new ground in Jesus’ name.

Rich Birch — Yeah, let’s talk about that. So I love that. I’ve seen that as well. I think there is we’ve all taken a hit in these last number of years.

Shawn Lovejoy — We all have. Yeah.

Rich Birch — And and it’s this sense of like, oh gosh I’m not sure, you know what is it that God’s calling us to do. I do sense that there’s a pivot, as in conversations I’m having, there’s more and more leaders are leaning into… they’re not talking about rebuilding. We’re we’re done thinking about the percentage of people that were with us in 2019.

Shawn Lovejoy — Yeah.

Rich Birch — We’re like okay these are the people that are here. Let’s let’s build from here. What are you doing to help them get back in the game? What kind of coaching are you giving them? How are you helping but to kind of regain that swagger as you say? What’s that look like?

Shawn Lovejoy — One, you know I’ve been telling a lot of guys—it’s a beautiful biblical metaphor.

Rich Birch — Right.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know in Jewish culture some still true but ah orthodox do, you know, that when they when there’s a death, they have ah a period of grieving publicly signified by the sackcloth and ashes idea. But then there’s like that day of declaration when when the the period of grieving is over, and widows date again. It’s okay to ask a widow out on a date.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know I’ve told pastors like you need to grieve the loss that we had because that will affect you. It’s called PTSD and as much as 50% of pastors could be clinically diagnosed with PTSD. I really but do believe that. But there comes a day of declaration when it’s no more. We’re no more focused on the loss, like you say.

Rich Birch — Right, right, right.

Shawn Lovejoy — We don’t have 70%, we don’t have 80%, we got 100% – that’s what we got. We got a new launch team for the next level.

Rich Birch — Right. Yeah so good. Yeah I love that. Yes, yep.

Shawn Lovejoy — So we’re not going to talk about who’s missing anymore. We’re not going to talk about who’s left anymore. End of discussion. And I think there’s power in saying, no more. After today we got what we got, we’re going with the goers. The good news is everyone hasn’t left…

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — …and and now we’re going to develop a strategy to take what we’ve got and treat them as a launch team to go into the future.

Rich Birch — Okay.

Shawn Lovejoy — And there’s power I think there’s spiritual and emotional power in that.

Rich Birch — Yeah, so you haven’t heard episodes that we’re recording so Greg Surratt said exactly the same thing. He was like, listen friends we have to treat the people that are…

Shawn Lovejoy — He probably stole it from me somewhere.

Rich Birch — Yeah I’m sure he, you know, but ah hey I think that’s important like let’s lean in here folks, we’re hearing similar things here. Ah and he literally was the same language around we should be thinking about this as a new launch team that it’s like, hey you know and and he obviously talks to a lot of church planters and you know and there have been a you know ton of churches that have taken a hit. And seeing like okay I’m I’m back to just a couple hundred people. But hey if you were to start with a couple hundred people um, ah that would be amazing. You would have loved it right? You’d be like this is incredible. Um.

Shawn Lovejoy — I tell guys, you know Rich, I say how many people were here this past Sunday? And they’re like well you know, only 200 or or only a hundred or whatevers. Like and what was your giving?

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — Okay, all right. It was you know $3000 let’s just so let’s be very very concerned.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — …say if I went to a church planter…

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — …and said I’ve got a core group of a hundred and a hundred and fifty thousand dollars that I’ll hand you…

Rich Birch — Yes, yes, yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — …over the would you what… how many church planters you think would take that deal?

Rich Birch — Yes, all day long. Yes, all day long. Absolutely.

Shawn Lovejoy — Ah yeah, it’s matter perspective.

Rich Birch — Yes, absolutely, yeah. I love it. So let’s think about that. So we’re we’re talking to some church leaders. We’re trying to encourage them, hey you you know we’re let’s think about the people that were you know they’re with us. They’re a launch team. That that means building teams again. That means rebuilding the people we’ve got. That means kind of redeploying them. What would be some of those practical steps about enlisting the people that are with us? Kind of helping them get plugged in helping them end up in, you know the right seat on the bus. All those kinds of things. What kind of things should we thinking about that that?

Shawn Lovejoy — One of the things we learned through the pandemic is one of the most indicting things about a lot of churches we talked with is not they couldn’t… it wasn’t just fringe people that left, it was leaders that left, and they didn’t even know where they were.

Rich Birch — Yeah yeah.

Shawn Lovejoy — So we’ve worked with a lot of fast-growing churches. But and I attend one now. But during the pandemic a lot of those churches looked around and said we we can’t even find our leaders. Like we’re not as close to we as we thought we were to our leaders. So I think the opportunity now is not focus on followers, getting more followers. But with this new launch team you know, to really look at building leaders at every level. So the new team I’m building is not a much of ministry doers, they’re ministry developers, and we’re going to build teams at every level. And the next time some calamity comes along, because it’s going to come along – Jesus sort of promised that, you know we’re going to be strong at the center.

Shawn Lovejoy — We’re not going to have people we pay to do ministry, and we’re going to build a leadership culture. And you’re responsible for not just making Sundays happen but reproducing yourself. I want a list of people you’re meeting with.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes, yes, yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — That you’re training to think like you think, see what you see, say what you say, and we’re going to make that part of our metrics on our staff going forward.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — That you’re reproducing yourself in the lives of others, and we’ll be stronger next time if we’ll start at the center and build out that way.

Rich Birch — Yeah I love that. Let’s lean in a little bit more on that. I think we all agree Ephesians 4 we should be building up. Our job is not to do the ministry. We need to be equippers of the saints. That’s what we’re called to do. But we all seem to be caught in this temptation of let’s just find some doers, or or maybe even more pointedly, let’s pay some doers because then I don’t have to develop people. Um push the push more on that.

Shawn Lovejoy — Yeah.

Rich Birch — Tell tell us more about the distinction between a doer and a leader. Help us understand that.

Shawn Lovejoy — It’s like everything else that God has taught us. I mean his his his teachings are not restrictive. They’re freeing. I mean you know, I tell guys the the tagline for the book is “this doesn’t have to kill you”.

Rich Birch — Hmmm.

Shawn Lovejoy — Like if you’re if you’re overwhelmed right now and you’re overextended, you’re over committed. You have to ask yourself is it because Jesus has put more on me than human what’s humanly possible… Or is it because I’m a control freak…

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Shawn Lovejoy — …and I think nobody can do it better than me?

Rich Birch — Yeah, right. Yes, yes, right.

Shawn Lovejoy — And I I want I want or can’t build a team. You know so one is that it’s that spiritual desire and commandment but two it’s it’s leadership’s a spiritual gift. So pastors need to hear the mandate to say we need to put people in leadership positions not that push buttons and move chairs, which is what we tend to hire. We tend to look for doers, technicians.

Rich Birch — Yes, right.

Shawn Lovejoy — When we’re better off… God knew there’s not enough money to go around to pay everybody to do ministry. And very few people were paid to be good in the new testament church.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — Very few of them. And money was scarce.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know and it can and can and will be scarce at times with us. We’re never gonna have enough money to pay everybody to do ministry. He knew that would be a lid to the church. So he said, you guys that are the elders you gotta you got to teach people, you got to equip people rather than do the work of the ministry.

Rich Birch — So why do you think we’re so tempted towards doers? Why why does? Why do we?

Shawn Lovejoy — It’s quicker.

Rich Birch — It’s quicker.

Shawn Lovejoy — It’s quicker. It’s faster. It’s plug and play.

Rich Birch — Okay, yeah, yes, yeah yeah.

Shawn Lovejoy — I mean it’s it’s easier for me to just grab somebody and put them on staff and start paying them. You know because Sunday’s always coming. It comes every seven days.

Rich Birch — Right.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know it’s the tyranny of the urgent over what’s really really important. So but the cool thing is it is measurable. Like I I can I can I can raise the value of this in our organization and say, you’re no longer just going to be prized for making junk happen. Like you’re actually going to be valued and indispensable here by giving your job away over time.

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah, love it. It’s It’s so good. You know I think we’re always, you know, leadership development is one of those pieces where it’s like it’s like we all know we’re called to that. we all know hey that’s the thing we’re called to do but then actually so few of us actually hunker down and do the week-in/week-out… What would be some of those habits that you’ve seen, or those kind of repetitive things that leaders who develop other leaders just seem to do all the time? …They find themselves repeating time and again?

Shawn Lovejoy — Well, you know it starts at the top. I mean I was just with a you know megachurch this this week who knocked it out. You know had 8000 people there for Easter – is an all time high for them. Their biggest auditorium seats 900 people…

Rich Birch — Love it. Love it.

Shawn Lovejoy — …and 8000 people they’re just people everywhere. But I asked the pastor, I said how many times you teach this past year? He said I think 48 something like that.

Rich Birch — Wow. Wow. Yes, yeah, yeah.

Shawn Lovejoy — Dude, it starts at the top. Starts at the top. Like you need to be here those 48 Sundays, perhaps, but you need to get get get down to about 35 Sundays a year. Not just for your benefit, but you need to pick 4 to 6 Sundays this next year, let somebody else teach, and you be there and debrief after every single service, like that’s how you build a deeper bench.

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know we usually don’t give our job away in ministry until we’re on vacation. But like the new value is like I want you to have four Sundays a year. Let’s just start there.

Rich Birch — Right.

Shawn Lovejoy — Four Sundays a year when you’re not on vacation, but someone’s doing your job.

Rich Birch — Right. Right. Yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — Worship leader, one Sunday a month. Okay, you can’t be on the stage you’re here can’t be on the stage.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Shawn Lovejoy — So like you can begin to systemize this at every level, and like raise that value. That man the goal is not just performing, producing events and services and getting my atta-boy atta-girl because of that…

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah.

Shawn Lovejoy — But like I’m I’m I’m reproducing myself and other people and that’s championed on our team. And valued and that’s what makes me indispensable.

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Shawn Lovejoy — A lot of leaders get insecure like, but if I get off the stage, you know… You know that they might like the new guy better or whatever.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — But that’s that’s pride. That’s fear. None of those things come from God. That’s straight from the evil one. We have to wrestle those things to the ground. In reality I’ve been the senior leader. Man the most indispensable people on my team were people who had that knack of giving their job away. The ones that couldn’t became the bottleneck, you know.

Rich Birch — Yes, yeah, yeah.

Shawn Lovejoy — They hit a lid and and everybody will.

Rich Birch — Yeah, there’s an interesting thing there, you know, I think and I’ve seen this happen in my own life, I’ve seen it happen with other leaders where you know early on—maybe in our 20s or 30s—we have a measure of success. And oftentimes when you peel back the layers of what that is it comes down to, wow that person is like super-dedicated. They are um like they’ve got tons of energy. They are willing to come in early and leave late. And all of those things are good, but there’s a downside to that, which is um, you well, first of all, you can’t keep doing that. At some point that’s a that’s actually a function of your age and your you know energy and all of that, and that does wane eventually in life. I know that’s hard to believe, young leaders, but eventually that does wane and we don’t reinforce the right behavior early on which is you have got to develop people around you. That’s actually that’s the killer skill we’re all looking for at the end of the day that is the way you will be indispensable and never lose a job in the local church, which is if you can replace yourself time and again as opposed to you’re the person that was always here before the doors open and you’re here you know and late into the night working hard. But we but we all still do seem to pat those people on the head and be thanks so much for working.

Shawn Lovejoy — It’s so true. It’s so true.

Rich Birch — So so difficult. Um now you’ve written a book I want to dive into. Talk a little bit about this. It’s called Building a Killer Team—I love this—Without Killing Yourself or Your Team. We don’t want to kill anybody ah… tell us about this. Why did you write this book? And we want to I friends we’re going to send you to killerteambook.org – we want to send you there today. But tell us about why you wrote this book. What was it that led you to say, hey now’s the time to write this book?

Shawn Lovejoy — Yeah, well you know we’ve been coaching and teaching for years around what we call the gears of growth, like I can trace every growing or non-growing church really back to three things. It’s the culture, the team, or the systems. And they’re separate but interdependent gears.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know and we’ve talked about as you said earlier coaching leaders through what keeps them awake at night. I could promise every leader who’s listening to your podcast today. The number one thing that keeps them awake at night? People. Finances is number two, but it’s people. And the two biggest lies from hell ever believed is like, it’ll be easier when we get to here.

Rich Birch — Right, right, right.

Shawn Lovejoy — And if I can hire this person, it will solve all my problems.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know, then you realize every person is a problem, you know.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — And so I sought out to sort of take a lot of our coaching on and around what we’d done in terms of like how to build great healthy teams.

Rich Birch — Right.

Shawn Lovejoy — And build it into a framework or a sequence. And shout out to you. I don’t want this time to get away from you because I I sought out some of the smartest people I know… I say in the book like every great decision and great idea ought to come out of out of a out of collaboration not isolation. You know and so knowing that I wanted to put together a framework, a sequence, and a little bit tighter in a knit way um I reached out to you and my buddy Kenny Jahng, you know over three years ago, if you can believe that.

Rich Birch — It’s been that long?! Gosh.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know and I said hey guys, help me. Like I’ve got a lot of great stuff here bouncing around in my head, but I want to build like a mandate. I want to build a sequence. I want to build a framework. I want to build a job description for how a leader can build a killer team without killing themselves for their team. But I didn’t use that word and you were the ones spoke up and said, you know what you’re describing? You’re describing a killer team. And I’m like bam! That’s it! You know God was loud, and it was birth out of that meeting.

Rich Birch — Right. It’s funny. Yeah.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know in collaboration with some friends. So shout out to you and God speaking through you, and then it was just off to the races. It just made a lot of sense and I later went looked it up – it’s on the back cover of the book. The first word the first definition of the word killer is a murderer, somebody that slays people, you know…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — …but the adjective is something that’s strikingly impressive or effective.

Rich Birch — Love it. Yeah.

Shawn Lovejoy — And I thought that’s it. That’s it. That’s how … So so ah so the the goal of this work was to get up, give a job description to a leader who says I I need to be a better team leader, team builder, and I’m kind of overwhelmed, kind of overextended, kind of overcommitted, kind of overexposed – something we taught as a leader. And I look like I’m always available, and I’m in the middle of the weeds and I can’t get out, and that was the heart behind the book.

Rich Birch — Yeah, I love it. So The thing I love about it is it is a sequence. It’s a you know, it is a a process. It’s a a way to understand how to step through developing. Can you give us a sense of that process – kind of give us a you know, maybe a few of those highlights that have been like, okay here are some important steps in this process that we need to make sure um that we follow as we’re building our relaunch team, as we’re thinking about you know, rebuilding the teams around us.

Shawn Lovejoy — Yeah, so we we talk about five in the book – five pillars of a killer team. One is to foster togetherness. You know we’ve got to we’ve got to help the the worship ministry care about the children’s ministry. Because I hate to tell you this, they don’t care about the children’s ministry.

Rich Birch — True.

Shawn Lovejoy — Like we have to get the team and the family at the table, get them communicating with each other, learning from each other. And I say in there, killer teams are not just committed to the mission. They’re committed to each other.

Rich Birch — So good.

Shawn Lovejoy — And of course that that goes hand-in-hand to what Lencioni says in The Advantage. He says a highly-aligned, highly-cohesive leadership team is the competitive advantage. And I think that’s true in church, by the way. It’s not… they’re all we’re all singing the same songs, teaching out of the same book. Why are why are a few growing and many aren’t? It’s it’s this team piece.

Rich Birch — Right.

Shawn Lovejoy — It’s a leader’s ability to build a cohesive leadership team, and then recruit and build great talent. You know you got… I tell people average talent will sign up on a card and raise their hands, you know. Elite talent has to be recruited. And then you got ah you gotta you gotta to keep that talent. And then we talk about bolstering accountability, and building what we call last 10% culture and we we encourage more conflict in the book. A healthy conflict, rather than artificial harmony. And then structuring for growth and peace, and that’s you know reproducing. We talk about building one-pizza teams. I don’t want more people reporting to a leader that can split a pizza.

Rich Birch — Right, right, right. Love it. So good.

Shawn Lovejoy — Because I can manage more people than that, but I can’t reproduce myself in 15 people.

Rich Birch — Right. No.

Shawn Lovejoy — I’m not that good.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know Jesus only selected 12 – how many you think we can do?

Rich Birch — Right.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know and he spent more time with 3.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — So the good news is more people can lead 4 people than can lead 15 people.

Rich Birch — Right. Yeah, I love that.

Shawn Lovejoy — So it’s that’s literally your leadership pipeline. And then maintaining rhythms and and finish lines. You know it’s it’s making sure we set a team culture where there’s like ah a daily finish line. We can’t be working all the time. A weekly finish line, and a so a rhythm in our culture where we celebrate wins more often. I was talked I talked with the CEOs of two of the ministry staffing companies – two of the biggest ones. This the ministry search firms in North America – you would know they’re known if I called them. And the great resignation has happened in the church as well as the marketplace.

Rich Birch — Sure.

Shawn Lovejoy — And one Harvard Business review, and I think this is true for ministry, one of the primary reasons people are are giving for resigning from their positions is not going somewhere else for more money.

Rich Birch — Right.

Shawn Lovejoy — It was that we never celebrate the wins here. Like nothing’s ever good enough.

Rich Birch — Oh yeah, that’s good.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know and Sunday’s always coming, and the next series has got to be better than the last series, and we got raise the bar and we’re about excellence because that’s what Bill Hybels said you know blah blah blah blah blah and like nothing’s ever good enough and and we we never celebrate progress and…

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah.

Shawn Lovejoy — …the the simple little life change stories that make ministry worth it all, you know? And so.

Rich Birch — Well and that I think is a particular danger in the church world because Sunday is always coming, because we are on this treadmill, and you know and you you know you feel this. And you know you come through whatever big day Christmas, Easter, you know some huge things happen, baptism Sundays, whatever that looks like in your church. And I know for me I have to fight I have to fight the feeling inside at like one o’clock two o’clock Sunday afternoon where it’s like okay well here comes the next one. The next one’s coming like we you know that’s we just need to move on. But we’ve got to slow down. We’ve got to you know say okay, let’s celebrate. I love that that’s you know, defined finish lines. That’s really really good.

Shawn Lovejoy — I say in the book, Rich, that some of the most depressing times in my life as a megachurch pastor was in the car on the way home from Easter services after hitting our numerical goal…

Rich Birch — Yes, yes, yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — …and realizing, oh stink.

Rich Birch — Yeah, we just raised the bar.

Shawn Lovejoy — Sunday comes in seven days – like it’s so fleeting.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know that’s what I mean by the fact that this this numerical thing, it’s a mirage. Like you’re if you’re not happy now, you’re not going to be happy there.

Rich Birch — Right right.

Shawn Lovejoy — And it’s learning to enjoy the day and live in this rhythm between intensity and rest every day. And enjoying the journey, because it gets more complex. It gets more difficult as God blesses it. So I got to make sure I’m in this for the long haul.

Rich Birch — Love it. Can you give us some practical coaching around, you know, we all love to acquire. We all would love to acquire like the best team ever. We would all be like we’d like to find these people, raise them up, put them on our team, and be like these are like you know these are experts in all these areas. But you know we all have folks on our team that maybe are not just not cutting it in one way or another. They’re just not um, living up to our expectations. They’re maybe not living up to their own expectations. What coaching would you give to us on what we how we should help get them realigned, or frankly move them out? What what would what does that look like for us? Because that’s a part of building a killer team right is that…

Shawn Lovejoy — Yeah, yeah.

Rich Birch — …hey you know there’s going to be some folks that maybe aren’t performing as well. They’re not in the killer category yet. What’s that look like?

Shawn Lovejoy — I think I got to like like three chapters in the book on that but I’ll try to do it in 60 seconds or less. You know one… I have a leader called—you’ll love this, Rich—I mean you had this a million times happened to you. Like I’ll have a senior leader or a team leader, you know, call me and they’re frustrated about somebody on their staff or on their team, and they’re whining, and groaning. And and they’re like what do you think I should do? And I’m like, well first of all have you told them what you just told me?

Rich Birch — It’s so true. So true.

Shawn Lovejoy — 99 out of a hundred times, you know what their answer is. Well no, not exactly. I’m like well first of all, that lacks integrity. If you’re frustrated by people on your team, and you’re not telling them, like that lacks integrity.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Shawn Lovejoy — You need to be willing to be clear and honest with them about not meeting your expectations. And the cool thing about that is the clearer we get with our expectations of a team member, the more it allows them to hear from the Holy Spirit. And self-select, opt-out, you know, etc. For them to come to the… it’s better for them to come to the conclusion they can’t keep up then you come to that conclusion privately and then go surprise them by it. You know and if we’re thinking about moving somebody, or managing them off the team like Lencioni says. And I tell leaders if they would be surprised by that conversation, we haven’t been honest with them along the way.

Rich Birch — Yes. Right. Absolutely.

Shawn Lovejoy — So it begins with like an honesty and a clarity. And here’s where you’re winning. Here’s where you’re not winning. Here’s what’s acceptable. Here’s what’s not acceptable. I owe you that kind of honesty, owe you grace, honesty but I also owe you proper placement.

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah.

Shawn Lovejoy — Like I owe you the privilege of being in a seat on the bus that aligns with your gifting, your wiring, and your level of talent. If I put you in over your head, it’s gonna steal your joy, and it’s gonna steal my joy.

Rich Birch — Yeah, Love it.

Shawn Lovejoy — So that’s why we’ve got to hang on to our roles loosely and keep our eyes on the goal, you know? And so all of that spiritual enterprise and that conviction and courage to be more candid and not try to be the most popular person on the team, be the most respected person on the team, and to be really, really honest and courageous with our with our teammates puts ourselves and our teammates in our best position to hear from God, and know whether we’re meeting expectations or not.

Rich Birch — Yeah there’s no doubt that candor is kindness, right? That we want to be super clear with people on where they’re at and the earlier we can do that, the better. Um, you know I know in my own life I’ve respected leaders who have come to me early and been like, hey this is not meeting my expectations. I would way rather that than… because we’ve all been in the opposite of those conversations where it’s like they’re they’re describing something that happened last week but you can tell that there’s emotional baggage from a year ago, two years ago, ten years ago…

Shawn Lovejoy — Yep yep.

Rich Birch — …and you can smell that stuff a mile away. And we just know then then I feel and I feel stupid as a leader. I’m like I can’t believe you didn’t talk to me about this. We could have sorted this out. Love that. Love that. Love that. Well, where do we want to send people, you know, I want to make sure people pick up a copy of this this book. So where do we want to send them want to send them to killerteambook.org – tell us more about that. What what do we want to where do we want to send them all those kind of things?

Shawn Lovejoy — Yeah, well I self-published with my my friend and coach Sam Chan’s …(?)… labels mainly because I wanted to get the book as cheap as possible so I could give it away. You know I don’t need to I don’t need to try to get rich or famous on books. I’m a coach.

Rich Birch — Totally.

Shawn Lovejoy — But but I want this content out to as many leaders as possible. So we’re able to get give give almost give the book away…

Rich Birch — Yep. Yep.

Shawn Lovejoy — …you know for shipping plus cost and you know by not signing with a national publisher.

Rich Birch — Yep.

Shawn Lovejoy — So you’ll see that reflected at killerteambook.org literally for the cost of me printing the book and shipping it to you.

Rich Birch — Yes. Yeah, love it. Friends, this is incredible. You know you know this book is worth, while it’s worth multiple times… you know the content is worth you know a hundred times what you’re going to pay for it or more – a thousand times what you’re going to pay for it. Ah, but even just you know you know from a book point if if you go there, you’ll see it’s a super low price. Like it’s say it’s just cost plus shipping, which is amazing. This would be a great tool for for teams to do together. is that the best place we want to do that there too if I’m looking for multiple copies – should I just send everybody on my team there to pick up their own copy? Is that the best for that?

Shawn Lovejoy — Yep yep, you can that literally. There’s a couple bump ups you can buy 3 copies 10 copies.

Rich Birch — Yep.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know there’re on the site if you want extra copies for your team. And I should say you know one of the reasons we wrote the book the way we did, it’s not just for ministry leaders. It’s for marketplace leaders.

Rich Birch — Right, right, right.

Shawn Lovejoy — So I say to senior pastors, and stewardship pastors, and executive pastors like you, you getting some of these for the Christian CEOs and…

Rich Birch — Oh that’s a great idea.

Shawn Lovejoy — …and and Christian leaders in your congregation, you know, um, they’re all trying to build a killer team and you can get some street cred.

Rich Birch — Oh totally.

Shawn Lovejoy — By giving them a book that’s safe. It’s not loaded with Christian-ese, you know, because they may or may not be as devout in their faith. You know as you want them to be. And they also might be leading teams that are diverse spiritually. So I sort of wrote it through those lenses as well. But it’s a safe book to give to the Christian leaders in your congregation. And you’ll get some street cred by adding some value to their lives. You know because…

Rich Birch — I love it. That’s a great idea.

Shawn Lovejoy — Yeah yeah.

Rich Birch — You know I think particularly you know we we have those sometimes we don’t know what to do with marketplace leaders in our church. We don’t know how do we connect with them. I know there’s church leaders that are listening in that are a bit perplexed on how to engage with them. I love that idea – hey buy 10 but buy 10 copies of the book—friends, you won’t believe how cheap it is—and you know wrap it up, write a nice note on the cover, hey I was thinking about you as you lead at X organization…

Shawn Lovejoy — Gold.

Rich Birch — Um, you know my friend Shawn wrote this book – I think you’ll find it helpful. Let’s get together in a month and talk about it. Man, that would be amazing. I love that – that’s a great idea. So good. Well Shawn, this has been incredible. I appreciate your time today. Anything else you want to share just as we wrap up today’s episode?

Shawn Lovejoy — I’ll just close by saying you know the team is not the frustration. It’s not the interruptions, not the distraction. It’s not the footstool to build your kingdom. You know the team is the work. That’s what I say in the book. I mean the team is the work. And and at the end of the day I’m proud of a lot of things God’s accomplished through my life, but but but um, ah, all the books and the institutions and the nickels and the noses, and you know zeros – if you want me to boast about something I’ll talk about that the men and women I’ve been able to reproduce myself in.

Rich Birch — Yeah, I love it. Right.

Shawn Lovejoy — You know they have great ministries today. You know who came to a really really difficult spot in their life and I coached them through that…

Rich Birch — Love it.

Shawn Lovejoy — …and they broke through. And you know whatever. Your legacy will be people.

Rich Birch — Yeah.

Shawn Lovejoy — It’s so it’s it’s crazy that we would have that conversation in ministry, Rich, but we do.

Rich Birch — Yeah, no, it’s true.

Shawn Lovejoy — Make it about people. The team is the work it is. It is the closest group to you that you have an opportunity to disciple…

Rich Birch — Yes, love it.

Shawn Lovejoy — So don’t just use them to build this kingdom, man, reproduce yourself in them. That’s what you’ll be most proud of one of these days.

Rich Birch — Yeah, love it. So good. Ah so killerteambook.org – is there anywhere else we want to send them online if people want to track with you or with what you’re up to?

Shawn Lovejoy — Of course couragetolead.com is our marketplace expression of what we do. And then courageouspastors.com and the Courageous Pastors podcast over there is what we do on the on the ministry side of things.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Shawn Lovejoy — Lots of free stuff there.

Rich Birch — Love it. Thanks so much, Shawn. Appreciate being here today.

Shawn Lovejoy — Thank you, man.

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https://unseminary.com/coaching-on-rebuilding-a-new-launch-team-for-your-church-with-shawn-lovejoy/feed/ 1 Welcome back to the unSeminary podcast. We’re chatting with Shawn Lovejoy, the founder and CEO of Courageous Pastors and Courage to Lead. His work is all about coaching leaders around what keeps them up at night and focuses on personal and organization...



Welcome back to the unSeminary podcast. We’re chatting with Shawn Lovejoy, the founder and CEO of Courageous Pastors and Courage to Lead. His work is all about coaching leaders around what keeps them up at night and focuses on personal and organizational growth.



Shawn is talking with us about building and redeploying healthy teams in our churches after the struggles of the last couple of years.



* A switch in the focus. // Shawn says that three years ago, before so much of the upheaval we’ve experienced, 90% of his talks with pastors were on the nuts and bolts side of leading a church and 10% on the personal side. Today with everything we have going on in our world, that has now switched to 90% personal and 10% nuts and bolts. Shawn’s organization talks with pastors about getting back up and finding confidence and courage again.* Grieve the loss, then move ahead. // Grieve the loss that you had in your church since the pandemic, but then focus on moving ahead. Look at the church leaders currently on your staff as your new launch team and pour into them. Rebuild the team you’ve got and deploy them to equip your people to live out the church’s mission.* Look at building leaders at every level. // The opportunity for church leaders now is not to focus on getting more followers, but rather building leaders at every level. Look for people who aren’t just ministry doers, but ministry developers. Build teams from the staff to lay leaders to volunteers. Train your staff team to replicate themselves and give their jobs away. In doing so they make themselves indispensable rather than being bottlenecks. And building a strong leadership culture at your church will strengthen you at the center so you can stand firm when the next challenge comes your way.* Culture, team, and systems. // Shawn’s book Building a Killer Team Without Killing Yourself or Your Team helps leaders move ahead with becoming a better leader and team builder. Shawn can trace every growing or non-growing church back to three things—the culture, the team, and the systems—and he coaches around these three gears of growth. The number one thing that keeps church leaders awake at night is people. We need to stop believing that if we can hire a certain person it will solve all of our problems. Instead we need to learn to develop our people on healthy teams.* Build great, healthy teams. // Shawn’s process to building healthy teams focuses five pillars. This sequence includes fostering togetherness, recruiting and building great talent, bolstering accountability, structuring for growth and peace, and maintaining rhythms and finish lines.* Be clear and honest with your staff. // We all would love to acquire the best team ever. But we all have folks on our teams who aren’t meeting expectations. As a leader, part of developing staff member means talking to them when we are not happy with their performance. By doing so we can help them get realigned, or they may recognize the current position isn’t right for them. Be clear and honest about not meeting your expectations. It allows them to hear from the Holy Spirit on where they are called and whether they should opt out. Offer clarity and honesty on where they are winning and not winning, on what’s acceptable and not acceptable.



You can learn more about Building a Killer Team Without Killing Yourself or Your Team at www.killerteambook.org. To get coaching help, listen to the Courageous Pastors podcast, and explore more free resources that can help your church, visit Courageous Pastors at www.courageouspastors.com.



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Inside a 4X Growth In Group Engagement at a Growing Church with Joe Boyd https://unseminary.com/inside-a-4x-growth-in-group-engagement-at-a-growing-church-with-joe-boyd/ https://unseminary.com/inside-a-4x-growth-in-group-engagement-at-a-growing-church-with-joe-boyd/#respond Thu, 17 Mar 2022 08:44:00 +0000 https://unseminary.com/?p=868931

Welcome to the unSeminary podcast. Today we’re talking with Joe Boyd, lead pastor of Grace Fellowship in Minnesota. They are one of the fastest growing churches in the country as well as a church-planting church and have started 28 churches during their 34 years of service.

Jesus changed the world with a small group. Groups help fulfill discipleship and fellowship functions, create a connection and family, plus are a critical component to helping your church close the back door. Listen in as Joe talks with us about how Grace Fellowship shifted their groups culture and saw a huge increase in engagement.

  • Take a look at the groups. // When Joe first stepped into his role as lead pastor at Grace Fellowship, he took a look at the small groups within the church to gauge their health. Within his first three months in leadership, Joe visited each of the small groups and found that only 23% of the adults in the church were participating in groups. The groups that were in existence were strong and the members enjoyed them, however no new groups were being started.
  • Create a plan ahead of time. // At this point Joe and his team made the commitment to shift from being a church with small groups to a church of small groups. They didn’t want to rush into things, so made a plan to launch more groups nine months out. Grace Fellowship looked to the Rooted experience at Mariners Church to provide training and brought their staff through it before rolling it out to the rest of the church. Both adults and youth were exposed to Rooted and the result was a 70% participation of adults and 100% participation of teens in groups.
  • Drip it before you drop it. // Before relaunching groups, Joe dripped the topic to the congregation by talking about groups over and over. After the staff went through the Rooted experience, the church rolled it out to their leaders. By reimagining small groups, by modeling it, and then by challenging their leaders to carry it out, Grace Fellowship began building a new culture.
  • Devote the resources. // As Grace Fellowship rolled out their plan for groups, they devoted a significant amount of time, money and key people to leading the process. They also built a campaign around the launch of groups through the fall and didn’t allow anything else to compete with it. This was tough on one hand because the church didn’t grow through the fall, but Joe saw existing people at the church consistently engaging and taking ownership of the church.
  • Make it a priority. // While growth didn’t come in the fall for Grace Fellowship, it did come at the beginning of the new year. Now people were confident that if they invited their friends to church, they would have a positive experience. Make it a priority to get groups right because it will give you the foundation to grow and not have constant turnover.
  • Slow down and work together. // If you want to go fast, go alone, but if you want to go far, go with others. Slow down and spend time getting your team together to talk through a plan for groups. Not only does it allow everyone to bring their gifts and talents to the table to develop the plan together, but everyone will be bought-in when it comes time to roll out the plan.
  • Have a leadership structure in place. // Some lead pastors may think that churches become successful and grow based simply on their outside appearance – making themselves look attractive and fun. But the secret behind a growing church is having a leadership structure in place that is focused on developing and retaining leaders.
  • Focus on groups. // Looking to the future, Joe believes one thing that will scale up will be groups and group pastors. In groups you have to care for leaders and identify additional leaders for new groups so that you can make room for the number of people coming into your church. If you want to be a church of small groups as you grow, you need more leaders in the groups ministry than just about anywhere in your church. This will add to the success and health of your church moving forward.
  • Grow slow and strong. // A lot of times we get hung up on fast growth in our church. But Joe reminds us that compound growth that is slow over time can actually grow our church into one of the largest. We can have plans to grow, but we need to actually focus on and care for the people rather than just the numbers.

You can learn more about Grace Fellowship at www.findgrace.com.

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Episode Transcript

Rich Birch — Well hey, friends – welcome to the unSeminary podcast. So glad that you have decided to tune in. You know every week we try to bring you a leader who will both inspire and equip you and I know today is going to be no exception to that. Super excited to have my friend Joe Boyd with us. We’ve known each other for a few years and it’s so exciting to have him on the podcast. We just were catching up from not having talked for a number of years – so good to have Joe with us. Joe is the lead pastor of one of the fastest growing churches in the country. It’s called Grace Fellowship in the Minnesota part of the world. They have one location, church online, it’s one of the fastest growing churches, they’re doing lots of incredible things in the Twin City Metros area. Welcome to the show, Joe; so glad you’re here.

Joe Boyd — Rich, it’s great to be back and great to see you and catch up and I’m looking forward to to sharing some insights that we’ve had around small groups this year.

Rich Birch — Fill out the picture for us about Grace Fellowship kind of paint the picture a little bit tell us a little bit about the church. Give us a a bit of a flavor of the church.

Joe Boyd — Yeah, um, Grace Fellowship is a church that’s 34 years old. It’s actually one of the few churches in the country that has that it’s a church-planting church in their bylaws and we’ve started 28 churches in those 34 years.

Rich Birch — That’s amazing.

Joe Boyd — Um, and so there’s a long history of ah reproduction in this church and I’m the second pastor.

Rich Birch — That’s amazing.

Joe Boyd — So the first pastor was here over 30 years and then they had a little over a year interim, and I answered the call to come up from Kansas to the Twin Cities and take over and, man, it’s been a wild ride stepping into you know the world turning upside down in the midst of all this. So yeah, it’s been a fun ride.

Rich Birch — Yeah, what a time to what what a time to start in a church. It’s great.

Joe Boyd — Yeah, yeah I like to think that it’s like dog years, so the past three years have been, you know the longest 21 years of my life.

Rich Birch — Yes, absolutely yeah, yeah, yeah, so true that is so true. Love that. Well we are going to talk about groups and and I you had shared a little bit about what was happening at Grace, and I frankly I found that astonishing. It was one of those like lean in like, what-what-are-you-talking-about, you know, thing which is pretty incredible. But set the scene for us. Give us a sense of kind of what’s the group’s culture been like. What ah you know, kind of pre- some of the changes you’ve made as you think about what what did that look like. Give us kind of talk us through what that was kind of before um, the in the before times before you had made some changes on that area.

Joe Boyd — Yeah, coming in coming into Grace Fellowship… um I was I’ve made a shift. For a long time I was always focused on church growth and and I’m a starter – I’m a catalytic leader, and and for the ten years prior at my previous church we would grow but we’d have this back door. And so it wasn’t until the last three years I was there that we finally started to realize groups are so critical. And so we we started to make some changes and the church got way healthy. And um, and so when I came in that was one of my number one questions was how are we doing on groups? And they they said well you know, we’re doing pretty good, and and I personally made it a mission in the first first three months to visit every one of the small groups.

Rich Birch — Oh nice.

Joe Boyd — Now um inside of a church that was like 600/700 people um you would think that would take longer. But what I found was that only 23% of the adults in the church were participating in small groups.

Rich Birch — Right.

Joe Boyd — Now what I will say is that the groups I visited were very strong. There were even groups that had been meeting for fifteen or twenty years, and and so I didn’t want to turn any dials and mess those up. Um, but but what I did find was that they weren’t starting new groups. And so um, you know the way we would classify that is would say it was a church with small groups but not a church of small groups. So what what began was a commitment that we’re going to make this shift.

Rich Birch — Right. Right.

Joe Boyd — And it’s not going to happen overnight. Um, you don’t you don’t birth a baby in night. Ah you know without nine months, and the bigger the plane the longer the runway. So we said that we would launch groups in the fall. Um, and that was about nine months out. And what we learned was that we needed ah a plan to get there, so we leaned into what Mariners Church had done through Rooted and did the Rooted experience which was really good. A couple of real practical things: if you’re gonna be serious about groups, you’ve got to make a priority to identify money and people and time to it. And then we took our entire staff through Rooted before we did it as a church and…

Rich Birch — Oh yeah, yeah, that’s cool yet.

Joe Boyd — …That was really good because then they were able to speak with confidence that this was good. And um and I had one of my strongest leaders directing this and we started to add groups and follow the process, and when we pulled the trigger, the adults and the youth did this in our church and um, when we got to the end of it, we had 70% participation in the adults.

Rich Birch — That’s amazing.

We had a 100% participation with the teenagers and and and lives were being changed, we saw people grow groups form out of this and…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Joe Boyd — And then that led us to turning the corner and going into the the 2020, which none of us saw coming…

Rich Birch — Yep, yes, yes.

Joe Boyd — …and and what happened there, Rich, was like everybody – I mean we got shocked, but what I believe was that God was already on the path of of creating the the ark or the lifeboats for for people. And so what we found was that we weathered the storms of isolation much better because the vast majority of our church were in groups. And so we saw care happen. We saw all those things happen. Now over the past you know year year and a half what we begin to notice, no matter how many times we’d call, checkup on people that were not plugged in, the vast majority of people who did not stay with the church for one reason or another ah, we’re not in groups…

Rich Birch — Were not groups. Yeah, yeah, totally.

Joe Boyd — …and and and and so so the groups really became the main force of the church, the way we communicated, the way we cared, and it was that was that was our saving grace.

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah, love it. Let’s dive into that a little bit. You know one of the things I’ve I’ve joked about and this is a part of why these numbers caught my attention was you know it seems like most churches can get a third, you know, maybe 30% between you know in that range of people in groups by just having groups. Like it’s like if you have groups you can get that many. Like and and that I don’t want to discourage anybody that’s listening in you know if you’re trying hard and that’s where you’re at, but that that is that seems to be the the dynamic. The thing that I found fascinating about this story was you were actually lower than that, you know, you were lower than the you know what that kind of like benchmark is and then have seen tremendous growth. Let’s pull apart what you did in that in that ramp that kind of nine months. How did you get it ready? We loved Rooted. We’ve had actually had Erin on from Mariners – that was I don’t know maybe two years ago so we’ve and we’ve had many churches talk about just how great it’s been, but let’s let’s pull apart what kind of happened in those nine months to get ready for that. I understand you went through with your staff, but what are the things could we kind of ah, help leaders to think about as it you know if they’re looking to try to increase their engagement on the group side in ah you know these months and and years.

Joe Boyd — Well I would say first and foremost our elders pulled away and we really prayed about the priorities of the church and that was the one that kept coming through that we knew we were going to engage our community and serve our community but we really knew we wanted to get discipleship and groups down because. It it it fulfills so many functions of the church it fulfills fellowship but it also fulfills discipleship and it creates this connection and family. Jesus changed the world with a small group.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes.

Joe Boyd — And and so we we we think about that a lot. And so that was the first thing, having the support, having prayed through that through a retreat, coming back and being resolved about it. And then what happened was begin to, as lead pastor, begin to drip it before we dropped it. I would sprinkle in and just talk about small groups, small groups, small groups all the time. and. And as we were building up to it in Minnesota the summers are kind of a time when people really get out and go north and go to the cabins and go to lakes and, but we continue to work through that time preparing for these moments where we were gonna we were building the team that was praying. So simultaneously we had the the staff going through it as quickly as we could to have the experience all experiences, and we process that what was good what what, you know, what did we learn. And and then we begin to roll it out to our leaders and we were building this culture by reimagining small groups, by modeling it. And then challenging our leaders to carry it out. And and we had a plan. We devoted significant amounts of resources. When we were at 23% we weren’t really spending very much money on groups, and we weren’t spending a lot of time on groups. We weren’t preaching and teaching about it. And we definitely didn’t have a full time designated person to it. Once we did that, that’s whenever things started to move forward.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Joe Boyd — Um, the the other thing we did was we we built up to a campaign. We did not compete against this time.

Rich Birch — Yeah.

Joe Boyd — Um, as ah as a catalytic, evangelistic, outreach-oriented pastor, all right – you know me to know that’s true.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes, yes.

Joe Boyd — Um, it took everything out of me, because when you launch a ten week series in the fall—which is a prime time for growth potentially—um I thought, well, we’re gonna just do this, but this was what we were doing. And and so we weren’t really growing. All the way up through Thanksgiving we didn’t really grow. But what I saw was the consistency of people coming and engaging. And another thing we noticed…

Rich Birch — Right, right, right.

Joe Boyd — …was that people quit saying “your church” and started calling it “their church”.

Rich Birch — Oh that’s great. That’s great. Love that.

Joe Boyd — As we ah as we saw people engage, they took ownership for the church. We had the funniest story that I heard in this whole thing was that um one of the group leaders um, was invited by a woman to come to the church 10 years prior. She was about to start Rooted and ran across that person—who didn’t go to the church anymore—invited that woman who originally invited her to the church back to the church…

Rich Birch — Right. Oh gosh; oh my goodness.

Joe Boyd — …she got into the groups, and here’s the best part – she started taking spiritual steps and that lady got baptized.

Rich Birch — Wow! I love it.

Joe Boyd — It was it was just crazy. So so so we got really stable and people took ownership of the church and um, we celebrated it, and I’m not good at that – I’m always onto the next thing…

Rich Birch — Yep sure, let’s go to the next thing. Yeah.

Joe Boyd — …but we celebrated it, and that was a critical moment. And then we set up hey here’s what’s next, and we went through Christmas, and we started in January, and that’s when our church really started to explode because people were confident that if they brought their friends, their friends would have the experiences they were having.

Rich Birch — Yeah.

Joe Boyd — And and so so making it a priority to get groups right actually gave us a foundation to grow and not have that constant turnover.

Rich Birch — Um, yeah I love this.

Joe Boyd — So those were just some of the big wins.

Rich Birch — I love it. You know, let’s talk about the series piece of it because you know this is one of those um things that we hear with regularity as we talk with churches that are not only um, you know seeing a higher levels of engagement in and the group side, but are growing as a church – that they’re dedicating time in the fall and in the winter. um for you know, kind of ah an all church campaign. Um, you know it could be Rooted, it could be—you know there’s a lot of these out there—The Red Letter Challenge. There’s a lot of ways to do this, but it’s the idea of like let’s all focus for a certain amount of weeks on kind of a single idea. We’re going to give you some resources, we’re going to encourage you to get into a group. Um, what would be some of the the kind of outcomes from what you did that that first year? Have you continued to do that? Why or why not? Let’s talk through that series a little bit.

Joe Boyd — Yeah, we did. Um, we the following year we did another series. We didn’t go 10 weeks we went 7. Um and we wrote it. We wrote our own but we modeled the Rooted method. And and so we wrote “What’s a Galatian?” and went through the book of Galatians as a church.

Rich Birch — Oh that’s fun.

Joe Boyd — And then um and and then we’ve also this year we did History Makers which takes us through the first 7 chapters of Acts. Um, so we’ve made it a commitment, a rhythm for us, that when we come back in the fall. We’re going to to start off in the fall and go to the end of October, maybe the start of November, and really get a groups’ push.

Rich Birch — Yes.

Joe Boyd — Um that is all church-focused and very in the Bible – book-heavy. Um, we also did a push this past year in February and March on relationships. I wrote a book that was in-house in our church called The Secret Sauce of Relationships, and we did the same thing there and we were seeing a boost in groups at that time because coming out of 2020 people were so isolated that they were desperate for relationships, and we were trying to create a habit of groups. Because you know when people don’t go to church, um, when they miss church they begin to not miss church.

Rich Birch — Oh that’s good..

Joe Boyd — And so they get out of habit and out of routine. So we were trying to create a reason to build on those groups and we added a few groups. It wasn’t a lot but we added a few and we were building up steam and so when we did History Maker, which included video of the original people that started the church…

Rich Birch — Oh that’s cool.

Joe Boyd — …and in conjunction with Acts and the story of Acts. Um, we made a jump and we didn’t even realize we made it until October – the end of October – because we measure all of October and we measure all of February for groups participation and those are the 2 times we measure. And we jump from 70% to 93%.

Rich Birch — That’s unreal, dude. That’s crazy.

Joe Boyd — Um and it and that’s in a year where we grew over 50% from the year before in adults coming out of all those.…

Rich Birch — Yeah, that’s unreal.

Joe Boyd — Yeah yeah, it’s, Rich, I’m telling you this is so not like it’s it’s not…

Rich Birch — Yeah, it’s crazy.

Joe Boyd — There wasn’t a really smart person that came… well there was: God. Jesus Christ came up with this plan.

Rich Birch — Yes, yes, well and friends, I know, listen I just want to underline this. Um, you know Joe’s leading one of the fastest growing churches in the country. It would be really easy for you to say, well, it’s easy to grow from 20 to you know, 90% in groups by by shrinking the church just to have less people attend and then you’ll have… But that’s not what’s happening. You’re seeing both increased engagement in groups and growth. You know from a kind of top line or weekend service point of view, which is which is amazing. That’s incredible to see. That’s that’s amazing. Praise God. And like you say, that that you know a big part of this is, you know, He’s moving in His people which is incredible, but that’s amazing. I love that, Joe.

Joe Boyd — Yeah, and in um, you know the interesting thing about about about our church is that um this church -God is really doing something. I would say in a lot of ways there’s a lot of tradition, a lot of history in this church of doing it ah, you know the way we always did it, and um and our elders and our staff and key leaders in the church have really been leaning into what the Holy Spirit’s doing and what we’re hearing.

Rich Birch — Yeah, that’s cool. Love that.

Joe Boyd — And I’ll tell you we we quit we quit chasing cool. Like I was the guy… there’s a lot of leaders and a lot of pastors out there that, I don’t know if you were like me, but I didn’t really know what to do so I’d look to see what the the hot churches were doing reaching people…

Rich Birch — Sure. Yeah.

Joe Boyd — …and and I’m like worked for them, let’s do that. And and and a lot of my early leadership was very, was more of an echo than a voice. Um and we started to really spend time listening to people and getting comfortable with where God placed us, and who we are, and I quit being a lone ranger leader that was driving fast and going by myself.

Rich Birch — Love that.

Joe Boyd — And I slowed down because I believe that if you want to go fast, go by yourself. But if you want to go far, go with others.

Rich Birch — Right; love that.

Joe Boyd — And so by slowing down and going with the team and and and seeing the gifts and the talents and letting the team help come up with the plan on how you do this, the buy-in was so much greater, and it seems… Listen, to every catalytic leader, you’re gonna think I’m crazy when I say this, but slowing down and getting your team together is—even if it feels like it’s slow and for me there were painful moments where I was like, seriously, like this doesn’t feel fast enough—

Rich Birch — Right.

Joe Boyd — Um, it was the best decision we ever made.

Rich Birch — Love it.

Joe Boyd — Was the best decision we ever made.

Rich Birch — So ah, can I ask you a question from, you know, as ah I’m not a lead pastor; I’ve been in that kind of second seat – that’s where I’ve spent most of my time. And there seems to be a lot of lead pastor types out there um who—and I’m sure it’s not any of them that are listening into this podcast—but who seem to pay lip service to groups. They’re like no, no, no groups are really important, like they’re really really important. But then it it just doesn’t translate in either their own actions, like you saying hey I’m going to go and, you know, visit all our groups. Or it doesn’t translate in the way they prioritize their time, or they don’t see um, you know they’re not kind of structuring things around the church to to um, you know to really help and aid the the groups’ thing. Why do you think that is, and what would you say to a lead pastor who’s maybe a little bit skeptical, or just isn’t really into the the groups thing? What would you say to them?

Joe Boyd — I would say this – I’ve studied…I had I had the privilege of studying some of the fastest growing, healthiest churches in the country before I started my last church. And if you look at what gets attention um, you think that that’s the solution.

Rich Birch — Right.

Joe Boyd — So largely content is is pushed out like crazy. If you want to hear great preaching… listen, the reason why American Church has shifted so much was because everybody realized, oh there’s great preaching on other churches in the internet and I’m home anyway so I’m gonna watch one of these communicators. Um.

Rich Birch — Right, right, right.

Joe Boyd — And I think that a lot of pastors think, oh the reason their church is big because of what they preach about, and the way that they preach, or that they’re creative, or I have to dress a certain way, or I have to ah vibe. I mean it’s it’s like buying a car by evaluating the way it looks on the outside.

Rich Birch — Oh that’s good. That’s good.

Joe Boyd — Great paint job. Super cool look, but but here’s the thing very little time gets focused on the mechanics work where you lift the hood up, you check the engine, doesn’t even have an engine. Um, you know how does that work?

Rich Birch — Right.

Joe Boyd — And and I would say that churches that are growing, and and pastors, I promise you there are people watching this right now that you’re better preachers than some of the 2000 and 3000 person church pastors that you’ve seen online. And you scratch your head and you go why? Why is this? Well it’s largely because there’s a leadership structure in place that is focused on retaining and developing leaders. And and and here’s the here’s the thing I came away with. In Isaiah 49 there’s this place where it says that that God hid me in the shadow of his hand. And the thought that I had was that… or the question I asked myself was am I more am I more concerned with being discovered, or am I more concerned with being developed?

Rich Birch — Oh that’s good.

Joe Boyd — And and and I really think that if you want to see healthy things, think about this: Jesus drew crowds, but he sent them away. When he had crowds He sat them in groups and had his disciples lead and care for them. Um Jesus spent an enormous amount of time on groups. Forming groups, identifying and raising up leaders is very hard work. It often happens behind the scenes.

Rich Birch — Yeah.

Joe Boyd — Um, it is not quick. It is not easy. We’ve all preached these great messages that cast vision and direction, but there was a structure for it…

Rich Birch — Yep.

Joe Boyd — …and so it just fades away. And so you have to lay the train tracks to run the train. And I believe that groups, and I believe leadership development in the church, are those train tracks.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Joe Boyd — And I just wasted enormous amounts of time preaching really cool stuff that didn’t have train tracks and it didn’t go anywhere.

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah, totally yeah.

Joe Boyd — That’s what I would say I think it’s a lack of knowledge um of just knowing how that part works and and it’s a lot of work.

Rich Birch — Yeah, yeah, that’s true. I love that, Joe. And I you know I think there is a real… I think you’ve you’ve really echoed and hit on an important point there where, you know, a lot of times we are we’re appeal we, you know we get drawn in by fast-growing churches and like what’s going on there, and and we miss the substrate underneath there of all this groups and relational stuff that’s holding it up that if that’s not there those churches don’t sustain over the extent over… you might get a pop of growth, but it won’t you won’t continue to see that. All right. It’s very cool. So I love we didn’t really even get into the pandemic. Obviously people were you kind of hinted towards this during that season, um, you know where you’re in lockdown and all that the groups provided the primary care engine and all of that and then we’ve now see this huge bump. You know your 9 out of 10 people attending groups – that’s incredible. When you look to the future, kind of peer up over the horizon a little bit, what do you think is next on the groups front for you guys? How are you, you know, what what questions are you still wrestling with/are you still thinking through as you’re thinking about how you continue to keep people plugged into groups? What are the you know, kind of what are you thinking about in the future when you think on this this groups issue for your church?

Joe Boyd — Yeah, as we think about our time resource and and staffing allocations on this, um out of out of all the things in our church that will probably scale up, it’s going to be groups and group pastors. Um, and and here’s what I mean. We we have a worship experience, okay, so we’re only going to have so many people on stage preaching. We’re gonna have so many people leading on worship. Those services are going to, you know the the number of people that can participate is not as dependent on the number of people that we hire on staff to lead or invest the time. But that’s not true in groups. In groups, there’s a point where you you have to care. So if you go back to the Jethro principle in Exodus, you know that you know some can lead to tens and hundreds and fiftys, and and so we know that we need to continue to scale and identify additional leaders that can lead groups so that we can continue to add to those numbers um, so that they’re supported. Because if we if we think, oh—and I used to think this too—like I was a groups pastor and I thought you just need one groups pastor and develop people underneath. But the problem is we’re living in a very transient culture right now and people are moving and shifting and and you need relational stability in your leadership. And so we’re looking to develop those leaders. We’re continuing to develop care leaders underneath that care for you know, five to eight small group leaders at a time. We’re trying to strengthen that part of the body as much as we possibly can, um and and and so when you see that succeed you need to lean into it more…

Rich Birch — Right.

Joe Boyd — …because you need more leaders in that groups ministry than just about anywhere in your church, if you’re going to make the shift of being a church of small groups.

Rich Birch — Yeah, love it.

Joe Boyd — And where you continue to grow. And and so that’s it for us. We’re praying through that. And we’re just like everybody else – we’re we’re facing the realities of our economy and you know, giving may not be as strong as it was before, but we have to lean in on the most important discipleship aspects of our church because that’s what’s going to lead to the the success and health of our church moving forward.

Rich Birch — Yeah, love it. So Good. We didn’t really talk about this ahead of time, but you know I know a part of the passion for why you went to the church that you’re at is its desire to plant more churches. You’ve mentioned this. It’s a really a replicating Church. It’s um, that’s like a whole other conversation we could have around how do we continue to be that as a church, and what does that look like for the future? How do these two things fit together as you think about kind of replication in the future, as you think about planting more churches? Um, how does the kind of what’s happened there—the story that God’s writing on the group side—how do you see those all fitting together as you as you look to the future?

Joe Boyd — Well I think um I think one thing is really true – you reproduce who you are. I mean look at your kids, right? I mean they they’ve got… there’s there’s uniqueness to them and there’s gifting to them, but largely your values and the life experiences they learn get reproduced because… Growing up I always said, well I’ll never do that when I grow up, and then you find yourself in that situation and you do what you experienced growing up. Um, so I think the same thing’s true about the churches that you reproduce. Um and and looking back I was in a church that helped start 10 churches in 10 years, and some of them were different and some went different paths but largely they followed the model that we had, and unfortunately for the first 6 or 7 years we really didn’t have this group health thing as a priority. And the early churches suffered for that…

Rich Birch — Right.

Joe Boyd — …because they were preaching the way we preached and doing what we do and think oh it’ll work for us and and and and I just didn’t know enough. Um here, when I came in the focus was we are going to get as healthy as we can because if people follow us we we wanted least say, hey we this is real. It’s biblical. It’s stable. Um, you know a lot of times we get hung up on the fast growth but compound growth that’s slower over time, like the difference between the fast-growing churches and the largest churches in America um, largely has a lot to do with time. And and a lot of people don’t even realize that if you had 10% growth over 15 years or 20 years, your church could potentially be one of the largest churches in America…

Rich Birch — Absolutely yeah, absolutely, you know, for sure.

Joe Boyd — …um, and we miss that.

Rich Birch — And way better to manage way easier to manage that growth. Yeah, way easier to manage it. Yes, yes.

Joe Boyd — And doesn’t freak people out because people hear, oh you’re fast growing. They think: you care about numbers and not people. And that’s not the heart of pastors…

Rich Birch — Yes.

Joe Boyd — …because I know a lot of the the pastors that are fast-growing church leaders, but but it’s a perception. we deal with…

Rich Birch — Yep, yep.

Joe Boyd — …and and and so but you’re right, you can build something a little slower and and make it healthy. But the to answer your question about multiplication. We have a vision to help start a hundred churches that multiply by 10 each.

Rich Birch — Yeah, that’s amazing.

Joe Boyd — And we’re focused on mid-sized cities in America um, and right now the pandemic has created a shift from the large urban centers back to the the mid-size cities. And what I would say is that Jesus was born in a small town. He he did most of his ministry in Galilee (midsize), and then ultimately he was in Jerusalem which was their largest Jewish center. Um, but midsize cities, in my opinion, are small enough to change, but big enough to matter.

Rich Birch — Right, right.

Joe Boyd — Because the small towns mimicked midsize and the large cities replicate or multiply what happens in mid-sized cities…

Rich Birch — That’s good.

Joe Boyd — …and so over the next 30 to 40 years, we want to invest in starting churches there, and and that niche because we believe there’s going to be this move from small town to mid-size to the urban centers. And this is going to be the sending church. And so we’ve got a 10X church network we’re working on. Exponential’s been looking at it and and given thumbs up on it, and New Thing is thumbs up and said yeah, and so we’re seeing it converge. And my denomination, they’re they’re leaning into this, and so that’s that’s a passion, but but for me I believe we want groups to be the driving force around that health and stability.

Rich Birch — Yeah I love that – I love that. We’ll have to have you on at another point and talk about the you know the the multiplication vision there. And and I just think that’s so great and so good. I you know I know, one of the things I’ve wondered you know, and have seen that unfortunately you know, there was like a pause there on so many of these multiplication efforts for a good year or eighteen months of you know, churches – they just stopped thinking about those things. Because they were everybody was freaked out about you know, you know, their own thing. Now that seems to be turning. It seems like okay, now we’re back to planting churches. We’re seeing new churches open. We’re seeing people back into campus expansion that were doing it before, but I know that’s your heart as well to see like, hey we want we want to continue to encourage that. Joe, this has been a great conversation – anything else you want to share just as we wrap up today’s episode?

Joe Boyd — Um I would just say to anybody who’s listening to this. Um, if you’re if you’re a leader of a church or you have any influence on the discipleship of the church. Um, really really focus in on groups. Um. I didn’t for a long time and I think that was pride blinding me, or ignorance blinding me, and um I just can’t stress enough that really take a deep dive and really ask God what he’d like to do in and through groups or discipleship in your church, and then do what God tells you to do because that that could be a big game changer.

Rich Birch — Love it. So good Joe. Appreciate this. I’d love to point more people in your direction. If people want to track along with your church and follow along, where do we want to send them online to do that?

Joe Boyd — Yeah, if um, if you want to find what we’re doing our website’s easy. It’s findgrace.com because that’s what we want. We want everyone to experience grace. And on social media you can find all our social media links there. Some of our social’s from previous Grace Fellowship MN so it’s a little bit easier to go to findgrace.com first and then track us from there.

Rich Birch — And then go jump from there. Good.

Joe Boyd — Um, yeah, and you can find staff and contact them if you have questions about what we’re doing.

Rich Birch — That’s great.

Joe Boyd — We’re a team effort. We’ve got great people that can that are here to help.

Rich Birch — Love it. Joe, thanks so much for being on the show – really appreciate you and cheering for you and your ministry.

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Welcome to the unSeminary podcast. Today we’re talking with Joe Boyd, lead pastor of Grace Fellowship in Minnesota. They are one of the fastest growing churches in the country as well as a church-planting church and have started 28 churches during their 34 years of service.



Jesus changed the world with a small group. Groups help fulfill discipleship and fellowship functions, create a connection and family, plus are a critical component to helping your church close the back door. Listen in as Joe talks with us about how Grace Fellowship shifted their groups culture and saw a huge increase in engagement.



* Take a look at the groups. // When Joe first stepped into his role as lead pastor at Grace Fellowship, he took a look at the small groups within the church to gauge their health. Within his first three months in leadership, Joe visited each of the small groups and found that only 23% of the adults in the church were participating in groups. The groups that were in existence were strong and the members enjoyed them, however no new groups were being started.* Create a plan ahead of time. // At this point Joe and his team made the commitment to shift from being a church with small groups to a church of small groups. They didn’t want to rush into things, so made a plan to launch more groups nine months out. Grace Fellowship looked to the Rooted experience at Mariners Church to provide training and brought their staff through it before rolling it out to the rest of the church. Both adults and youth were exposed to Rooted and the result was a 70% participation of adults and 100% participation of teens in groups.* Drip it before you drop it. // Before relaunching groups, Joe dripped the topic to the congregation by talking about groups over and over. After the staff went through the Rooted experience, the church rolled it out to their leaders. By reimagining small groups, by modeling it, and then by challenging their leaders to carry it out, Grace Fellowship began building a new culture.* Devote the resources. // As Grace Fellowship rolled out their plan for groups, they devoted a significant amount of time, money and key people to leading the process. They also built a campaign around the launch of groups through the fall and didn’t allow anything else to compete with it. This was tough on one hand because the church didn’t grow through the fall, but Joe saw existing people at the church consistently engaging and taking ownership of the church. * Make it a priority. // While growth didn’t come in the fall for Grace Fellowship, it did come at the beginning of the new year. Now people were confident that if they invited their friends to church, they would have a positive experience. Make it a priority to get groups right because it will give you the foundation to grow and not have constant turnover.* Slow down and work together. // If you want to go fast, go alone, but if you want to go far, go with others. Slow down and spend time getting your team together to talk through a plan for groups. Not only does it allow everyone to bring their gifts and talents to the table to develop the plan together, but everyone will be bought-in when it comes time to roll out the plan.* Have a leadership structure in place. // Some lead pastors may think that churches become successful and grow based simply on their outside appearance – making themselves look attractive and fun. But the secret behind a growing church is having a leadership structure in place that is focused on developing and retaining leaders.* Focus on groups. // Looking to the future, Joe believes one thing that will scale up will be groups and group pastors. In groups you have to care for leaders and identify additional leaders for new groups so that you can mak...]]>
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Helping Female Leaders in Your Church Find Their Leadership Voice with Kadi Cole https://unseminary.com/helping-female-leaders-in-your-church-find-their-leadership-voice-with-kadi-cole/ https://unseminary.com/helping-female-leaders-in-your-church-find-their-leadership-voice-with-kadi-cole/#comments Thu, 16 Dec 2021 09:44:00 +0000 https://unseminary.com/?p=726809

Welcome back to the unSeminary podcast. We’re talking with Kadi Cole, the founder of Kadi Cole & Company, an organization created to help leaders of all organizations. Kadi is with us today to talk about encouraging female leaders at your church while removing barriers from leadership opportunities.

  • Find the drop off. // Many men in church leadership are trying to help the women on their teams develop their potential, but they find that opportunities aren’t being taken advantage of by women, or enjoyed by women who are there. We may unknowingly put up barriers to women thriving in leadership and do a disservice to what we’re trying to accomplish in creating opportunities for them. If you find this is the case, look at where women are entering the pipeline in your church’s staff and volunteers, and where they’re dropping off. In most churches there is a big drop-off in women moving from the lower level leadership roles to manager roles. If you see that drop-off then you know there is something in your culture preventing women from finding their place and feeling confident.
  • Ask about experiences in those roles. // If you have women with great potential stepping down or stepping back from leadership, ask them what their experience was in the organization. We may hear a variety of answers from the work not being worth their time, to lack of feedback to help with growth. But sometimes we simply have things in our culture that make meeting easier for men and not women based on needs for their daily family and home lives.
  • Acknowledge the awkwardness. // When you’re thinking about how to talk to women about their roles and what is holding them back, it will be an awkward conversation on both sides. Just acknowledge that it might be weird and uncomfortable to talk about these topics. Let her know that you care deeply about her and her being everything she can be in the kingdom. Communicate that you want to talk about what needs fixing in your leadership that will help open doors for her to lead successfully. Make space for that confidential, honest and authentic conversation to happen.
  • Ask open-ended questions about life. // It’s easy to make assumptions about women or their life stage, so be individually focused by asking them open-ended questions about their actual lives. Communicating assumptions without knowing the truth sends mixed messages about a female leader’s value and importance as a leader. Valuing a female leader and her contribution means making space for her voice.
  • Give advice, not just compliments. // Giving vague compliments on a job well done isn’t constructive. Women rely more on constructive feedback. Offer specific compliments, but also add in suggestions on what to do next time. This affirms and develops her leadership while also encouraging her that she’s still wanted on the team.
  • Help clean the sticky floor. // When a woman comes into a male-dominated organization, it’s not easy to navigate and can bring out insecurity. Each woman has a “sticky floor” that is made of doubts and conversations women have in their own minds that keep them stuck. It causes them to hold themselves back from moving forward and going for leadership opportunities. You can help them fight the sticky floor by letting them know how they are demonstrating leadership. In addition to their confidence, also help them increase their competence by developing specific leadership skills that prepare them for higher levels of management.
  • Increase leadership confidence. // Women often tend to hold themselves to higher standards in their work and compare themselves to others. In Kadi’s latest book, Find Your Leadership Voice in 90 Days, she hopes to give women step-by-step guidance on how to step into leadership roles with confidence without compromising who they are.

You can learn more about Kadi and her work at kadicole.com. Learn more about the new book at findyourleadershipvoice.me.

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https://unseminary.com/helping-female-leaders-in-your-church-find-their-leadership-voice-with-kadi-cole/feed/ 1 Welcome back to the unSeminary podcast. We’re talking with Kadi Cole, the founder of Kadi Cole & Company, an organization created to help leaders of all organizations. Kadi is with us today to talk about encouraging female leaders at your church while ...



Welcome back to the unSeminary podcast. We’re talking with Kadi Cole, the founder of Kadi Cole & Company, an organization created to help leaders of all organizations. Kadi is with us today to talk about encouraging female leaders at your church while removing barriers from leadership opportunities.



* Find the drop off. // Many men in church leadership are trying to help the women on their teams develop their potential, but they find that opportunities aren’t being taken advantage of by women, or enjoyed by women who are there. We may unknowingly put up barriers to women thriving in leadership and do a disservice to what we’re trying to accomplish in creating opportunities for them. If you find this is the case, look at where women are entering the pipeline in your church’s staff and volunteers, and where they’re dropping off. In most churches there is a big drop-off in women moving from the lower level leadership roles to manager roles. If you see that drop-off then you know there is something in your culture preventing women from finding their place and feeling confident.* Ask about experiences in those roles. // If you have women with great potential stepping down or stepping back from leadership, ask them what their experience was in the organization. We may hear a variety of answers from the work not being worth their time, to lack of feedback to help with growth. But sometimes we simply have things in our culture that make meeting easier for men and not women based on needs for their daily family and home lives.* Acknowledge the awkwardness. // When you’re thinking about how to talk to women about their roles and what is holding them back, it will be an awkward conversation on both sides. Just acknowledge that it might be weird and uncomfortable to talk about these topics. Let her know that you care deeply about her and her being everything she can be in the kingdom. Communicate that you want to talk about what needs fixing in your leadership that will help open doors for her to lead successfully. Make space for that confidential, honest and authentic conversation to happen.* Ask open-ended questions about life. // It’s easy to make assumptions about women or their life stage, so be individually focused by asking them open-ended questions about their actual lives. Communicating assumptions without knowing the truth sends mixed messages about a female leader’s value and importance as a leader. Valuing a female leader and her contribution means making space for her voice.* Give advice, not just compliments. // Giving vague compliments on a job well done isn’t constructive. Women rely more on constructive feedback. Offer specific compliments, but also add in suggestions on what to do next time. This affirms and develops her leadership while also encouraging her that she’s still wanted on the team. * Help clean the sticky floor. // When a woman comes into a male-dominated organization, it’s not easy to navigate and can bring out insecurity. Each woman has a “sticky floor” that is made of doubts and conversations women have in their own minds that keep them stuck. It causes them to hold themselves back from moving forward and going for leadership opportunities. You can help them fight the sticky floor by letting them know how they are demonstrating leadership. In addition to their confidence, also help them increase their competence by developing specific leadership skills that prepare them for higher levels of management.* Increase leadership confidence. // Women often tend to hold themselves to higher standards in their work and compare themselves to others. In Kadi’s latest book, Find Your Leadership Voice in 90 Days, she hopes to give women step-by-step guidance on how to step into leadership roles with confidence without compromising who they are.



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Moving from Paid to Volunteer Music Teams in a Fast Growing Multisite Church with Stone Meyer https://unseminary.com/moving-from-paid-to-volunteer-music-teams-in-a-fast-growing-multisite-church-with-stone-meyer/ https://unseminary.com/moving-from-paid-to-volunteer-music-teams-in-a-fast-growing-multisite-church-with-stone-meyer/#respond Thu, 07 Oct 2021 08:44:00 +0000 https://unseminary.com/?p=602279

Thanks for tuning into this week’s unSeminary podcast. We’re talking with Stone Meyer, executive pastor from The Bridge Church in Tennessee. Stone is talking with us today about the musical worship part of services and how to develop excellence in your unpaid volunteer musicians.

  • The musical worship aspect. // The musical worship aspect of services is an important part and is often the first thing people hear when they enter your church. We may think of church as a presentation, but church is really people. Ephesians 4:11-12 says we are to equip God’s people for acts of service so the body can be built up, and this includes musicians who have been gifted to minister to God’s people through their talents.
  • Raise the standard. // For many churches it can feel like we need to pay musicians in order to get the quality of music that we want. The truth is it’s a risk to use volunteers for the worship team. And if we don’t have enough volunteers, we can be tempted to lower the standard to attract more people. Really the opposite is true. If you raise the standard, you’re going to get more volunteers because great players love to serve with great players.
  • Make changes when needed. // Rebuild the music team when things aren’t working out as you’re hoping. The Bridge Church took one step back to take two steps forward. First they scaled down their worship teams, and then they looked for people who were both excellent in their proficiency, and had great spiritual leadership. Initially these steps eliminated volunteers, but ultimately it raised the level of excellence and now they have a large pool of worship team volunteers to invite into service.
  • DVLP process. // The Bridge Church wanted to raise the standard on their volunteer worship team, but they also wanted to create a development pipeline so people could reach that standard. That pipeline is a program called DVLP which is 100% volunteer run. Each week there are 90-minute rehearsals for the worship music, and in the hour before the rehearsals DVLP happens. DVLP is a 12-week development process for anyone new to the team. It helps set new members up for success, allowing them get to know their teammates and coaches, be immersed in the culture, and learn about how everything works.
  • Don’t say no. // Someone interested in DVLP begins by completing a short form about their relationship with Jesus and their music knowledge. There is then a 10-15 minute evaluation with the individual. About 75% of the people go on to join DVLP, but for the others the team doesn’t tell people “no”, but instead “not yet.” Those interested persons may still need to grow or develop skills in some areas before this group would be right for them.
  • Encourage those you coach. // The primary role of the coaches in DVLP is not to tell the new members what they did wrong, but to train, teach and develop people, encouraging them to believe in themselves. They ask those going through DVLP what they felt that they could do better during rehearsal so that they can examine and study their own skills.
  • Learning and developing. // The end of DVLP involves evaluations for each person to see where they are and if they’re ready to graduate and begin serving on a team. Some of the main values of the team are development, learning and curiosity. Some people will go back through DVLP to coach, or to grow new aspects of their God-given potential.
  • Download the DVLP Playbook. // You can learn more through the DVLP Playbook that we have available to download. It walks the reader through the vision for DVLP as well as practical aspects of the program.

You can learn more about The Bridge Church at bridge.tv.

Thank You for Tuning In!

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https://unseminary.com/moving-from-paid-to-volunteer-music-teams-in-a-fast-growing-multisite-church-with-stone-meyer/feed/ 0 Thanks for tuning into this week’s unSeminary podcast. We’re talking with Stone Meyer, executive pastor from The Bridge Church in Tennessee. Stone is talking with us today about the musical worship part of services and how to develop excellence in your...



Thanks for tuning into this week’s unSeminary podcast. We’re talking with Stone Meyer, executive pastor from The Bridge Church in Tennessee. Stone is talking with us today about the musical worship part of services and how to develop excellence in your unpaid volunteer musicians.



* The musical worship aspect. // The musical worship aspect of services is an important part and is often the first thing people hear when they enter your church. We may think of church as a presentation, but church is really people. Ephesians 4:11-12 says we are to equip God’s people for acts of service so the body can be built up, and this includes musicians who have been gifted to minister to God’s people through their talents. * Raise the standard. // For many churches it can feel like we need to pay musicians in order to get the quality of music that we want. The truth is it’s a risk to use volunteers for the worship team. And if we don’t have enough volunteers, we can be tempted to lower the standard to attract more people. Really the opposite is true. If you raise the standard, you’re going to get more volunteers because great players love to serve with great players.* Make changes when needed. // Rebuild the music team when things aren’t working out as you’re hoping. The Bridge Church took one step back to take two steps forward. First they scaled down their worship teams, and then they looked for people who were both excellent in their proficiency, and had great spiritual leadership. Initially these steps eliminated volunteers, but ultimately it raised the level of excellence and now they have a large pool of worship team volunteers to invite into service.* DVLP process. // The Bridge Church wanted to raise the standard on their volunteer worship team, but they also wanted to create a development pipeline so people could reach that standard. That pipeline is a program called DVLP which is 100% volunteer run. Each week there are 90-minute rehearsals for the worship music, and in the hour before the rehearsals DVLP happens. DVLP is a 12-week development process for anyone new to the team. It helps set new members up for success, allowing them get to know their teammates and coaches, be immersed in the culture, and learn about how everything works.* Don’t say no. // Someone interested in DVLP begins by completing a short form about their relationship with Jesus and their music knowledge. There is then a 10-15 minute evaluation with the individual. About 75% of the people go on to join DVLP, but for the others the team doesn’t tell people “no”, but instead “not yet.” Those interested persons may still need to grow or develop skills in some areas before this group would be right for them. * Encourage those you coach. // The primary role of the coaches in DVLP is not to tell the new members what they did wrong, but to train, teach and develop people, encouraging them to believe in themselves. They ask those going through DVLP what they felt that they could do better during rehearsal so that they can examine and study their own skills.* Learning and developing. // The end of DVLP involves evaluations for each person to see where they are and if they’re ready to graduate and begin serving on a team. Some of the main values of the team are development, learning and curiosity. Some people will go back through DVLP to coach, or to grow new aspects of their God-given potential.* Download the DVLP Playbook. // You can learn more through the DVLP Playbook that we have available to download. It walks the reader through the vision for DVLP as well as practical aspects of the program.



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Inside Team Culture Development at a Fast Growing Church with Chad Asman https://unseminary.com/inside-team-culture-development-at-a-fast-growing-church-with-chad-asman/ https://unseminary.com/inside-team-culture-development-at-a-fast-growing-church-with-chad-asman/#respond Thu, 05 Aug 2021 08:44:00 +0000 https://unseminary.com/?p=479746

Welcome to this week’s unSeminary podcast. This week we’re talking with Chad Asman, executive pastor of Heritage Church just north of Detroit, Michigan. He is with us today to talk about developing team culture at your church to create future leaders.

  • Start with culture. // Heritage Church worked to create a leadership pipeline not only to develop future leaders for the church, but also anyone else in their area. Begin by identifying the talent and leaders present in the area and then work to grow them. Focus on developing the culture of the church so that it will be a place that attracts leaders.
  • Learn about your personality. // If it’s fun to be at work and you like the people you’re around, it creates great chemistry. Chemistry is one of the big points Heritage focuses on as they develop culture. Use personality tests to give staff and high level volunteers an awareness of how God has made them. Tests such as Myers Briggs, the Enneagram, StrengthsFinder, or spiritual gift assessments can help them understand how they are wired so a role can be built around their gifts and strengths. Understanding each other’s wiring also helps encourage empathy for one another and builds a foundation of communication. Taken as a whole, you’ll be able to see that your staff covers a range of gifts, strengths and personalities and how you need each other to make up the body of Christ.
  • Bridge generational gaps. // Understanding each other’s personalities has helped tremendously to bridge generational gaps on Heritage Church’s staff. Ages vary from the Gen Z and Millennial to Gen X and Boomers and it can be easy to blame differences on age. In reality it doesn’t matter what age people are, rather we need to recognize God wired us with different personalities. Underscore how the younger generation can learn from the older generation and how the older generation can equip and encourage the next generation coming up. Recognize that you are one team working together toward a common goal and you need each other.
  • Develop the DNA. // Infuse your values and philosophy into your staff and then they will help develop the DNA of the church. At Heritage Church they have staff meetings every two weeks with the essence of a leadership lesson included during that time. Once a year, usually in January, there are staff meetings weekly which focus on all of the values, and teaching phrases and slogans to remember.
  • Serve the team. // At Heritage the leadership tries to do one fun team experience every quarter. It could be anything from handing out Grubhub gift cards to the leadership grilling for the team. People love when they are thought about and cared for and these experiences bring a lot of joy to the team. Having the highest leaders in the church taking a role as a servant and serving the team is a culture-setting opportunity.
  • Be openhanded and loving. // As a senior leader do what you can to interact, coach, and care for your team. Be real with your team, love them where they’re at, and help them to be the best possible leaders they can be. Be openhanded with them and understand that the people on your team are not your resources but God’s resources.

You can learn more about Heritage Church at www.heritagechurch.com.

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]]> https://unseminary.com/inside-team-culture-development-at-a-fast-growing-church-with-chad-asman/feed/ 0 Welcome to this week’s unSeminary podcast. This week we’re talking with Chad Asman, executive pastor of Heritage Church just north of Detroit, Michigan. He is with us today to talk about developing team culture at your church to create future leaders.



Welcome to this week’s unSeminary podcast. This week we’re talking with Chad Asman, executive pastor of Heritage Church just north of Detroit, Michigan. He is with us today to talk about developing team culture at your church to create future leaders.



* Start with culture. // Heritage Church worked to create a leadership pipeline not only to develop future leaders for the church, but also anyone else in their area. Begin by identifying the talent and leaders present in the area and then work to grow them. Focus on developing the culture of the church so that it will be a place that attracts leaders.* Learn about your personality. // If it’s fun to be at work and you like the people you’re around, it creates great chemistry. Chemistry is one of the big points Heritage focuses on as they develop culture. Use personality tests to give staff and high level volunteers an awareness of how God has made them. Tests such as Myers Briggs, the Enneagram, StrengthsFinder, or spiritual gift assessments can help them understand how they are wired so a role can be built around their gifts and strengths. Understanding each other’s wiring also helps encourage empathy for one another and builds a foundation of communication. Taken as a whole, you’ll be able to see that your staff covers a range of gifts, strengths and personalities and how you need each other to make up the body of Christ.* Bridge generational gaps. // Understanding each other’s personalities has helped tremendously to bridge generational gaps on Heritage Church’s staff. Ages vary from the Gen Z and Millennial to Gen X and Boomers and it can be easy to blame differences on age. In reality it doesn’t matter what age people are, rather we need to recognize God wired us with different personalities. Underscore how the younger generation can learn from the older generation and how the older generation can equip and encourage the next generation coming up. Recognize that you are one team working together toward a common goal and you need each other.* Develop the DNA. // Infuse your values and philosophy into your staff and then they will help develop the DNA of the church. At Heritage Church they have staff meetings every two weeks with the essence of a leadership lesson included during that time. Once a year, usually in January, there are staff meetings weekly which focus on all of the values, and teaching phrases and slogans to remember.* Serve the team. // At Heritage the leadership tries to do one fun team experience every quarter. It could be anything from handing out Grubhub gift cards to the leadership grilling for the team. People love when they are thought about and cared for and these experiences bring a lot of joy to the team. Having the highest leaders in the church taking a role as a servant and serving the team is a culture-setting opportunity.* Be openhanded and loving. // As a senior leader do what you can to interact, coach, and care for your team. Be real with your team, love them where they’re at, and help them to be the best possible leaders they can be. Be openhanded with them and understand that the people on your team are not your resources but God’s resources.



You can learn more about Heritage Church at www.heritagechurch.com.



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